Was Nidhi really wrong? - Page 2

A very good and relevant post Mudra. Felt a bit sad for Nidhi. A realistic situation. Take a small break for whatever reason you will be left behind in the race. Has to face a little bit of humiliation and work hard to prove yourself. Ashu as a boss might be right. Yet not sure about his intention. Does he still think she is an impulsive bachhi.?Say it as an after effect of mallu track. I am unable to trust/judge this fellow.But a good episode and fantastic acting by SK-KK.

Originally posted by: mudraswathi

I dont have iota of doubt that Nidhi cannot handle both responsibilities successfully... But the real life problems that appear later... such as, 'which baby sitting the child should go to? ', 'how to handle the sickness of the child while the mother is away ?', 'what is the child doing at home alone when both the parents are out ?' ...etc...etc... these look very small from outside...but they have a stronger repercussion on both the mother and child...

Is it correct to ask a mother to leave her career and its growth for it ? or when she exactly leaves the career, is it correct to stamp her as 'incapable' ?

hmm as a being becuming Docter,me also thinks same! In absence of Parents who wil tc of baby? N yes if both mother n kid kept away 4 long then Mother suffers frm a disease which is very often .yes frm dat day itself behaviour matters!
No,its nt ok 2 leave ur career. N no nobody has ri8 2 say her incapable. Bt its bitter truth here! Teenagers also dnt giv respect 2 their Parents

Originally posted by: radhika72

A very good and relevant post Mudra. Felt a bit sad for Nidhi. A realistic situation. Take a small break for whatever reason you will be left behind in the race. Has to face a little bit of humiliation and work hard to prove yourself. Ashu as a boss might be right. Yet not sure about his intention. Does he still think she is an impulsive bachhi.?Say it as an after effect of mallu track. I am unable to trust/judge this fellow.But a good episode and fantastic acting by SK-KK.

Yes Radhika. If Ashutosh is shown as a sensitive boss..very fine... but as you said, we cannot trust these people. They may as well show, that Ashutosh 's real intention was to persuade Nidhi to leave the job and carry on with the motherhood or Nidhi leaves for some disgusting reason...

Originally posted by: mudraswathi

and I wish, they make the episodes more sensible rather succumbed to the TRP game...

Frankly speaking mudra di... havnt thought of it earlier... But ur post really made me think... n I must say, I'm scared... when I think of my own self or even in place of nidhi, its really difficult... life isnt that mushy always after all... I m forced 2 think, do I have to gave this... n if I have to, how will I? n wat will I choose...

Originally posted by: Aazeen02

Frankly speaking mudra di... havnt thought of it earlier... But ur post really made me think... n I must say, I'm scared... when I think of my own self or even in place of nidhi, its really difficult... life isnt that mushy always after all... I m forced 2 think, do I have to gave this... n if I have to, how will I? n wat will I choose...

Aazeen, sorry if I have scared you... but I have reacted immediately as I had faced / I am facing this problem personally...

At the same time, it is also true that, 'Where there is a will there is a way'.. My way was... done post graduation exactly after 20 years from IIT and achieved rank too.😊

Originally posted by: mudraswathi

Yes Radhika. If Ashutosh is shown as a sensitive boss..very fine... but as you said, we cannot trust these people. They may as well show, that Ashutosh 's real intention was to persuade Nidhi to leave the job and carry on with the motherhood or Nidhi leaves for some disgusting reason...

Originally posted by: mudraswathi

Aazeen, sorry if I have scared you... but I have reacted immediately as I had faced / I am facing this problem personally...

At the same time, it is also true that, 'Where there is a will there is a way'.. My way was... done post graduation exactly after 20 years from IIT and achieved rank too.😊

oh great... way 2 learn 4m u...👏👏👏... yes u r right... where there is a will, there is a way... N u dont need 2 b sorry 4 scaring me... I keep having these kind of hearty convos wid my mom... I really feel parenting while working is a real tough job... u have plenty of issues to handle.. ur household, family,work , children... n the biggest one is properly bringing them up when u know, ur spending time at wrk wen ur children r at home... I salute my mom at times... bas yahi sochke darr lagta h k will I b able to do this or not...

Originally posted by: Aazeen02

oh great... way 2 learn 4m u...👏👏👏... yes u r right... where there is a will, there is a way... N u dont need 2 b sorry 4 scaring me... I keep having these kind of hearty convos wid my mom... I really feel parenting while working is a real tough job... u have plenty of issues to handle.. ur household, family,work , children... n the biggest one is properly bringing them up when u know, ur spending time at wrk wen ur children r at home... I salute my mom at times... bas yahi sochke darr lagta h k will I b able to do this or not...

just think about her agony, when even after doing several things simultaneously efficiently, if her colleagues do not trust her giving responsible duties!!

Originally posted by: mudraswathi

just think about her agony, when even after doing several things simultaneously efficiently, if her colleagues do not trust her giving responsible duties!!

Seriously di... u know it takes guts coming bak 2 the tracks u left a time back... I myself had faced it... whwn I wasnt able to clear one of my competetive exams, n I came back as a dropper... my batchmates had surpassed me... n I was always been treated the way nidhi was treated in the hospital, specially by jyotika... But I believe, if u come up wid a bang, u will shut everybody's mouth... dat was wat I did that time... n I came up wid being one of the toppers of my class... n m very sure nidhi is capable of doing much more better tha what she can... n den ashu too may believe, she is the deserving one...