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Yes a couple normally don't need a third person's intervention. But some instances do demand that. In this case both of them are right. Ashu won't be able to convince Nidhi as she will feel he is biased.The man is also not good in expressing his feelings. She is agitated by the word baby.. Nidhi needs to be counselled by someone she trusts and who has no personal gains from the issue.. Since Ashu's demand has more validity it is Nidhi who has to budge in.. If I find Ashu wrong I would have suggested BB or Armaan. Shyama is better choice than DB since she herself is a lawyer and a down to earth person. Personally my wish is Nidhi realizes her husband's longing and gives a nod without any compulsion.

Yes a couple normally don't need a third person's intervention. But some instances do demand that. In this case both of them are right. Ashu won't be able to convince Nidhi as she will feel he is biased.The man is also not good in expressing his feelings. She is agitated by the word baby.. Nidhi needs to be counselled by someone she trusts and who has no personal gains from the issue.. Since Ashu's demand has more validity it is Nidhi who has to budge in.. If I find Ashu wrong I would have suggested BB or Armaan. Shyama is better choice than DB since she herself is a lawyer and a down to earth person. Personally my wish is Nidhi realizes her husband's longing and gives a nod without any compulsion.

Sujatha Rao!! This is EXACTLY what I am trying to say. The mess that this young generation is making is pathetic. There are times when I have to restrain myself from giving my patients a piece of my mind. First,these young girls want to achieve success & later when birth control pills , age & stress has taken its toll on their bodies & they can't conceive & believe me,the number is very high, they come to us & from then on the TORTURE begins for them... It not only takes a very heavy toll financially ( that they can afford ) but emotionally as well which they can't afford & this instead of bringing the spouses together, rips them apart. My two recent patients have undergone IVF 3 times with no success. They are emotional wreck. I feel like telling them that it's their own creation. I wanted them to write here but they are in no mood to do that. They are so dejected with life & the success that they have achieved. My colleague is handling a case where the couple was married 7 years ago,the wife got pregnant by accident, she was in the last year of her law, finished it & decided to pursue her career , putting motherhood aside. Did extremely well, last year her husband met with an accident & got paralysed down below. No children obviously, husband is a total emotional wreck, in deep depression, wife is no better either, only thing she keeps repeating is that why the hell did we not have a child ? Why ? Why ? Now whose fault is it ? I am actually very upset with this young generation. They have made such a mess of their lives... I am off to America tomm for a seminar & we have a very tight schedule so will be off fb for a week. Hope something good comes out of this debate. One request Kamlesh Pandeyji, don't let Ashutosh go through this torture because I feel he has suffered enough. He deserves to relive his childhood through his children.

Yes a couple normally don't need a third person's intervention. But some instances do demand that. In this case both of them are right. Ashu won't be able to convince Nidhi as she will feel he is biased.The man is also not good in expressing his feelings. She is agitated by the word baby.. Nidhi needs to be counselled by someone she trusts and who has no personal gains from the issue.. Since Ashu's demand has more validity it is Nidhi who has to budge in.. If I find Ashu wrong I would have suggested BB or Armaan. Shyama is better choice than DB since she herself is a lawyer and a down to earth person. Personally my wish is Nidhi realizes her husband's longing and gives a nod without any compulsion.

even i wish for a self realization rather than a third party intervention if possible...but if a third party has to come let it be shama ..she is the a sensible,understanding and wise human and woman ...