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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mena_k

If Sona behaved like Neha, her marriage would break much faster than Neha's. Sona des not have the benefit of lovely and understanding in-laws like Neha did. Everybody in Sona's house want her out, unlike Neha. Neha is breaking her relation because she feels Ranveer doesn't listen to her and gives priority to his family. Hell Dev has always done that, for him Sona is last in the list of priorities and still Sona never complains and that's why their relationship is still on. So I don't see the lucky part like Neha mentioned for Sona.


@Bold: Exactly!. Sona is always least in Dev's priority list, even Neha knows this. But inspite of this she just overlooked Sona's point of view. Hope she see that too.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: babli1

U r bang on, Neha is kind of self sympathy person, so always feels that she never got love in life and Sona got everything Just like that. The day she can see what Sona does or feels abt hubby and his family, then she will understand where is she herself lacking


@Bold: So true, right now only if Neha's view over her husband and family changes only they can come out of divorce, else Ishwari and Dev are hell bent to get divorce for her. Hope she realizes it.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Neha sees the difference between Ranveer and Dev immediately

Neha feels her needs are ignored by her husband and feels like an outsider while

Sona feels her opinions are ignored by her husband and feels like an outsider

Ranveer tries to call Neha .When she ignored his calls he doesn't make an attempt to convince her or visit her at her home while Dev tries to call Sona ,When she ignored his calls
He sent messages , emails to convince her .When nothing worked he went all the way to her home to convince his wife and is ready to apologize .

Neha just wants her husband to care and pamper her the same way Dev does for his wife



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

Absolutely right.


Neha wants to have every happiness, all the luxury, even love handed over to her on a silver platter without lifting a finger to deserve them. Why? Because she had a rough childhood. This sense of entitlement is really evident in pretty much every member of Dixit family.

Did she have a hard life as a child? Yes.

But that does not entitle her to make demands on her husband as she makes on her brother. She sacrificed for her brother but not for her husband.

She'd be the first to criticize if Sona leaves Dixit mansion in a huff when Ishwari is sick putting pressure on Dev to move away. Yet she did the same for Ranveer.

Ranveer took a decision in crisis to save his mother. She could have discussed about being included in that particular decision. But that was NOT the time to throw a tantrum.

Secondly, Ranveer did not run after Neha like Dev because he had a crisis at home. Would Dev run after Sona if Ishwari was in critical situation? Not the same situation at all.

Ranveer never claimed to be anyone but who he is - a middle class man who is not ambitious and is content with his life.

Whatever gave Neha the idea that one day he will be rich like Dev who is driven and ambitious is anyone's guess.

But she made some assumptions and when it didn't come true, she blamed Ranveer not reading her mind and making her dream come true.

At any point of time she could have told Ranveer that she wants to study and join Dev's business to fulfill her own ambition. I'd have blamed Ranveer if he had then refused to support his wife.

But he has always fulfilled his responsibilities as per his priorities. He took loan to buy an apartment to live separate from his family for his wife's happiness (which is more than Dev ever even considered even after watching Sona being insulted by his family). But when it came to his mother's health, that was a priority.

What kind of man would he be if he ran after Neha without considering his sick mother? Yet he made calls, texts and even came to see Neha with Sona only to get insulted and treated like unwanted pest.

Was he right for filling harassment case against Neha? No.

But let's not forget he was threatened by Dev to sic lawyers on him first and we yet don't know if Dev took away Ranveer's job first or Ranveer filled the harassment case first. So I will withhold my judgement on him until I find out.

However, considering Neha was effectively shut up by Ranveer's Bhabhi when she pointed out that they all know who is the actual problem here, it comes to mind that it was not Ranveer. Otherwise Neha is not the type of woman who can't answer back.

So whatever Neha faces now, will be her own doing aided by her mother and brother.


@Red: This is what i am not getting. Yes, Neha had sacrificed a lot in her childhood so she has every right to demand what she want from her mom and brother. Fine. But, how come she expects the same with Ranveer who comes with his own responsibilities and commitments towards his family too.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sona is not Lucky ! 😕She 's the who has compromised everything even her Self respect while dev is being so much ignorant of sona's feelings and doesn't even take stand for her in front of his family ,How come he consider her his best friend is still mystery .every girl deserve best guy.it's pity sona settled for compromise 😕Neha doesn't know what she is loosing.😕
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Posted: 8 years ago
#36
Dev left sona alone and crying for familys sake . Ranveer never did this neha left the place on her own

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