The only thought that is disturbing me.. - Page 4

Originally posted by: Pramila.harish

Even I was thinking why shaheer cried in reality..

After seeing episode, I think he could not take torture any more😆 or supriya must have announced about leaving show. believe me there was no words touching. in fact Dev should have Been shown confusing why mother giving lecture instead of crying.

when Eshwari is saying she is complete bcoz Dev etc.. I was really thinking about mother. my mother was not allowed to go school bcoz in her mother house, there was scarcity of labour, as they had huge land to cultivate. We are 4 children same as Dev and sister. One elder brother and 3 sisters. but I have never seen partiality among us. If i was made to wash dishes, brother was made to sweep the house. even food or clothes we all 4 us used to get together. only on birthdays exception. what I was trying to say is education means not necessarily school going. But my mother educated in her own way. She believes in equality and always encouraged us for higher studies. I should solute such ladies.

Originally posted by: SandyAquarium

If the CVs wanted to lay the foundation for infertility track, they have failed coz this was frankly, very regressive and archaic.

AMEN to bold

I have two very very important people in my life and they don't have kids...and one of them out of choice. And the more significant thing is that they lead very happy and fulfilling lives. To say life is all about motherhood is stupidity and the way Ishwari said it. it was even worse...coz she is proud to be Dev's ma and not just ma.

They have made a joke of womanhood and motherhood in my opinion. One because Womanhood is not defined as to whose wife you are , or whose mother you are but for the woman you are.

Motherhood is not defined differently if you have sons versus daughters

I am a mother and when my son does something sensitive, achieves something or simply is there for me- I am touched, proud and happy. But is motherhood my entire life? No. Does only motherhood define me? No!.

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Ishwari's speech was irritating to me coz it belongs to historic period. And it was even more annoying given the reason why she made the speech.

Ishwari can try all kinds of stunts but she can't keep Sona out of Dev's life; Sona walking up to them and Dev pulling her into the hug says it very clearly.

Her speech left me cold and that is something to be said for I am a mother too.

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P.S - I have been having problems with becharawala characterization of Dev's for a while now. The CV's have played and to a great extent damaged his charecter for the essence of drama. Not done! I would have understood if Shaheer had complained about his role in this story, as Supriya's character hasn't changed that much until now. Strange na...that Supriya complained and Shaheer continues to play his role in the best way he could?

Originally posted by: dlavanya

ok I agree to most of your points.. Ishwari was just talking about her experience as mother and not trying to mock other women..
You said we should not expect her to treat Sona as her daughter .. fine i will live with that... But how about treating her other children on par with Dev ?? why she never likes to do anything with her daughters ... why is she so hung up on Dev... A mother is good when she is good to all her children ...

also the problem is that Dev never abandoned her ... like she was saying that once kids grow big... Dev didnt have any friends and he shared his all day doing with ishwari alone... how can she still be so insecure..

Originally posted by: shri123

There was no need of giving so big speech in front of guests and daughter's would be in laws. Everyone knows mother's role in children's life. CV's are introducing infertility track and thats why this big speech on mother's emotions. Now we are gonna see the dialogue tum to maa nahi ban sakati tum kaise samjogi maa-bete ka rishta by ishwari. It was for this future developments/dialogue this whole scene was written.

Originally posted by: shri123

Ishwari while all praises for Dev, did not bother to say one single sentence about Neha her sacrifices and all. According to her, Dev aj jo hai woh Neha ke sacrifices ki vajah se hai. But not a single praise for Neha or other daughter's names in speech. This shows her mentality.

Originally posted by: shri123

Ishwari while all praises for Dev, did not bother to say one single sentence about Neha her sacrifices and all. According to her, Dev aj jo hai woh Neha ke sacrifices ki vajah se hai. But not a single praise for Neha or other daughter's names in speech. This shows her mentality.

Originally posted by: cscs

Chalo i got someone who thought Bijoy was OTT at Dixit's place. No you are not alone in it, even i felt the same.

About Ishwari, she started with herself but slowly she included all the women community in her speech. She could have just stick to her own story and then even her taunting would have been bearable.

I didn't liked Devakshi scene today. The way they both were behaving Dev and Sona irritated me to the core.