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Posted: 9 years ago

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Sorry to hear that you did not get the love that was your right. But that's precisely why I keep asking for fair treatment. Why should only a few women be "blessed" when it's the right and decent thing to do? Why should women leave their family behind and come to live in a family where she won't even get the same respect and treatment as her own family?

After all it's not natural phenomenon. No where else in the world it happens. Then why only in India (or other countries where women are treated differently than men) does it happen?

One day I want to see every single woman getting their due respect as her husband's equal and not just a blessed few. Every single men are taught the same values as the women and are taught to put their spouses on equal footing as themselves. But for that I need to speak out and so does every woman whether they are the lucky few or not.

Love takes time, rights and respect should not wait when responsibilities don't wait even for a single day after marriage. Why accept responsibility without rights? That's such a bad deal.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara
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Agree with you on all points. But not every girl will have the good luck to feel as free as she does at her parent's house. That includes me even.

Years may pass by but the feeling of being left out of many important issues will continue further.
Very few girls would get a sasural that is similar to their own house,Blessed are those couples,in laws and parents.

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Tia, the toast incident is just too funny

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The way Dev spoke to Sonakshi was quite rude. Sonakshi hasnt made a big deal out of that in front of her parents.. And in Neha's defence she didnt for a very long time either. The parallels between this particular fight between Dev-sona and the bigger fight between Ranvir-neha cant be drawn. However, the basic comparison is there. Sona's family picked the cues within seconds of her arriving. They are facilitating the conversation. While Neha's family didnt even make an attempt to contact Ranvir or to find out what was wrong (by speaking to Neha)... Mind you Sona's family have bigger problems of their own. In my opinion, the parallels between Bijoy and Ishwari can be drawn in this instance

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

If Bijoy knows that Sona fought with Dev seriously ( if it happens in future ) ,if Bijoy gets indication that Sona doesn't want to go back like Neha did,I am sure he would throw Dev out,kick him and close the door on his face. The present tiff between Sona and Dev should not be compared with Neha and Ranveer's feud. Bijoy threw them both because whatever happened Dev came running back to Sona .so he asked them to solve their issues together. Both the situations are different and judging Bijoy based on that,I can not agree.
Neha's issue is serious. In the begining except GKB no one said any harsh words regarding Ranveer.
Later also Dev blasted Ranveer,and others kept silent.
Couples will always feel free and behave without inhibitions when they are at girl's place. It is a common thing.A fact that every one will agree.Son in law will fool around,joke and do things that he won't do at his house. My husband also behaves the same way.
That doesn't mean they love their sasural more than their own house.
Despite all the restrictions,rules and disturbances men mostly feel contented at their home sweet home.

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Ha ha... Thanks.

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen
Tia, the toast incident is just too funny

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Posted: 9 years ago

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@ the drama queen

The way Dev spoke to Sonakshi was quite rude. Sonakshi hasnt made a big deal out of that in front of her parents.. And in Neha's defence she didnt for a very long time either. The parallels between this particular fight between Dev-sona and the bigger fight between Ranvir-neha cant be drawn. However, the basic comparison is there. Sona's family picked the cues within seconds of her arriving. They are facilitating the conversation. While Neha's family didnt even make an attempt to contact Ranvir or to find out what was wrong (by speaking to Neha)... Mind you Sona's family have bigger problems of their own. In my opinion, the parallels between Bijoy and Ishwari can be drawn in this instance

If you think Sona's family have bigger problems I have nothing to say in this matter.

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: ltelidevara
@ the drama queen

The way Dev spoke to Sonakshi was quite rude. Sonakshi hasnt made a big deal out of that in front of her parents.. And in Neha's defence she didnt for a very long time either. The parallels between this particular fight between Dev-sona and the bigger fight between Ranvir-neha cant be drawn. However, the basic comparison is there. Sona's family picked the cues within seconds of her arriving. They are facilitating the conversation. While Neha's family didnt even make an attempt to contact Ranvir or to find out what was wrong (by speaking to Neha)... Mind you Sona's family have bigger problems of their own. In my opinion, the parallels between Bijoy and Ishwari can be drawn in this instance

If you think Sona's family have bigger problems I have nothing to say in this matter.

I mean in the current situation, they even have saurabh's job problem. Not deep rooted problems like Dixits...

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