*Season 2, Week 12* Analysis Threade - Page 31

Honestly I am liking the way CV's are showng the various aspects o human mind and relations. and the parallel Cv's are showing. In s2 they should focus on Asha more. Becuase she is the key or dev and sona's reunion. Now coming to the whole theft by Dev by Bijoy . Bijoy was overreacted and and sona is having a very strong wall bulid around her own real felling and she is able to assurance herself that dev does't affect her. And it is true he has become the dev dixit of s1. Now about the fight between dev sona and baba is the good start because more they speck about their feeling more they will be at peace. I am realy happy that dev specks for his mind and his reason for the anger on the sona. The anger is right or wrong but the different aspect bout it is true bijoy cannot say any thing on the comment that he don't want dev and sona should be together.On that bose family doesn't give any comment . Now coming to jatin at this point he is positive he has supported sona but still he has not seen the sona which was with dev and how she was happy. Some how coming day's are going to be difficult for Bose family when Mrs. Mandal is going to be more active. And the truth of the theft will come out in front of bijoy. I want to see how he behave with ronita. Because there is no second chance in bijoy's case. Now coming to the precap I am happy that now sona is going to speck about her struggle when he is telling dev how janit is the part of bose family .There is need of that she is holding herself for a long time where she is afraid that that her week side will be visible. I am hoping after knowing her struggle and after knowing the help done by jatin Dev will say thank you to him and he should let go the things . I know he is not behaving like Ishu and he will never behave like that because he could be passive or insecure but he is selfless to whom he love. He relay needs a mother like asha who will guide him.

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

agree with above except the first point. Please look at it from Dev's point of view. Neha was his sister and was being tortured. Sona was not being tortured and still left, (as per him) . Ishwari too has the same rant. They completely forget Neha while talking about the way a DIL should behave. This is double standards at its best and is actually quite prevalent. Why do you think makers emphasised on UP brahmin family so much? I am from North India and I know what I am saying.

But I am not sure I am able to explain it properly. See agreeing in principle that women have equal rights and accepting a hit on male ego that my wife rejected me are not one and the same thing.

@DQ but somewhere along the line, Sona being his child's mother gave him the confidence that it wasn't possible for her to move on. He immediately became assured and lax with respect to Sona after that. That was somehow a product of his conservative upbringing.

On the contrary Payal I think you are making absolute sense. I know what you are saying here.

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

On the contrary Payal I think you are making absolute sense. I know what you are saying here.

Till the point Sonakshi was a young beautiful successful divorcee, she was an eligible spinster and he was hurting that Sonakshi has moved on (with Jatin). When she told him that Jatin is her friend and she has no plans to remarry he calmed down. When he found out she is a single mother of a 6 year old he calmed down further

I am saying, that is not Dev Dixit and that is not Devakshi love story either. Today, if Sona was to marry a man who says he wants nothing to do with Soha and for argument's sake, Sonakshi agrees, Dev will have less of a problem(In fact he will still have a problem because Suhana still wants to live with her mother and father). Ofcourse the lover in him is hurting, but his sole focus right now is Suhana. He knows Suhana has had a fulfilling childhood without him and he hates being the spare tyre. He wants a meaningful relationship with his daughter and wants to hedge any risks that come in the way. The biggest risk right now being Jatin.

Jatin is a risk not only because he is close to Suhana. But also, because he is close to this family and any marraige interests from Sona's part will mean, Jatin could slide into Suhana's dad's position.

The lover in Dev is very very raw. So is Sonakshi. She was equally affected by his interests in other women. However, they have both given up on that front. But their relationship with Suhana is very much alive and unfolding

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

Thanks for articulating what I was trying to say.

But I feel that we will have to agree to disagree on this one. If Sona tomorrow wants to marry another guy and let Dev have Sohas custody will be it ok with Dev? In my opinion, No. .

Originally posted by: Narshi21

@Payal

I think if Dev is sure of Sonakshi's feelings for another person he will definitely let her go. Dev will be devastated but if he knows Sonakshi loves another man (like a woman loves a man) then he won't hold her back.

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

Let me twist it slightly. Suppose Sona agrees to marry another guy, hand over sohas custody to Dev and Dev is sure that Sona doesn't love that other person but is doing it just to move on in life or to keep her father happy or to get rid of daily fights or to make Ishwari happy or any other xyz reason, will it be ok with Dev? Will he be happy to get Suhana for himself or try to stop Sona?

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

No Payal he wont. Because Suhana wants both her parents. However, even if Dev stops her for his love, it doesnt make this couple bound by orthodox thoughts