Doubt : Whether Neha's view was right??

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mena_k

@mena_k

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Posted: 8 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: yyy

Was it Dev missing Sona or Mamaji .It was Dev who called her when he came home ,sent emails .It doesn't matter whose idea it is at the end of the day it's Dev''s decision to go to her place .No one forced him to go .

So how is it different from Ranveer's case. Ranveer came after meeting with Sona and Dev came after talking to mamaji. It didn't matter even in Ranveer's case who suggested, it was Ranveer's decision at the end of the day to come and meet Neha, isn't it, same like Dev. 😊 Both are adults and not kids, who took there own decision.

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siddhi.d123

@siddhi.d123

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Posted: 8 years ago

#22

Dev have always had his priorities set and Sona is okay with it.Sona has accepted Dev the way he is and Neha has failed to do the same 😊 .Dev is indeed lucky that Sona loves him 😃 .Such love is rare and unconditional ❤️

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404_NotFound

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Posted: 8 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: mena_k
So how is it different from Ranveer's case. Ranveer came after meeting with Sona and Dev came after talking to mamaji. It didn't matter even in Ranveer's case who suggested, it was Ranveer's decision at the end of the day to come and meet Neha, isn't it, same like Dev. 😊 Both are adults and not kids, who took there own decision.

There is a major difference ...Sona went home for a function while Neha left home for good but it took days for Ranveer to go to Dixit home whereas Dev landed immediately at Bose home after the function .

One more difference . ..Mamaji gave him a idea to convince his wife because he shared with his uncle how he was missing his wife whereas Ranveer accidently met Sona at a mall .Either Neha's understanding in laws didn't convince their son or he did not listen to them like Dev .😉

Another major difference is the way Ranveer and Dev handled their wife .Dev was there to apologize but I cannot the same about Ranveer .

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Hari73

@Hari73

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Posted: 8 years ago

#24

Here neha don't know give and take. she never tried to love or compromise for ranveer family. but she expects everything from them. dixit family is selfish. so they see only from their perspective never tried to understand others pov.

She does not know how much sona compromising. she is seeing only outer look. she is not aware sona does not have right even on her cupboard in that house. And nobody values her thought. and she does not know sona is facing those taunts, her mother insecurities. All she is seeing dev's ILU.

It's a human tendency, ppl won't value what they have but always crave for which they don't have.

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Push-pull

@Push-pull

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Posted: 8 years ago

#25

There is no way I can compare these two couples.. Major reason being the footage that Ranveer-Neha have got so far doesn't show much about what's in favour and what's against them.. The very few instances showed so far seems to portray both not in common understanding of the differences between themselves.. And what to give and take in their relationship.. Both seems to be thinking that they have done enough to make it work. 😃

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sjain

@sjain

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Posted: 8 years ago

#26

Well she is lucky ..no doubt but luck doesnt mean she doesnt have to do any effort..Like every girl she has to be patient loving and should have will to accept her new home..she came to this house leaving many things and here she earned new bonds new family..its always about give and take ..Also its not something exceptional she is doing... every girl has to compromise, marriage is all about it noone forces you for it , you do it happily because of your loved ones being involved in it..and thats what Sona is doing too and thats where Neha lacked she tried working by adjusting but what lacked was her patience nd will power she couldnt fully accept that house
,she half heartedly did everythong and at one point she couldnt take it and the inevitable happened !!

I dont know how much but I hope I am able to put my point accross !!

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cscs

@cscs

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Posted: 8 years ago

#27

Grass looks greener on the other side. She is not seeing Sona's efforts to balance everything. And also her idea of love is different from Sona.

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WeRockTheWorld

@WeRockTheWorld

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Posted: 8 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: yyy

There is a major difference ...Sona went home for a function while Neha left home for good but it took days for Ranveer to go to Dixit home whereas Dev landed immediately at Bose home after the function .

One more difference . ..Mamaji gave him a idea to convince his wife because he shared with his uncle how he was missing his wife whereas Ranveer accidently met Sona at a mall .Either Neha's understanding in laws didn't convince their son or he did not listen to them like Dev .😉

Another major difference is the way Ranveer and Dev handled their wife .Dev was there to apologize but I cannot the same about Ranveer .

Sonakshi has given a million reasons for Dev to love her . Dev himself has stated that when he is with her he feels relaxed and free. There is no need to become someone else for him. Sona has accepted him as who he is . She is also trying her level best to accept his culture , way of life and family.

Neha on the other hand , wants Ranveer's affection but she is not willing to give . She has high expectations abt her life partner. And is not willing to accept her husband as who is he is. She keeps comparing him with her brother. Everytime she does this , she is making him restless and irritated.

In the initial days when there were issues betwn Dev and Sona...it is always Sona who gave in. Even after break up and they way he had treated her during the breakup , she still loved him. We need to remember that during her engagement with Mr. R , she didnt think of anyone when Dev fell unconscious after being drunk. That also shows her blind love for Dev. To build a relationship both parties have to work towards it. Somehow that is missing when it comes to Neha and Ranveer.

Edited by WeRockTheWorld - 8 years ago

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randommusings

@randommusings

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Posted: 8 years ago

#29

Neha feels Sona is lucky becoz she like all her other family members doesn't see the whole picture. They only see Sona smiling, enjoying Dev's wealth n affection. They are just not bothered about how Sona feels in their house, how lonely n unappreciated she is. How even Dev shouts at her n ignores her feelings. Even Ranveer n Neha had arguements but atleast RV's family were always very loving and appreciative. Maybe love alone is not enough to make a marriage work, but money is definitely not the magic potion for a happy married life.

Neha saw Dev n Sona fight n Dev ignoring Sona's suggestions about matters related to his family, but still Neha feels Dev's world revolves around Sona, its as if the whole Dixit clan only remembers things as per their own convenience. I hope Neha sees how hard Sona is trying to be accepted in their family and try to talk it out with Ranveer on how they can make things work.

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Rithu0203

@Rithu0203

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: yyy
Neha has a point .She was comparing her husband's reaction to Dev .
It's amazing how Cvs have created similar situation between two couples .
Wife''s Issue

Neha feels her needs are ignored by her husband and feels like an outsider

Sona feels her opinions are ignored by her husband and feels like an outsider

Husband's Reaction

Ranveer tries to call Neha .When she ignored his calls he doesn't make an attempt to convince her or visit her at her home.Upon others insistence he visits her .

Dev tries to call Sona .When she ignored his calls .He sent messages , emails to convince her .When nothing worked he went all the way to her home to convince his wife and is ready to apologize .

If I am not wrong Neha never wanted to have a separate home .It was Ranveer''s family who insisted on this and later Ranveer decided to have a sperate home .Can we blame her for sperating him from his family ? Yes Neha should have waited for little longer till everything gets settled .

@Red: So True, so both somehow feel that they are outsider in their in laws house, but difference is Sona is trying to fit and stands for her place in the house, Neha quits easily, then why Neha to ignore Sona's efforts, hope she comes to know about the Sona's side too. Coz, Neha very well knows that its not that easy to deal with her brother(which she herself mentioned to Dev, when Sona was working in their house that if possible she would have given him the resignation from his sister, but can't)

@Bold: If thats true, then why Neha created much chaos when Ranveer spent that amount for his mom's treatment? She would have easily given that idea and it should not be a matter for her right? And agree, Neha should have waited for things get settled.

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