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havima

@havima

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#21

From the bottom of my heart i truly wish all the happiness u deserve in ur life. I cannot imagine anyone enduring abuse so long and still emerge strong. Am in awe of ur immense courage nd ur struggle makes me appreciate my own life. Stay blessed may god be with u always🤗

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Suvika.

@Suvika.

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 8 years ago

#22

A true live example of a woman rebuilding herself, stronger than before. Standing tall in the face of constant adversary. Kudos to you!! 👏 👏

Preethi is right. It is very tough to see the glass half full all the time.

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Deepa

@deepsel

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

#23

Holy heaven my dear, you deserve a standing ovation 🤗

It takes immense strength even to write this and more to relive those horrendous past but the way you are smiling now after taming the destiny is what your real strength Rock !!👏 Somewhere I feel guilty now for making to relive your horrific past , sorry for that hon but I do take pride that you decided to share your life for showing the youngsters where to draw the line !! Physical abuse is serious issue and I cannot fathom how broken you would have felt both emotionally and physically and to rise high from that is no easy feat!

You rised from the ashes like phoenix and my immense respect to you my friend and am sure your son will grow into a smart young man who will know how to treat woman in future because you are an inspiration 👏

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

#24

No, Sumuki. All men are not the same. There are men like Jatin too. It all depends on how they are raised. I am married to a very liberal guy (well, he is not Indian. He is Canadian). But it's always better to get to know one another, clear your expectations before marriage. Make sure you understand where you stand in terms of future planning, children, career etc. Having an open conversation sometimes helps to figure out what you are willing to put up with and where you draw the line and vice versa.

Maintaining financial independence, as Rock mentioned, is added security. That's your way to control the situation. So do not give that up.

A lot of women don't ask the right questions in fear of coming off as nosy or nagging or controlling. Forget those ideas. Ask questions, lots of questions.

For example, before my husband proposed to me, I told him that I want to take care of my mother. She need not live in our house, but she has to live nearby and I will pay for her expenses. I gave my husband an honest choice before he bought a ring. He chose me and my happiness. So now we don't argue about what I will be doing for my mother. It all got sorted before marriage. Same with children, career, life goals. I discussed everything and asked everything so that I or him doesn't get a shock after marriage.

This is just an example on how open communication helps sort out future arguments. You need not have the same conversation. But have a conversation that's relevant to you. All the best.

Originally posted by: Sumuki
Thank you so much for all the inspiration and making young people like us who are soon going to get married realise what is the reality and how it is vital for women to be financially independent and but tbh i am super scared to get married also becos i really believe all men are the same and they all kinda not so understanding.

Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago

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keya75

@keya75

Beginner

Posted: 8 years ago

#25

Hi, your story got tears to my eyes.. very courageous and heartfelt..Way you go.. you are an inspiration.. thanks a lot for telling us your story.. proud of you..

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sona_naksh

@sona_naksh

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#26

Hats off to u
whatever u have done demands extraordinary strength ...

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rock&roll

@rock&roll

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#27

First of all I would like to thank each and everyone of u who has read,liked and replied to this post.This kind of response was unexpected and is overwhelming😃.I had tears in my eyes when I read some of the comments 😳😳😳I have always maintained that people (friends and family)were and are my biggest strength...Ur response and support today has reinforced that thought.Thank u one and all😃

A big hug to all of u🤗🤗🤗

Originally posted by: Kavidhruv
Respect and love ! I walked out and asked for a divorce. I could not see my autistic son beaten up so I told him bye and divorce

First of all a big hug to u my dear🤗🤗..Thank u for ur support 😊.I can only imagine what u must have gone through...Hats of to u for taking a decision and standing by it..Isn't that what strength is all about?..Wish u all happiness always😃...Yes,beating up children is always the last straw in any abusive relationship...Mercifully my husband does not do that

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rock&roll

@rock&roll

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: preethik

I see you as a perfect example of a strong lady! Looking at glass half full is a rare trait.

Thank u soo very much dear..That is so sweet of u😃😳😳

I wish you all the happiness in the world!

On a side note all the stories on the forum makes me appreciate what I have even more than before!

Wish u all the very best too...And wish u all the happiness life can ever give u...U have a rare trait too..the trait of being able to appreciate what u have...and that is a huge blessing coz it will always keep u happy...😃

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rock&roll

@rock&roll

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: anitarani
Amazing story...you're a winner...
Continue to be strong...and let your light
shine...

Thank u very much for ur support and good wishes...It means a lot😃

Edited by rock&roll - 8 years ago

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Drcs

@Drcs

Navigator

Posted: 8 years ago

#30

wow..dear your are an inspiration...I always wonder when people after undergoing trauma decides to stay in an abused marriage...after reading your story, I realised, we all have our comfort zones which we can't and need not explain to others...others may find staying in such a relationship as spinelessness but I salute you, you need immense courage to do what you have done and succeeded also...🤗🤗🤗

Godbless you and your son and of course your husband also...everyone has their strength and weakness..you have identified his weaknesses that's what have made you to stay with him...I am sure he will realise you are much more precious than money and from that day onward he will adore you...mark my words...then there will not be no go back for you...

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