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Posted: 8 years ago
#41
You are absolutely right. Dev keeps making promises he is not capable of keeping and Sona has a history of believing in every promise he makes. If Dev is a lier, then Sona is a moron.

I won't even bother with Ishwari. She is only loyal to herself. But Dev should have loyalty to the people who gave him love and respect without asking anything in return. But no.



Originally posted by: vibg

dev has a history of making promises he cant keep. by hook or by crook, he gets sona.. always! fault is not dev's, its sona's! sona's way of communicating her feelings was a joke... in 2 mins that convo was over with dev saying sorry sorry 😡

dev wont change cause sona is adjusting to him, making all sacrifices.

ishwari's behavior.. disgraceful!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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You are absolutely correct. Love without honour, respect and dignity is called Lust, not love.

Everyone loves and respects their parents. But I have never seen someone who let's his mother insult the family whom he was claiming as his own just minutes before. Not to mention Ishwari claims that son and son-in-law are not same and Dev remained silent. This is the guy who moments ago claiming he is Asha's son. Where did that son go?

If Radha insults his mother will he keep silent? No. But when his mother insults a family who gave him love and respect without ever asking for anything from him, then where is his voice?

I wanted Sona to tell Dev about Saurabh. But I think she should never say anything about her family to Dev. Why should she? You take help from your children. But son and son-in-law are not the same as per Dixits. Since Dev stayed silent, I am assuming he also believes that.

If Dev insists on doing anything for her family and Ishwari finds out, then who knows she might insult Sona's family's self-respect. After all Bose won't be able to claim then that they took help from their son.

And Sona? She remained silent. Not once she opened her mouth to say that this is her father's home and here his rule works. So if Dev had problem with how her father handled their fight, he could have got home or a hotel. He is not a child. So whatever Ishwari wants to say, she can say it to her son, not to her father.

Would she like it if Bijoy comes to Dixit home to give her lecture on parenting?

But we are expecting character growth. Forget growth, they are degrading.

Originally posted by: mena_k

Haven't watched the episode yet, but reading your excellent analysis it seems Dev's remote works only inside the bedroom (wasn't any different before) and goes on mute outside the room. Oh sorry I forgot he respects his mom so much that he lets everyone keep getting insulted by her and also allows his relatives insult his oh so dear love of life Sonakshi. Wow what a way to show his respect to his God mom. Kya pyaar hai. Sachhi "Kuch rang pyaar ke aise bhi". Apni biwi ki roz insult karwao, isiko to asli pyaar kehtey hain.
Definitely Dev's character has grown, but for worse. 😡 Or lets say he has been like this since the beginning. "Glad cv's are keeping the character's intact oh wait we were expecting a character growth for better, who said that again...!!!

Sad Sonakshi's character has taken a full 180 o turn after she fell in love with Dev. She gives zero respect to her parents. She is turning into another Dixit. Kehte hain na, aadmi achhi batein sikhne main bhaley hi waqt lagaye, par buri aadatyein seekhaney mein jara sa bhi waqt nahin lagata. Proof is Sonakshi.

Love and romance without dignity means absolutely nothing.

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Posted: 8 years ago
#43
Why are we all surprised about Dev being a spineless Jerk. When has he not been that. I remember people literally pouncing at me claiming that I was saying that Dev uses Sona as a prostitute when I said that this guy keeps her happy with sweet nothings in the bedroom while outside he doesn't have a mouth to speak and Sonakshi let's her be used.
How the word prostitute came in the picture I couldn't for the life of me understand but wasn't yesterday another classic case of emotional manipulation by Dev to get a sweet doting wife back by his side?

I would have forgiven him anything if he had least given it back to gkb properly? I know it takes time to openly go against your mother especially for a guy like Dev. But GKB? no one respects her really and Dev could not answer back her also firmly
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Posted: 8 years ago
#44
Dear All,
lets be honest with ourselves, In the television era where a DIL is merely a punch bag, people break relations at the touch of a hat , super naturals my list is endless, this show is something where occasionally at least we get to see some matured people that we come across in our daily life.

Nope I am not saying what they are showing is correct, all I am saying is at least I don't get to see too crappy, unreasonable, or illogical sequences ALL the time and not to forget the irritating camera zooms and sudden lights.

As I often said, sona is treated like a doormat because she CHOOSES to become one. Respecting and trying to gel with your In-laws family should not come at the expense of leaving behind the family that supported us all the while.

Dev, you love your mother to moon and back, that's between you and her. it does not give her any right what so ever to walk all over the others. The way she spoke to Bijoy Bose is a total NO. I will not find fault in her saying that she is unhappy that Dev was asked to leave in the middle of the night (as a parent, you have a right to express your dissatifaction in the way your kid is treated )BUT if he did not go back to his home and instead decided to spend the night on the streets along with Sona, then BIJOY BOSE is no way responsible for THAT.

Sona, you don't want to aggravate the anger of your already smoldering MIL fine, but at the same time, you don't have to run immediately to pack your things as a scared child . you could have just finished ur breakfast that you left mid way or better still invited Ishwari to join.

And finally for a girl who planned her SR at a resort, i find you a totally idiot pushing away ur husband everytime he tries to even as much as stand close to your in the confines of your own bedroom.

finally no matter how much we rant and show our disappointment, at the end of the day this is just a show and to expect anything rational would be too much.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#45
Your posts are so good to read but why only negative posts?
We can look for positive aspects as well not ignoring the neg ones ..
I would love to see an optimistic post of yours soon :')
Cheers!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

<font size="4" color="#663366">You are absolutely right. Dev keeps making promises he is not capable of keeping and Sona has a history of believing in every promise he makes. If Dev is a lier, then Sona is a moron.</font>

<font size="4" color="#663366">I won't even bother with Ishwari. She is only loyal to herself. But Dev should have loyalty to the people who gave him love and respect without asking anything in return. But no.</font>






ive said it b4.. dev's love and reapect is only in the bedroom. outside that room.. he has no voice.. bas bakri ban jaata hai! he neither stood up for Bose's nor Sona 😡
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: randomramblings

Dear All,
lets be honest with ourselves, In the television era where a DIL is merely a punch bag, people break relations at the touch of a hat , super naturals my list is endless, this show is something where occasionally at least we get to see some matured people that we come across in our daily life.

Nope I am not saying what they are showing is correct, all I am saying is at least I don't get to see too crappy, unreasonable, or illogical sequences ALL the time and not to forget the irritating camera zooms and sudden lights.

As I often said, sona is treated like a doormat because she CHOOSES to become one. Respecting and trying to gel with your In-laws family should not come at the expense of leaving behind the family that supported us all the while.

Dev, you love your mother to moon and back, that's between you and her. it does not give her any right what so ever to walk all over the others. The way she spoke to Bijoy Bose is a total NO. I will not find fault in her saying that she is unhappy that Dev was asked to leave in the middle of the night (as a parent, you have a right to express your dissatifaction in the way your kid is treated )BUT if he did not go back to his home and instead decided to spend the night on the streets along with Sona, then BIJOY BOSE is no way responsible for THAT.

Sona, you don't want to aggravate the anger of your already smoldering MIL fine, but at the same time, you don't have to run immediately to pack your things as a scared child . you could have just finished ur breakfast that you left mid way or better still invited Ishwari to join.

And finally for a girl who planned her SR at a resort, i find you a totally idiot pushing away ur husband everytime he tries to even as much as stand close to your in the confines of your own bedroom.

finally no matter how much we rant and show our disappointment, at the end of the day this is just a show and to expect anything rational would be too much.



Devakshi's behavior is childish. in front of Ishwari, both are babies cause thats how she treats them. but even when left alone, they really disnt get to sona's issue. dev's sorry sorry and sona got all cukko with bedroom issures! only bose's and esp. bijoy treated them like adults.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#48
Payal, my bigger disappointment was with Sona. She could have clearly said that she neither called nor expected Dev to follow. He is not a 5 year old who doesn't have any will. But she kept her mouth shut again. I am sorry, but if you become a doormat you will be treated like one. She keeps falling for whatever bull Dev feeds her in private. You know the saying fool me once, shame on me. Fool me twice, shame on you. Well, the shame is on Sona.

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

Why are we all surprised about Dev being a spineless Jerk. When has he not been that. I remember people literally pouncing at me claiming that I was saying that Dev uses Sona as a prostitute when I said that this guy keeps her happy with sweet nothings in the bedroom while outside he doesn't have a mouth to speak and Sonakshi let's her be used.

How the word prostitute came in the picture I couldn't for the life of me understand but wasn't yesterday another classic case of emotional manipulation by Dev to get a sweet doting wife back by his side?

I would have forgiven him anything if he had least given it back to gkb properly? I know it takes time to openly go against your mother especially for a guy like Dev. But GKB? no one respects her really and Dev could not answer back her also firmly

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Posted: 8 years ago
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And as soon as the focus shifted to Dixit Kaalkothri, I feel suffocated and choked to negativity, long upset faces and huge complexities 🤬

Dev is back to being Mute and breaking promises, Ishwari and GKB continue to spread poison. Sona continues to ignore her self-respect and this time even better - remains silent upon her own family's insult.


Now it feels like watching KRPKAB again 👏 Last 3 episodes were shocking 😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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But 2 striking points are -

1. When Ishwari was asking Dev about not informing her, why didn't Dev mention that he informed Neha ? Why didn't Baba remind her that even HE informed her last night didn't he ? This silence of Dev actually acts as a booster for Ishwari and she thinks what she does is right, what she says is right... Such silence in much needed situation which demands some protest in reality actually encourages the evil to stoop down even further as they feel there is no one who can stop them 😳


2. GKB - She is a side character, this is episode 180. Why is she not in trouble for all her potty-mouth or her past karma like burning down her own house ? Khatri can be dealt with later, but why is CV so protective of GKB's character ? 😕

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