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Thank you. Yes, that's an excellent point again, Payal. Usually when two people are fighting, the family points out and reminds to their boy or girl about their relationship. When one of them makes an effort, the family of the receiving party, like your mother, points out that as well.
Ranveer did make an effort even at a trying time when his mother was critically ill. He called, he texted and he came to see Neha with Sona. But Neha not only didn't bother talking to him but actually stomped off and insulted Ranveer.
Sona on the other hand had more reason to be upset, but still she neither by behaviour nor by deed, let Dev's respect lower in front of her family.
Neha married Ranveer knowing him as not at all ambitious person who was very content with his life. Assuming he will change after marriage was her problem, not Ranveer's. He has never indicated otherwise.
On the other hand, Dev has given numerous proof that he can change if he realises his mistakes and he is only willing to do for Sona. Also, Sona never demanded Dev to sort out his mummy issues. She just expected him to follow his repeat claim of Sona being part of his family with behaviour and deeds. That's not an unbelievable assumption to make because Dev already claimed otherwise.
However, the same people who are supporting Neha and blaming Ranveer are also blaming Sona. I just can't understand the logic behind it.
Originally posted by: _Payalj_
Absolutely loved your post. Especially that toast incident 😆
All these small incidents will impact Dev subconsciously. Change is a very slow process. Yesterday I was watching the show with my mother. When Dev came to bose house, I said he doesn't care when his wife is at his house and now is running behind her.My mother just said one thing it takes time. Look he is making an effort. Throughout his life he has been under his mother's thumb. It is going to take a lot of time for him to come out of it. But he is slowly changing.That set me thinking. Neha knew ranveers financial position and self respect before marriage so it is wrong for her to expect rqnveer to change.Sonakshi knew of Dev's mummy issues before marriage. So why are we blaming her if she is using herculean patience to change Dev and win his trust.
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