My story:a real life experience - Page 2

But first let me tell you that you are indeed a very strong woman, and today in this day and age I am surprised that you are still living with your husband. That's definitely not an easy thing to do, and contrary to that leaving him isn't easy either. I pray that now in life you find peace and continual happiness, and that is why I always say education is VERY important a woman(or man I dont want to sound like a feminist). But I tend to believe and based on my personal experiences, women tend to live harder lives; people expect way more from a woman than from a man..and only thing that can change a situation is education and independence. Also education is an asset NO ONE can take away from You, and your lifetime experience has shown that. Be strong girl! Much love

There is so much strength in your story. I just have one request to make. Please keep telling your son that this is not normal behaviour and he can't hit a woman like that. I have seen my own father behave rudely and hit my mother when I was a kid. Now I am older I realise it is because he grew up in a family where domestic violence was normal. What is worse is my own dadi encouraged him to hit wife and kids . Keep in mind both my father and mother are very educated. I understand where everyone is coming from but don't encourage it.

That being said he is also a rare example of a case where a man can change, then again if he did that shit still I will be the first one to call the cops.

Luckily as annoying as my bro finds my constant lectures I teach him not to treat women rudely and respect them. And treat them the way he will want his own sister to be treated. Such education starts at home. So as amazing and educated your son may be, he may have noticed behaviour he may emulate later. Better to keep teaching him examples of what NOT to do in his married life in future.