*Season 2, Week 6* Analysis Thread - Page 26

Originally posted by: jasw

I really didn't understand Dev's motive in making Sona run around here and there. It's not that Dev made effort to find Sona in the last 7 years and Sona was avoiding him by changing places.

Ishwari's dialog about children are like marble and she can sculpt the marble makes a dangerous connotation. We know what an expert she is in this game. She has been moulding her son and now wants to mould Soha. What would happen to Sona, I wonder.

I am waiting for Dev's reaction when it gets disclosed tomorrow that Ishwari was the one who refused Sona an entry to Dixit mansion. Will he do something or will it be swept under the carpet just like the signed prenup document.

I so want Dev to change .. not the jeans but the dependent genes! Fingers crossed.

Originally posted by: gmgi

Laxmi, I agree that there were other feasible ways for her to contact Dev and make him realise. But Dev didn't check about his wife n his in laws who were thrown out of their home and she still kept everything including her ego n pride aside for their daughter to come to their home from where she was asked to leave and even after her attempt if he didn't make n attempt to check on her then how can we blame her. Her behaviour after coming back to Delhi is another story but for that first attempt I would not blame her if it was not enough. There is only so much that you can do.

Originally posted by: Drcs

agree with you dear...Yes Dev now knows that his mother is a manipulator...she has sabotaged his married life...he is a smart guy so he knows, he is surrounded by enemies in his own household...now what? what he can do? can he throw his mother out from the house? will she allow him to throw GKB and party from the house? sometimes our hands are tied and we will be under self-imposed constraints...only thing you can do is let the other person change if not bear the all the brunt by yourself...this is exactly what CVs are showing...in real life it's very difficult to take bold decisions even if you know you are correct...because sometime as the time change what you felt correct would become the most foolish decision you have taken...as it is said time heals the wounds, he is waiting for his mother to change...if that doesn't happen he will bury himself in his own sorrows...does that make him a weak person? a big NO... showing compassion to others at the expense of your own happiness is actually the greatest virtue of mankind...only a few possess this quality that's why they are always ridiculed...

Originally posted by: gmgi

Laxmi, I agree that there were other feasible ways for her to contact Dev and make him realise. But Dev didn't check about his wife n his in laws who were thrown out of their home and she still kept everything including her ego n pride aside for their daughter to come to their home from where she was asked to leave and even after her attempt if he didn't make n attempt to check on her then how can we blame her. Her behaviour after coming back to Delhi is another story but for that first attempt I would not blame her if it was not enough. There is only so much that you can do.

Originally posted by: gmgi

Shaun, I will try to explain what I understood. Soha was treated like an adult by the Boses. Just like we need space when we are upset they gave her space. Also I think Soha bears her heart only to Sona. Soha would not have just said what happened but there were so many questions that she might have asked and Sona knew that. She was not prepared to answer those and Sona would have wanted a heart to heart talk with her. For that she needed to know where Dev stand. Because Sona would have to answer on his behalf. Don't take into account what she said to her father. Because she was speaking only what he wanted to hear. She knew Dev is impulsive and had to make him stop from making anymore moves because of Soha. She knew she had wronged both her daughter and Dev and wanted to sort the mess before it gets uglier. If she had not gone and if Ishwari got involved the whole thing would have gotten out of hand. She knew she would be able to deal with Dev but not his family. It was damage control but something that she could have avoided if she had taken action earlier.

Originally posted by: jasw

Thanks for your reply.

Yes, compassion is good but here because of his compassion towards his family his actual family(wife and daughter) is suffering. He is failing as family man.

PS.In the dictionary, the definition of a family man :A man devoted to taking care of his wife and children.

He has suffered a lot because of this. My question is how long does he have to suffer?

Originally posted by: Shaavi

What Dev always wanted from Sonakshi was for her to reciprocate the relationship, the want to be with him same as he is. He wanted her to fight for him as he does for her. What I mean to say is not that Sonakshi did not try or give a lot for the relationship.

In the first episodes of the series she fights with him regarding the job opportunity he gives, but then joins saying she came there for his mom. Then in the episode just before the holi episode, Ishwari eats oily food and gets sick. Dev blames Sonakshi and tells her how could she let his mom eat that and also says you should have found a way. She retorts saying I did not come to you to ask for this job and if you think someone else is better than me, hire them. But after the holi episode, she returns back by herself saying she does not like to leave her job unfinished. He remarks that "good, at least you are dedicated towards your job".

This is what Dev was expecting Sonakshi to do in their relationship. Not give up. Fight for it. Give all of her as she did with her job. Show him his mistakes, and stay with him. When he said leave, he expected her to ask why. For him it was one more of their arguments. He thought that Sonakshi understood him and knew him. From his perspective she should not have just taken his words at face value just like how she did with her job as nutritionist. When he wanted to hire her, that was one of the things that Dr. Sinha tells about her to Dev, that she makes even sense he worst case of patient to follow diet. Dev wanted her to show the same tenacity towards their relationship.

He had seen Sonakshi wait in the parking lot and fight with her patient to make him follow the diet. Argue with him in public. He wanted this attitude from her(not the public fighting part, but once again being dedicated towards him come what may).

After Neha's marriage when he talks to her on the phone, he tells her he does not need to use filters with her and that he could say anything that came to mind. And she was the only person with whom he could do that. Dev thought Sonakshi understood that about him.

This is what Dev was expecting from her, to show him his place, for her to excercise her right and say "how dare you, I am not going anywhere". From his perspective if she could do all those things for her patients, find ways to get them to follow diet, make his mom who is stubborn to follow the diet, why didn't she do that to make the relationship work. Why she did not find ways to reach him.

Hope I made sense. 😃

Originally posted by: Shaavi

What Dev always wanted from Sonakshi was for her to reciprocate the relationship, the want to be with him same as he is. He wanted her to fight for him as he does for her. What I mean to say is not that Sonakshi did not try or give a lot for the relationship.

In the first episodes of the series she fights with him regarding the job opportunity he gives, but then joins saying she came there for his mom. Then in the episode just before the holi episode, Ishwari eats oily food and gets sick. Dev blames Sonakshi and tells her how could she let his mom eat that and also says you should have found a way. She retorts saying I did not come to you to ask for this job and if you think someone else is better than me, hire them. But after the holi episode, she returns back by herself saying she does not like to leave her job unfinished. He remarks that "good, at least you are dedicated towards your job".

This is what Dev was expecting Sonakshi to do in their relationship. Not give up. Fight for it. Give all of her as she did with her job. Show him his mistakes, and stay with him. When he said leave, he expected her to ask why. For him it was one more of their arguments. He thought that Sonakshi understood him and knew him. From his perspective she should not have just taken his words at face value just like how she did with her job as nutritionist. When he wanted to hire her, that was one of the things that Dr. Sinha tells about her to Dev, that she makes even sense he worst case of patient to follow diet. Dev wanted her to show the same tenacity towards their relationship.

He had seen Sonakshi wait in the parking lot and fight with her patient to make him follow the diet. Argue with him in public. He wanted this attitude from her(not the public fighting part, but once again being dedicated towards him come what may).

After Neha's marriage when he talks to her on the phone, he tells her he does not need to use filters with her and that he could say anything that came to mind. And she was the only person with whom he could do that. Dev thought Sonakshi understood that about him.

This is what Dev was expecting from her, to show him his place, for her to excercise her right and say "how dare you, I am not going anywhere". From his perspective if she could do all those things for her patients, find ways to get them to follow diet, make his mom who is stubborn to follow the diet, why didn't she do that to make the relationship work. Why she did not find ways to reach him.

Hope I made sense. 😃