Originally posted by: ltelidevara
Grace
You are right when you said Sona should not be forced to act against her ch But I have a sincere doubt Why can't she Why can't she disclose her heart before Dev and tell him every truth? Why can't she tell him that definitely he is her love and she has no second thought about it Having said so she can tell him she can't marry him again as she doesn't want to take any risk' Dev would have understood her point and appreciated her.
Sonakshi should have told Iswari that she can try but she can not force Dev, Then Sonakshi would have left the option to Dev himself whether to move ahead or not'
Here Dev also is pressurised to enact the drama against his will If Sona did not force him Dev would have been saved from this tension ' Soha also is facing the heat. She is not an adult How could she withstand the pressure of seeing her father date another girl before her eyes?
Grace the reason for this hopeless situation is lack of transperancy .Both of them are suffering now
Sona can be true to her ch by not taking risk if she had given importance to her other ch traits also like frankness transperancy etc that Bijoy Bose boasts as Bose family traits though they are not so in reality
Lakshmi
Lakshmi...sorry. I think since this was during the weekend, i missed to reply to this, in the last thread.
I also want Sona to open up. Till the moment Sona cried out infront of Dev's photo, I also was of the opinion that why can't she, atleast in a harsh manner, give it left & right to Dev, for messing up their lives. But, since her breakdown, the facade Sona used to wear started crumbling down...If you notice, there was a gradual change in her makeup & attire too...She had started sharing her feelings with Dev slowly...But when suddenly Ishwari asked her to force Dev for marriage, she immediately put on her guard. This is because it reminded her past days, where she was not the right choice for Ishwari and what all followed thereafter. And she again started building her facade, when Asha reminded her that Sona still loves Dev. She doesn't know why Ishwari made her do this. In Sona's view, Ishwari has asked her this favour so that Ishwari can get rid of Sona, while on the same time Asha's mention on Sona's love prompted her to think that she can't take a step in her love, as Ishwari is not in approval with it. On top of it, Bijoy was proved right, the last two times (means after returning from IN, after their first visit, Bijoy had warned her to rethink about her relation with Dev; and that night the first break-up happens. Second time also, Bijoy agreed half-heartedly only; and again the end result was their breakup). That's why the poor girl is getting suffocated between her heart's & mind's desire. She never expected Dev to proceed with marriage so fast. And even before she gets time to register all these, one by one everything is happening and she is getting shocked to the core. So, the shocks & the fears together is creating a havoc in her mind, that she is not in the right sense to take a decision. That's why I think, only Dev or Dev & Nisha together can help her, by breaking the engagement.
Edited by grace4317 - 8 years ago