Doubt : Whether Neha's view was right??

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Posted: 8 years ago
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In today's episode Neha mentioned Dev's world revolves around Sona and how Sona is lucky and lucky enough to feel being loved.
Neha may not be jealous of Sona, but her take away from Dev- Sona relation that Sona is lucky is correct??
Because, i think she is just loverlooking Sona's compromises, balancing between relations, her maturity in understanding and handling the situations etc. Sona may be lucky, but she truly tries her best to keep relationships intact.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sona is anything but lucky. She has got a husband who cannot balance ANYTHING, whatever he does, he does it OTT, be it shouting at Sona or now chasing after her not letting her stay at her own house even for few days. 😕


Ranveer's ONLY negative (if we call it negative at all) point is Money - He has maturity, understanding, lovely family and flexibility, the initial time of Ranveer-Neha were really sweet. Dev doesn't have any.


Although I cannot blame Neha for not appreciating all these in Ranveer, because her priorities are different and triggered from extremely sad situations, but her 'marriage' is any day better than Sona's. Sona is swallowing her self-respect and struggling hard to make it work, Neha quit.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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why does not anyone ask Dev, will he separate himself from the family. If he feels it is his job to protect his family, then it is Ranveer's too. Will he agree to move out if Sona demands it ( she has good reason too, just Gkb and his mother's behaviour is enough). why does not anyone ask Neha, as she expects her brother to take care of his family, so is Ranveer's responsibility to his family.
i could not believe it when ishwari said that it was Neha's right to ask for a separation. Wont a sane person bring both the parties together and find out what actually is the problem.
Will Dev accept help from others if his financial situation is bad.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: bookworm2

why does not anyone ask Dev, will he separate himself from the family. If he feels it is his job to protect his family, then it is Ranveer's too. Will he agree to move out if Sona demands it ( she has good reason too, just Gkb and his mother's behaviour is enough). why does not anyone ask Neha, as she expects her brother to take care of his family, so is Ranveer's responsibility to his family.

i could not believe it when ishwari said that it was Neha's right to ask for a separation. Wont a sane person bring both the parties together and find out what actually is the problem.
Will Dev accept help from others if his financial situation is bad.

Hey long time good to see you post. 😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rithu0203

In today's episode Neha mentioned Dev's world revolves around Sona and how Sona is lucky and lucky enough to feel being loved.

Neha may not be jealous of Sona, but her take away from Dev- Sona relation that Sona is lucky is correct??
Because, i think she is just loverlooking Sona's compromises, balancing between relations, her maturity in understanding and handling the situations etc. Sona may be lucky, but she truly tries her best to keep relationships intact.

Lovely point of view. This was a needed post thanks
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Neha has a point .She was comparing her husband's reaction to Dev .
It's amazing how Cvs have created similar situation between two couples .
Wife''s Issue

Neha feels her needs are ignored by her husband and feels like an outsider

Sona feels her opinions are ignored by her husband and feels like an outsider

Husband's Reaction

Ranveer tries to call Neha .When she ignored his calls he doesn't make an attempt to convince her or visit her at her home.Upon others insistence he visits her .

Dev tries to call Sona .When she ignored his calls .He sent messages , emails to convince her .When nothing worked he went all the way to her home to convince his wife and is ready to apologize .

If I am not wrong Neha never wanted to have a separate home .It was Ranveer''s family who insisted on this and later Ranveer decided to have a sperate home .Can we blame her for sperating him from his family ? Yes Neha should have waited for little longer till everything gets settled .



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Posted: 8 years ago
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If Sona behaved like Neha, her marriage would break much faster than Neha's. Sona des not have the benefit of lovely and understanding in-laws like Neha did. Everybody in Sona's house want her out, unlike Neha. Neha is breaking her relation because she feels Ranveer doesn't listen to her and gives priority to his family. Hell Dev has always done that, for him Sona is last in the list of priorities and still Sona never complains and that's why their relationship is still on. So I don't see the lucky part like Neha mentioned for Sona.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mena_k

If Sona behaved like Neha, her marriage would break much faster than Neha's.



This.
😉 you hit the bull's eye 😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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sona is anything but lucky. we have all seen the insults, taunts, outsider tag she has been handed. and, she has taken it all in her efforts to fit in. sona would have been kicked out of the house by Ishwari & Dev if she behaved like neha.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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U r bang on, Neha is kind of self sympathy person, so always feels that she never got love in life and Sona got everything Just like that. The day she can see what Sona does or feels abt hubby and his family, then she will understand where is she herself lacking

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