My story:a real life experience - Page 9

Originally posted by: Jade0001

Your story inspire millions

Thank u dear🤗

I have known my whole life that woman are powerful once they make their minds and hearts strong they surely can achieve anything and everything

Absolutely agree with u

Its also true sometime in life we chose the wrong partner and again I believe its the woman that can make that marriage strong or just break it

men are not strong yes they only physically strong

women that stays on in a battered marriage its not because she is weak to walk out but she has the strength to withstand the turbulence and trials of her marriage .

I believe such woman are the greatest they stand tall , strong with dignity raise their kids with respect and its those kids that live their lives by principal honoring their parents especially their mums knowing her struggles and fight to be the best she can be

Very well said..👏👏👏..Nothing to add here..😃

I know ur mom also is one such woman..I remember u sharing her story...Respect 😊

You indeed a remarkable woman

All the very best and sincere wishes with great success for your future ventures

God Bless Always

Thank u once again😃

Originally posted by: rcoza

Well it seems you have settled yourself with your situation and all the best for future and take care wish you had when in USA to dial 911 when you were being abused you would have gotten help within 5 mins plus there are indian and other organizations who come to immediate help hope who reads and need help can make use of it when in america u had the best opportunity to get justice

Originally posted by: Sutapasima

Thanks for sharing what you have gone thru my dear friend . ...you have educated girls like me ...

I learnt a lot reading this .. will definitely protest when we fall in similar situations

we learn from others experiences

not all marriages are rosy

Originally posted by: reachanupama

You are a true winner. Lots of hugs and respect to you for standing tall during troubled times. I have this immense trust in God that he will give you all the happiness you deserve.

Originally posted by: john_sanj

Thanks alot for sharing your story, I salute you. I got so emotional and I couldn't stop crying.
Wow you are a very strong and brave woman. May god always bless you with more strength and good health.

Thank u my dear😊
Just one question: how old is your son, and why don't you leave this husband now? I mean you have been through bad phases, and you havnt got anything from this marriage. I just feel sad thinking that why woman suffer all the time and why only woman has to think about family honor.

Originally posted by: A.K.Aggarwal

I am crying N ur re a very strong woman who handled this situation I dont knw wht I wld hv done bt I agree marriage is a very important part of life bt only a part nt ur entirely life n I salute ur courage n d way u fought back

Thank u dear😳
A lot of ladies face this though ur hubby is a jerk(don't mind) bt i hv seen ppl hit in fit of rage bt nt tht consistent like once or twice in a year when they hv arguments at my uncle's place n I was devastated n somewhere lost faith in d institution of marriage n next tym i saw them all lovey dovey so I guess in their case it was some bad timing n anger bt still love bt and then is hitting justified even if u re angry n something is goin wrong
Hope no1 goes through such or any kind of pain n domestic violence

Respect

Originally posted by: fj2780

Can't believe this!! How some people could be megalomaniac (longing for power and authority), paranoid whatever could define such irrational behaviors or mental illness. But its a reality that only married couple could understand and very difficult for outsiders to comprehend.

Bravo!! that you chose to be equal on all plains with your so called husband. Its just that a slight imbalance or inferiority of one over another could result in the stronger person over-powering the other. Its just impossible and foolish to believe such maniacs or be transparent with such people...no use, it only fires back later on.

It could be bad upbringing or male chauvinistic society which has deeply affected his mind. Such ppl never change as seed is planted from the brought up family and environment.

Spending long time with the oppressor results in Stockholm syndrome, that's why he's adorable at times, though their true nature is just waiting behind a seemingly trivial issue to come up. Marriage is all a matter of luck. Not may are gifted with marital bliss. Once the child comes into life, its all the more difficult to make decisions.

Only one thing to say, Live and let live. No one should be treated as inferior or an object of oppression. Such people need to be dragged for a serious therapy. No matter what you do, there is no trust factor and you're always considered wrong and you could be never right no matter how good you be or whatever you do for him or for the sake of family. Outright Paranaoia!!

Originally posted by: smilydear

Thanks for sharing your story with us. You indeed is a strong women. Good luck . 👏

Originally posted by: coolmeet

Mera dil bohot zoron se dhadak raha hai... mujhe dar sa lag raha hai... strange.

My elder sister had also gone through all this.But unki life mein reason was her mil.(Krpkab )

Though my Jijaji never hit her or may be didi ne humein bataya Na ho.

I don't know what to say.

U are also a strong woman like my sister. 👏

I can actually feel your pain , frustration.

But today my sister is happy with her sons .MIL bhi theek ho gayee hain as now Meri di ke Naam par large property hai that too in Delhi.Toh kisko himmat hai CP ko Kuch kahne ki.

Money matters this much hum logon ko ab pata Chala.

Stay blessed.