Seriously!!! - Page 7

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

@BOLD ...so true , I hated this comparison...Yashodha is so affectionate and selfless. I dont think she is so insecure about Kanha as Ishwari is ...And Kahna wouldnt have stood there listening to his mom insulting his inlaws ..he would have politely conveyed the message..to compare Dev with Krishna was a lil too much...

But having said the above ...there is a point that did come into my mind...by comparing these two with Kanha and Yashodha does that mean Dev is adopted by Ishwari ?? I know when it comes to maternal love many a times in many serials they have used this comparison...its just a thought , I could be completely wrong ...Ishwari's behaviour many a times dont justify maternal love...it mostly goes into material love when it comes to Dev...which forces me to think if he is adopted by her.

Even Yesterday more than him being out and something could happen to him...what affected her the most was his closeness to his mom in law...

Originally posted by: rahulvats12

I don't think there is any need to interfere for sona or dev as whatever the reason...ishwari have a valid reason to shout at Bose family even asha knew that ishwari has a valid reason to shout... Bijoy did whatever and for patch of sona dev but he was wrong...seriously, thrown them out of house at 2:00 am at midnight.

And why dev or sona will support bijoy...they already know ishwari have a valid reason to shout. And what they will say to ishwari that mom...we have a fight and to sort out the problem, bijoy baba thrown us...lol 😆

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

You mean Jocasta complex ?? I think I did mention it sometime back..need not be sexual in nature always ...it can be emotional also...and Jocasta complex happens in most cases when there is an absence of father/ father who doesnt support the family ... and son has a very strong character there by becomes the emotional anchor of the house...and hence his mom subconsciously sees the son as the head of the family in place of the father and the void of emotional support that she has to get from her husband is taken from her son..

PS : Here Dev adds to this problem by not going against his mom's wishes..and being mute when she needs to be corrected

Originally posted by: tia.o

I have a husband and even I don't hover over him like Ishwari does. And all her promises to Neha for making up for lost time are as fake as her motherly concern.

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Bingo. Kanha is a momma's boy but a beautiful-soul momma's boy. And Kanha, despite all the love for his mother, would have definitely stop any wrong-doing and would have conveyed to everyone about what's right (even in playful way). Ishwari the symbol of selfishness cannot be compared to Yashoda 🤢

Originally posted by: my-true-love

Yup jocasta it is. I thought ppl know oedipus better so quoted that way..

Originally posted by: sia.krpkab

Tia... Seriously! Tired of this mute silence and spineless attitude by the leads in front of ishwari. CVs itney smart hokar bhi itney stupid kyon hain?

I have a feeling that probably coz Supriya ji is a senior actor, they are pedestalize her everytime, but they don't realise how the lead characters are getting demeaned and the show goes down the drain.

Even vicky and elena have more guts to speak than dev and sona. Phew!

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

That's what so many of us are frustrated about. I held my patience during post wedding days thinking they are building a foundation for future episodes where they couple will work together to solve their own issues. Of course I will be told off very soon for critiquing the show.

I am critical because I know there is so much potential. Show us some serious stuff like you did pre and post confession

I am even getting tired of Sona pushing away her husband. Don't you guys even give each other a peck on the cheeks or forehead before going to work.

Yess!! Dev and sona must surely be the most unattracted to each other couple in TV land. There is absolutely nothing shown to indicate that they want to be with each other physically. Standing at 2 feet distance from each other even in their bedroom. Is this how newly married couples behave?? and Sona's constant pushing away of Dev..its like she has been married to him for 20 years and has tired of him. The makers are doing a useless job of portraying even affection, let alone attraction between husband and wife. I keep expecting Sona to say 'Sit' and "down boy' every time she pushes him away and sends him to office. Does she not crave to be with him, considering they get barely any time together from solving the multiple problems of the demented Dixits?

Originally posted by: randomramblings

Dear All,
lets be honest with ourselves, In the television era where a DIL is merely a punch bag, people break relations at the touch of a hat , super naturals my list is endless, this show is something where occasionally at least we get to see some matured people that we come across in our daily life.

Nope I am not saying what they are showing is correct, all I am saying is at least I don't get to see too crappy, unreasonable, or illogical sequences ALL the time and not to forget the irritating camera zooms and sudden lights.

As I often said, sona is treated like a doormat because she CHOOSES to become one. Respecting and trying to gel with your In-laws family should not come at the expense of leaving behind the family that supported us all the while.

Dev, you love your mother to moon and back, that's between you and her. it does not give her any right what so ever to walk all over the others. The way she spoke to Bijoy Bose is a total NO. I will not find fault in her saying that she is unhappy that Dev was asked to leave in the middle of the night (as a parent, you have a right to express your dissatifaction in the way your kid is treated )BUT if he did not go back to his home and instead decided to spend the night on the streets along with Sona, then BIJOY BOSE is no way responsible for THAT.

Sona, you don't want to aggravate the anger of your already smoldering MIL fine, but at the same time, you don't have to run immediately to pack your things as a scared child . you could have just finished ur breakfast that you left mid way or better still invited Ishwari to join.

And finally for a girl who planned her SR at a resort, i find you a totally idiot pushing away ur husband everytime he tries to even as much as stand close to your in the confines of your own bedroom.

finally no matter how much we rant and show our disappointment, at the end of the day this is just a show and to expect anything rational would be too much.