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Sonal99

@Sonal99

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#31

You are intelligent, resilient and resourceful!!!

May you be blessed with lots of happiness.

Thank you for sharing.

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Becca

@Becca

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#32

My eyes are wet. Kudos to your courage and resilience. Divorce is not the solution at all. We women have to fight it out at all points in our lives. God give us courage.

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Maya_Dutt

@Maya_Dutt

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Posted: 8 years ago

#33

Thank you so much for sharing your story, thjs gesture itself shows how strong a woman you are. A really inspiring story for women in general to not give up ever and dind their path to success, self respect and independence.

Big hug to you, wish you and your son all the best.

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rock&roll

@rock&roll

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: yyy
You are one strong lady ...hats off to you
Thank u very much dear😊

I wanted to respond to Deepa's thread but got busy ...if people want to know what real strong women is they should read some online forum where real women share their stories.Its heartbreaking to read how women are treated and how they cope with these society's double standards.Serials or movies can never do justice and don't show what reality is

I completely agree with u..People often feel that serials exaggerate the plight of women ...but I feel that most serials don't do justice to the actual struggles that women go through...Unfortunately serials project women as ultra manipulative or as doormats..Reality is somewhere in between...And of course,all's well that ends well in the reel world...But in the real world,we carve out our own pie of happiness from the crap that is dished out to us.

Society's double standards are indeed appalling.We fight for our children and against our husbands and society(That is the way I see it from where I stand).We have to push hard enough to find our way and yet not push so hard that our children are hurt.Life is seemingly all about finding this balance

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San

@sanw

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#35

OMG,

Long post but not as long as you have sufferred

for many its your life story, but for you its your life experience

Hat off to you for going through all this and ending you narrative with "HAPPINESS"

Great to have people like you around who can be an inspiration to many

In our society, there are many people and incidences better or worse than yours but to become an inspiration and a guide take courage!

Hats off dear

and All the best in Life

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Samzz

@Samzz

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Posted: 8 years ago

#36

No words to express👏👏 I just heard about phoenixes now I am seeing one.

And one thing which I wanted to tell all those people who tell lying low is cowardice..its just the silence of a tiger who is ready to pounce and roar..

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BeOptimistic

@allizzwell

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

#37

Total respect and admiration for u dear🤗

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rock&roll

@rock&roll

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: -Raz-
Wow. Honestly, I don't want to be judgemental.
But first let me tell you that you are indeed a very strong woman, and today in this day and age I am surprised that you are still living with your husband. That's definitely not an easy thing to do, and contrary to that leaving him isn't easy either.

U know,there are days when I am quite surprised myself that I am still in this relationship(if u can call it that)Unfortunately or fortunately,when we become mothers we think for two people and we always think for our children first...I closely observe my son , his behaviour,his spoken and unspoken feelings...I have got the impression that he wants to continue having his father in his life...Maybe this is partly because he is unaware of what went on in my life before he was born...or maybe it is because as a son he more forgiving and accepts the Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde behaviour of my husband more easily...Whatever the reason,his happiness always comes first..If he wants his father,he will continue having him(as long as having the father is not detrimental to him)...As for me,I can take my own decision reassessing the situation once he is 18 or 20.

I pray that now in life you find peace and continual happiness, and that is why I always say education is VERY important a woman(or man I dont want to sound like a feminist). But I tend to believe and based on my personal experiences, women tend to live harder lives; people expect way more from a woman than from a man..and only thing that can change a situation is education and independence. Also education is an asset NO ONE can take away from You, and your lifetime experience has shown that. Be strong girl! Much love

I so agree with u..My education was my biggest asset..It helped find my feet when I could have simply sunk..It helped me regain lost confidence,respect and strength..It gave me back my life...Society still has a long long way to go before a man and a woman's lives can be evaluated equally

Thank u dear for ur wonderful and encouraging words😳

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rock&roll

@rock&roll

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: life93
Hi 😃

Your story has instilled a different confidence in me. Thanks for Sharing.

Ur most welcome..Wonderful to know that my experience has made a difference to you😊..

May god bless you n ur son with every happiness. * touchwood 😃

Thank u dear..Wish u all the happiness in the world too..God bless😊

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aadk

@aadk

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#40

Thank you Rock for sharing this story of yours! I know what it must have taken to be penning this down!

You are the finest example of unearthing one's dormant strength and then building oneself piece by piece. To be able to create one's own oasis when thrown into a desert is a hard hard thing to do! Kudos to your strength and that selfless love that you carry in your heart for your son! May your son grow up to be all that had ever wished to see in a man! :)

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