Awwww! - Page 5

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Wonderful post. Agree with every Awww point though I hate the very word itself.

If you don't mind would like to add some more Awww worthy points here.

When Iswari says Sona went to celebrate Bhaiduj with her family Dev says yeh Bhi to uska parivar hai. Doesn't he know the significance of Bhai Duj? That Sona has to celebrate it with her brother?

But still the great iconic lover that he is who loves his wife to the extent of not letting her away from him even for Bhai Duj he deserves our Awww.We should conveniently forget here how he excluded her from interfering with Neha's issue.

Certainly Awww Dev Babu for being so hopelessly in love with your wife. Just Awww.

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Thanks Ite for pointing this one out. I was thinking to do the same.

Ask us married women how we wait for these few days to spend with our own parents and cousins/siblings . Like I mentioned in some other post, after marriage Dev thinks Sona as a commodity, a prized possession, with no life of her own, and JUST his wife. He refuses to be ONLY a husband/lover, but expects Sona to have only 1 role in her life - Mrs. Dixit or whatever .

A little sensitivity will not hurt if Dev thinks from a married woman's point of view. But for this I can still give him benefit of doubt, he is from that age where he, being a male child, was given more priority as well as responsibility, where things are not equal between men and women. If Neha/Niki/Rhea all of them are married, I don't think he would expect them to stay at Ishwari Niwaas for 'few' days as well. He himself was never close to any of his sisters, Bhai dooj is all a tradition for him. How would he know what it means to a normal family where brothers and sisters look forward to this whole 1 week throughout the year and it's not just 'tilak' and 'gifts' but lots of chit-chat, fun, food, movie 😳

No one in Dixits ever know that. Probably Niki and Rhea celebrate this festive on their own as well. 😆

Originally posted by: srilotus

yeh post toh fun post ban gaya😆

hubby wife relationship hota hi aisa hai...husbands ek baat kehte hain wives 10 baatein sunati hain all their life.😆😆

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Seriously Doctor 🤣 Dev has again proved how typical he is as a husband/boyfriend and that he doesnt deserve evn 10% of Sona.. Somehow Sona too is responsible for this downfall of Dev.. Respect and rights cant be given it has to be earned.. Sona is happy being the doormat of a typical male chauvinistic MCP Dev (since I cant tell the full form of P for Dev here 😆 ).. why should we bother 😎 ..

Awww Dev is again going to be rewarded for his MCPness by Miss. Khargosh blah blah..

Originally posted by: survika1111

this is sooo Awww-Full

i Mean full of awww

Don't take it otherwise😆

p.s. I Like Aww Btw😳😳

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

The answer to your question - cant Dev recognize his mom's expression when it comes to his lovely wife Sona , is Yes, he can !! Then why is he not acknowledging it ?? Answer to that will be he can't accept the fact that his mom doesn't like his wife...so why he does he ignore...In this case for Dev, "Ignorance is a bliss "!!

Why does he ignore the obvious ?? Sometimes we find it difficult to face the fact because the fact might bring in so much of pain that we might not be able to handle or even accept. So, we tend to create an emotional mechanism through which we choose to remain oblivious of the situation. This can be done consciously or un consciously. We might know abt the situation, or we might get a hint and we get to know abt it too...even then we choose to ignore because that ignorance ,tells us that it is better not to know abt the situation and this attitude in a person is referred to as "Willful Blindness".

Dev , had a very tough childhood. It took a lot of effort and pain to be who he is today. But we need to understand that while he succeeded in his life , the guidance he got was not enough for him . The path he chose was his own. So there are a lot of flaws in him. The goodness that exist in him is thru his mom's teachings which is very patriarchal in nature.

When I think of Dev , for me he is like a diamond...diamonds are created under great pressure..like the saying goes uncut diamond has great shining qualities under the rough exterior. All needs to be done is lil bit of polishing and then you will start seeing him as the brightest diamond ever. With time Sona will be able to help him to reach there...

PS : I am sure that day isnt far when we get to see the real Dev...we have already started seeing changes ...😳😉

Originally posted by: tia.o

Here's the best Awww moment for me...

Dev told Sona to stay out of his family's business and then after reading his letter he said, "You are not outsider. You are my wife, a part of this family." Awww... cho chweet.

So basically translating Dev's statement here's what I get.

"Sona, my darling, you are my wife, a part of this family. I love you so much that I miss you every moment. BUT, please read the disclaimer below.

1. Just don't open your mouth and express any opinion (We don't need it. Family matter, you see)

2. Just do as you are told and you will continue to be the love of my life (Isn't that wonderful?)

3. If you are feeling like an outsider it's because you are stepping over your boundary and actually thinking that you have any say in anything (Really, how can I make you understand. May be an example will help)

It's like when we consider our helps and our pets as part of our family.

They are there, they are treated decently, they are fed and taken care off.

But do they interfere in family matters? No.

Do we share or discuss anything with them? No.

Can you name any other family member who is treated like you and asked to stay out of family business? No.

So what did we learn today? Yes, your comparison should not be with Maa, Neha, Mama, Mami or even Vicky, Riya or Nikki. Your status is to be compared with Kichu bhaiya.

Mimic him and you will continue to be my wife, part of my family and a true life partner in YOUR IMAGINATION!!! (There I said it)"