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Posted: 9 years ago
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Today's best scene was hands down that bhai duj Sona and saurabh scene .👏👏
such sweet and awesome scene😳

How i wish sona to stay in bose house always , I mean she always became herself ,same sensible Dr sonakshi Bose .😃

While in that mad dixit house😕

sona not sharing saurabh's condition with dev will definitely going to affect him deeply .I would say good for him . Good lesson ,hope he will finally learn it.😕 otherwise🥱


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Posted: 9 years ago
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I love Bose family's Ishuless and Issueless bonding, uncomplicated and unconditional support for each other. My entire face hurt with the big smile when they show that family and my entire head hurts when I see Dixit family issues jo kabhi khatam hi nehin hote. Ek gaya to doosra yeh log bana lete hain.

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

Today's best scene was hands down that bhai duj Sona and saurabh scene .👏👏

such sweet and awesome scene😳

How i wish sona to stay in bose house always , I mean she always became herself ,same sensible Dr sonakshi Bose .😃

While in that mad dixit house😕

sona not sharing saurabh's condition with dev will definitely going to affect him deeply .I would say good for him . Good lesson ,hope he will finally learn it.😕 otherwise🥱


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Prenuptial is a Ishwari-dev hand grenade. Its going to burn Dev too. Because it's his signatures on that piece of paper

Infertility- i can see from the makers point if view how they are proceeding in that direction. The physical nurturing that Dev is capable of will be valuable in that track. Devakshi aren't ready to deal with such a shock. That still doesnt allow for a husband to hide such a big secret from his wife.

Saurabh - let's see. I think dev needs to feel what it is like to be neha and sona


Originally posted by: tia.o

That's always a concern when things are kept hidden and they have more important secrets than just this. The other secrets are more relevant to their married life than family matters like infertility and pre-nup. That's why I kept saying Honesty is extremely important in relationship.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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That's exactly why Dev and Sona needs to build a solid bond now. The stronger the bond now, the lesser the impact will be. But the way their relationship is now, it won't be able to take the burden of pre-nup and infertility truth. And bond is created by open conversation and setting up expectations and yes also by respecting each other's space in their lives.

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen


Prenuptial is a Ishwari-dev hand grenade. Its going to burn Dev too. Because it's his signatures on that piece of paper

Infertility- i can see from the makers point if view how they are proceeding in that direction. The physical nurturing that Dev is capable of will be valuable in that track. Devakshi aren't ready to deal with such a shock. That still doesnt allow for a husband to hide such a big secret from his wife.

Saurabh - let's see. I think dev needs to feel what it is like to be neha and sona


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agreed. The iron is hot. Sona has nearly driven Dev to the point where he understands that cute sorrys work, however, after that you got to sit and talk. Ishwari's idea of packing sona off to her parents' has almost fallen on its face. Sona hasn't allowed this fight to mati-gelofy her visit to her parents. Sona is holding ground. It's home run Miss khargosh. Don't let your handsome husband talk you into not talking... this fight can be the end of a lot of wrong patch ups and the start of difficult conversations. You aren't there to only allow Dev to live in the moment. Dev you aren't there to just make this woman go jello when you talk in that husky voice. Become her Proper Prince Charming. She already said it - when she is there you are always finding faults in her (I know why. You want to keep her out of that storm. But that's not a long term solution). Listen to her Dev. This could be your golden chance.



Originally posted by: tia.o

That's exactly why Dev and Sona needs to build a solid bond now. The stronger the bond now, the lesser the impact will be. But the way their relationship is now, it won't be able to take the burden of pre-nup and infertility truth. And bond is created by open conversation and setting up expectations and yes also by respecting each other's space in their lives.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Tia my girl I caught up on the episode now and really liked it , I am watching after a long time and the episode had a beautiful feel good feeling and had the old Episode vibe back.
Things I liked

Loved Saurabh and Sona interactions brought tears to my eyes very heartwarming

The Dev and Sona interactions was too adorable the actors seem to really live the part and Sona is simply glowing

Love the Bose family but I see an impending storm here because of Ekena and Vicky I don't understand that equation

Felt sad for Neha today she seemed confused and Easwari looked helpless today

Like Dev saving Vicky for the gifts and liked how the way he was not willing to do the same at office.

Liked the exchange of looks between mama and him..when he got the call

The yamaraj story that Easwari said today was good..and I am thinking that is a forewarning I think Vicky antics will throw mama in hells gates and Easwari will come to the rescue..not know how.


All in all a beautiful episode I liked it

I absolutely adored your toast story..it was hilarious 😆








Edited by gemini54 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: gemini54

Tia my girl I caught up on the episode now and really liked it , I am watching after a long time and the episode had a beautiful feel good feeling and had the old Episode vibe back.

Things I liked - Oh my. I loved the episode too... Same pinch.

Loved Saurabh and Sona interactions brought tears to my eyes very heartwarming - That was so beautiful. I loved loved loved the way Sona took care of Saurabh while maintaining his self-respect. She made sure of his pride did not get injured at the same time fulfilled the responsibility of a sister.

The Dev and Sona interactions was too adorable the actors seem to really live the part and Sona is simply glowing - Again reminded me of old episodes. The way they were fighting and making up before marriage.

Love the Bose family but I see an impending storm here because of Ekena and Vicky I don't understand that equation - Oh yes. I hope Elena does not get into trouble trusting Vicky too much. Because that might be another issue between Dev and Sona if Ishwari forces Dev to stand by Vicky and Sona's stands by Elena. But honestly, Elena is such a duffer. If Vicky has so much time to hang around her that means he is not working. That means he hasn't changed. Why doesn't this girl add up the clues right in front of her eyes?

Felt sad for Neha today she seemed confused and Easwari looked helpless today - Neha has written her own destiny and Ishwari has supplied the pen and ink. Neha will suffer more and Ishwari will just have to watch it. But again, had she done what Asha did yesterday even for a short time when Neha came home, her daughter won't be suffering today as much. Even now, she isn't spending any time with Neha and running after Dev.

Like Dev saving Vicky for the gifts and liked how the way he was not willing to do the same at office. - Dev won't save Vicky at work because that work supplies his family's livelihood. He'd never endanger that. I hope from now on, he will keep an eye on Vicky though before he causes more loss than he already did.

Liked the exchange of looks between mama and him..when he got the call - Mama knows his son so his worry is justified. And Dev knows how smart he is, so he would try to spare him as much as possible. But it is a catch 22 situation for him which Sona knew would happen if Vicky is given more responsibility than he can take.

The yamaraj story that Easwari said today was good..and I am thinking that is a forewarning I think Vicky antics will throw mama in hells gates and Easwari will come to the rescue..not know how. - She will put pressure on Dev to forgive Vicky, what else? Whether it's about Elena or about whatever loss he caused at work. However, I am happy that like the fake spoilers, Sona didn't ask Dev for Saurabh's job because I am happy that as a sister, she solved his problem without showering money on him and also because if Saurabh had joined Dev's business, Vicky might have used him as convenient scapegoat to put all blame on him. Saurabh got spared from that. I am sorry but favours from Dixit family are too costly as proven by Ranveer's situation.


All in all a beautiful episode I liked it

I absolutely adored your toast story..it was hilarious 😆 - Ha ha. Thank you. It was even funnier in real life.



Edited by tia.o - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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There is another thing that I hope Dev understands. When Neha and Ranveer fought , the Dixit family blamed Ranveer with out even hearing him out and blindly supported Neha. Now at Sona's house when Dev and Sona fought , her father kicks both of them out and asked them to solve their problems and get back. Here her father treated both his daughter and SIL similarly . I believe that was a nice way to get things sorted out btwn the two...


If Bijoy knows that Sona fought with Dev seriously ( if it happens in future ) ,if Bijoy gets indication that Sona doesn't want to go back like Neha did,I am sure he would throw Dev out,kick him and close the door on his face. The present tiff between Sona and Dev should not be compared with Neha and Ranveer's feud. Bijoy threw them both because whatever happened Dev came running back to Sona .so he asked them to solve their issues together. Both the situations are different and judging Bijoy based on that,I can not agree.
Neha's issue is serious. In the begining except GKB no one said any harsh words regarding Ranveer.
Later also Dev blasted Ranveer,and others kept silent.
Couples will always feel free and behave without inhibitions when they are at girl's place. It is a common thing.A fact that every one will agree.Son in law will fool around,joke and do things that he won't do at his house. My husband also behaves the same way.
That doesn't mean they love their sasural more than their own house.
Despite all the restrictions,rules and disturbances men mostly feel contented at their home sweet home.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Absolutely loved your post. Especially that toast incident 😆
All these small incidents will impact Dev subconsciously. Change is a very slow process. Yesterday I was watching the show with my mother. When Dev came to bose house, I said he doesn't care when his wife is at his house and now is running behind her.

My mother just said one thing it takes time. Look he is making an effort. Throughout his life he has been under his mother's thumb. It is going to take a lot of time for him to come out of it. But he is slowly changing.

That set me thinking. Neha knew ranveers financial position and self respect before marriage so it is wrong for her to expect rqnveer to change.

Sonakshi knew of Dev's mummy issues before marriage. So why are we blaming her if she is using herculean patience to change Dev and win his trust.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Actually here I'd like to point out that you are assuming that Bijoy won't even try to make Sona at least talk to Ranveer and just throw out Dev just because Sona said so.

Even now when Dev and Sona were fighting, Bijoy threw out both to sort it out between themselves and the issue wasn't even as serious as a divorce. He didn't do what Ishwari did as in giving out divorce like candy.

Neha's issue was indeed serious and hence needed to be handled in a more matured way than Dixits handled it. No one tried to talk to Neha or at least find out Ranveer's side of the story.

Here Bijoy doesn't want to know anyone's side because their fights are not as serious. But if their fight were as serious as divorce is being mentioned, I doubt Bijoy or Asha won't even bother asking Dev his side of the story or won't try to make Sona talk to Dev. But then this family actually wants their children to be happy in the long run, not hand over divorce to fulfill their short term demand.

And yes, all couple always behave freely in the girl's house. But not all women feel at home at the boy's house. Can you tell me why? Why women are told to behave a certain way otherwise the Sasural won't like them but men are never told that?

It's because men are treated far better in their in-laws and their own home than women. A woman's family knows that if they treat their son-in-law badly, they will lose their daughter too because of course as a wife, their daughter will support her husband and consider his respect as hers. Even in Hindu mythology, Sati sacrificed her life when her father insulted her husband, Shiv. Can you remember similar example if the gender is reversed?

A man's family knows that there's no way a man ever think that his wife's insult is his insult and leave his family if his wife is not treated well. If he does, he will be called Jodu ka ghulam and not a great husband. So the behaviour continues.

Not all men have shitty, abusive family. But obviously all women who can't be as free as men in their in-laws have that experience as I have heard from people. I am as free and at home at my in-laws as my husband is at his in-laws and that's exactly how it should be in a fair and equal world. Why should I won't feel free in my in-laws? And if I feel otherwise why should I stay with them pretending to be part of their family if they don't treat me like my family? Whose responsibility is it to make sure that I am comfortable at my in-laws if my own husband dusts off his hands and leaves me to suffer alone?

The only exception to this rule seems to be Dixit family. They treat both their daughter-in-law and son-in-law equally bad. But then both come from poor family. Their treatment of Natasha was very different and had Neha married a rich guy, she would have stuck by him and I am sure he'd get royal treatment in Dixit house just like Natasha got. For Dixits, money equals respect.



Originally posted by: ltelidevara


If Bijoy knows that Sona fought with Dev seriously ( if it happens in future ) ,if Bijoy gets indication that Sona doesn't want to go back like Neha did,I am sure he would throw Dev out,kick him and close the door on his face. The present tiff between Sona and Dev should not be compared with Neha and Ranveer's feud. Bijoy threw them both because whatever happened Dev came running back to Sona .so he asked them to solve their issues together. Both the situations are different and judging Bijoy based on that,I can not agree.
Neha's issue is serious. In the begining except GKB no one said any harsh words regarding Ranveer.
Later also Dev blasted Ranveer,and others kept silent.
Couples will always feel free and behave without inhibitions when they are at girl's place. It is a common thing.A fact that every one will agree.Son in law will fool around,joke and do things that he won't do at his house. My husband also behaves the same way.
That doesn't mean they love their sasural more than their own house.
Despite all the restrictions,rules and disturbances men mostly feel contented at their home sweet home.

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