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Samanalyse

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Posted: 8 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: vayu_prachi

P.S. Sam Di ur analysis and writing is always spot on!!
Even I was taken aback at the negativity Bijoy still had!!
He still hasn't understood the meaning of let go!!!
I hope this new phase will also let us see a journey of Bijoy Bose as of Ishwari and other central characters

Thank you! Glad you like the thread 😃

Bijoy scared me most of all the characters in yesterday's episode. He still harbours so much anger and resentment towards Dev and the Dixits. As they say, hate is not the opposite of love, indifference is. Bijoy is simply not there, and is speaking out of fear rather than courage, unlike his sensible, sensitive wife. He has already done a lot of harm to Sona's relationships with this bitterness, and now, Soha is the one who stands to lose by it.

Something else that struck me was how easily both Sona and Bijoy separated Sona and Dev's marriage from Soha's birth. How can Sona and Dev's marriage be termed as a mistake when she considers Soha the best thing that happened to her? I am not faulting Sona for telling her daughter that she had to leave the marriage -- that is totally justified -- but to say that it was a mistake to go through with it in the first place... kids pick up on subliminal or mixed messages, and that could be really confusing.

Bijoy's "I told you so" attitude has already done this for Sona. It has convinced her that their marriage was a mistake from the beginning, one that Bijoy caught and she missed. And distance has allowed her to shore up this perception with everything that Dev did wrong in their marriage, but that's the tricky thing about memory... sometimes it helps you block out what you don't want to remember.

Sona marrying Dev was not a mistake, and their marriage was not doomed from its inception. It was torn down, piece by piece, by those who were supposed to care about them the most, and Bijoy had no small role in this destruction. But Sona's entire purpose has become to elevate her family's honour beyond libel, so she won't remember it that way. It's an interesting commentary on how we tend to narrativise things in our heads to serve our particular purpose.

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_Payalj_

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Posted: 8 years ago

#32

Yesterday the walls of Ishwari's room were shown dirty. What did the cvs wanted to portray that she has now the position of a second grade citizen in the house with money already being taken over by tripathis or that Ishwari doesn't want to change anything - as a reminder of the time when she had the perfect son.

Because the way gkb and vicky are, they would have thrown out the Dixits long ago if they had managed to take over the money. Dev might not be caring about the business any more leading to vicky having a high position but seems everything is still owned by him

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LiveLife321

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Posted: 8 years ago

#33

@Sam, When some thing goes wrong in our lives, we need to do introspection and while doing that what question we ask ourselves precisely decides our future course of action. Here I think Sona asked herself How can he did this to me? instead of why he did this to me? Just my 2 cents.😊

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Samanalyse

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Posted: 8 years ago

#34

@Payal: Everything Ishwari feared would happen because of Sona has happened in her absence. Without Dev there, I think Ishwari too has lost interest in being the woman of the house, and has left that entirely to GKB. Otherwise, it was never difficult for Ishwari to crush anyone who threatened her power, Sona being a case in point.

I'm incredibly eager to see how Dev's business is functioning at the moment. I won't comment until we know a little more about that situation, but something tells me Dev isn't as careless as he comes off. My ideal situation: Dev perceived that everyone saw him as an ATM and didn't really care for him as a person, so he continues to run the business and bring in the money, but dropped the facade of being the ideal son, brother, nephew etc.

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coolmeet

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Posted: 8 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: Samanalyse
@Payal: Everything Ishwari feared would happen because of Sona has happened in her absence. Without Dev there, I think Ishwari too has lost interest in being the woman of the house, and has left that entirely to GKB. Otherwise, it was never difficult for Ishwari to crush anyone who threatened her power, Sona being a case in point.

I'm incredibly eager to see how Dev's business is functioning at the moment. I won't comment until we know a little more about that situation, but something tells me Dev isn't as careless as he comes off. My ideal situation: Dev perceived that everyone saw him as an ATM and didn't really care for him as a person, so he continues to run the business and bring in the money, but dropped the facade of being the ideal son, brother, nephew etc.

And I really don't want to see Vicky running Dev Dixit's huge empire.

How can Vicky run?

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_Payalj_

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Posted: 8 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: LiveLife321
@Sam, When some thing goes wrong in our lives, we need to do introspection and while doing that what question we ask ourselves precisely decides our future course of action. Here I think Sona asked herself How can he did this to me? instead of why he did this to me? Just my 2 cents.😊

That's normal human behaviour and reaction. Over a period of time brain dulls the facts and only emotions remain. Also the more painful emotions and scenes associated with them would be on the forefront, balance would be relegated to the back seat. Also we only remember what absolves or what comforts us and proves us right. Brain's natural self preservation mechanism

Like she would have forgotten the way first Dev pleaded with her at the farmhouse but would clearly remember each word of his said latet

Also, I think the most painful memory in Sona's brain would always be where Dev asked her to get out in front of everone. That was the most hurtful thing Dev did ever to her and he didn't even realise the correct implication of his words.

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Samanalyse

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Posted: 8 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: LiveLife321
@Sam, When some thing goes wrong in our lives, we need to do introspection and while doing that what question we ask ourselves precisely decides our future course of action. Here I think Sona asked herself How can he did this to me? instead of why he did this to me? Just my 2 cents.😊

Instead of introspecting at all, I think she just let herself be guided by Bijoy's view of the world. He declared that this happened because Dev was spineless, but Sona was too blinded by her love to see it at first. She bought into Bijoy's perspective, I think, because she was just too tired to think on her own and continue empathising with, and accomodating Dev's behaviour. It was much easier to paint Dev and Ishwari as villains, and feel validated as the ideal daughter, fighting agianst the world for her father's honour. She excels at that, and Sona's personality is such that she needs to excel to be content in herself.

Tangential point: To be very honest, I didn't totally understand why the money had to be repaid in the first place. Dev made an investment in their company, and as a result, would have been entitled to a share of their profits. Sona and the Boses didn't actually do anything wrong, and Dev was well aware of this, so they should have stood by this conviction and demanded an apology from Ishwari and GKB. Instead they seemed to validate the accusation by returning the money, just so that "people" wouldn't talk. To my eyes, that doesn't really hold up to the high moral standards the Boses preach; it's more a question of ego.

I don't think it would have come to that for Sona, but for the accidental slap. In that moment she proved that the only reason she comes off more sorted than Dev is because her family is more supportive. Put in a similar position to the one he found himself in almost all the time -- between antagonistic parent and spouse -- she reacted just as impulsively. It's a different story that those ill-advised financial decisions, and Dev's pompous mansplaining, gave her the fire to become much more accomplished than she might have been otherwise, but that doesn't take away how hasty her actions really were.

What Dev needs to learn has been talked about to no end, and I agree with what everyone says. But what I really want to see for Sona's introspection is her recognising and checking her immense privilege. She has always had, and still has, a family who stands by her and gives her 200% and that is where so much of her fortitude comes from. Dev has nobody but himself to rely on, and a family that takes 200% from him, so is it really a wonder that he isn't as strong she is? Basically, I would love to see more introspection and less judgment, both from Sona and Bijoy.

This new format is addictive. 😛

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LiveLife321

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Posted: 8 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

That's normal human behaviour and reaction. Over a period of time brain dulls the facts and only emotions remain. Also the more painful emotions and scenes associated with them would be on the forefront, balance would be relegated to the back seat. Also we only remember what absolves or what comforts us and proves us right. Brain's natural self preservation mechanism

Like she would have forgotten the way first Dev pleaded with her at the farmhouse but would clearly remember each word of his said latet

Also, I think the most painful memory in Sona's brain would always be where Dev asked her to get out in front of everone. That was the most hurtful thing Dev did ever to her and he didn't even realise the correct implication of his words.

Whether its good or bad situation, We always see what we want to see and take away what we want to take. I cant take sides when it comes to the damage they did to their relation since both of them are imperfect and both of them kept their families above to their love for each other. The day they start respecting their love(partner) before the world will be the day others & their influence will vanish from their relation. Intentionally or unintentionally, He gave a reason and aim for her future and at the same time he became aimless.

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thedramaqueen

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Posted: 8 years ago

#39

I am loving this new format of discussion as well. I will comment on a few things later. Sam you touch upon some of the role reversal points I was going to mention. The role reversal has happened more deeper than it meets the eye.

But first the topic of money. I was actually stumped that the 5 crore topic got to where it got to. I had expected a shimla-ed Dev (much like the one who walked into the house holding his wife's hands after the resort) will shut everyone up saying he knows what he is doing and that things are in hand.

Slapgate was a very unfortunate event that happened that day and the separation and this transformation is actually a result of that and all the insults they both and the families hurled at each other.

Because if you think about it, saurabh said he hadn't invested all the money. So I would think Sona didnt have that big a loan to pay. Perhaps 1-2 crores. Money became the start of the problem. Which is what had confused Dev. But the real problem was much deeper

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sona_naksh

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Posted: 8 years ago

#40

I am loving this thread ...

sona's family was always her strength n d3v her weakness
dev's family was always his weakness n sona d only strength he had ever ...
in last 7 years ...sona had her strength wid her ...but dev had neither

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