Ria ka Adda: The Lost Happiness! - Page 6

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Posted: 16 years ago
#51
@Manna: Well I am still hopeful that she will fight and her turning back is a part of it! She could not do anything at that particular moment in my opinion.. I wrote this earlier as well that I feel she did the right thing by turning back...josh se nahin hosh se kaam lena pade ga....But than if she sits down and weeps and feels helpless today as well...I would be with you...I obviously dont expect this from her!
Closeup ka Namoona is the only third party who knows KSs intentions from day 1....I dont want him to be another useless damaad after Salil....MAYBE he does it again (last time he did it with Arohi so why not HP)
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Posted: 16 years ago
#52
@Tulli

"So do you think she can do it? Ek dil [Arjun] ki liye apni duniya [family] de sakti hai?" I REALLY HOPE THIS

GREAT POST
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Posted: 16 years ago
#53
OK guys, my after thoughts are being posted first today!...soooo much to say. I am over flooded with emotions.
I went to sleep thinking I really did not enjoy watching the episode because there lies another reason for AA seperation and this time it will be more painful.
However, I woke up realising that it was a good episode nonetheless.
After thoughts
* A father whose most precious thing is under threat (according to him).
* An obedient daughter who besides Arjun has only loved one other man - her father.
* A lover who can fight the whole world for his love but is defeated infront of a frail man.
Hatred, Anger are those emotions which can make you blind. The harsh words of HP mock AA's love. Is this a father's concern or HP's hatred for Arjun?
I kept pondering my thoughts on perhaps if HP had not caught them, he would not have hated Arjun to this extent. Before he disliked him, now he hates him. Is this because of dissapointment or seeing that his daughter is capable of loving another man besides himself...a man who he dissaproves of. Does this justify HP digging dirt on Arjun's parents? I guess this is what anger does to you.
I would have been dissapointed had they shown a transformation in HP overnight but I still cant justify him abusing Arjun's parents. It was like he was blaming Arjun for his parent's failed relationship.
A daughter
As I woke up this morning, I felt I could understand Arohi's silence. She has never been the rebellious child and only because she is in love does not mean she should forget her father's love and sacrifices.
Arohi is a very strong person and she stood grounded when she confronted her father. Her personality is strong enough to oppose her father but her nature, her principles would not let her. She made her point and I guess thats why her screaming to her dad infron of Arjun was not required or perhaps she was drained in learning all that Arjun gave up for her.
Kritika was outstanding! She has taken Arohi's character to complete new heights. Even as she stood there, her expressions were phenomenal.❤️❤️❤️
Doosra Aadmi!!! (In Arohi's life)
Emotions are such a strange thing. When you like someone, you can forgive their gravest mistakes but when you hate someone, they can cut their head and lay it on the plate for you but even that wont be good enough.
KS's honesty to HP gave him the green signal to marry Arohi.
Arjun's honesty on the other hand, closed the path to his love.
I think the tactic of honesty would not have worked in this case and it surely didnt. The timing was wrong. Yes, Arjun was not boasting about all that he did for Arohi and his family but at this time and to an angry wounded father, it came across like that.
Where is Badi Maa? She has great potential in these circumstances. Yes, HP wont listen to her but I think ideally, Savita and DK should have gone to talk to HP. Perhaps he would not have been this battameez with them? Although knowing HP's fitrat, he would have been and matters would be worse? I dont know. Maybe that is the next step in PB's game plan!
Karan outshone today! He has proved he is capable of doing anything that is thrown at him and with great ease...He was a natural!! (even dance in my opinion!!!) ❤️❤️❤️
Kat.xxx.
P.S. - Arshiyaa, iss kmh walo ne meri kasam thod di!! They put that scene of Arjun pleading as a flashback and I had to watch some of it!! I closed my eyes quickly though!! hehehehe!
P.P.S. It seems that Bua sympathises with Arohi!
P.P.P.S & V.Important - I am scared. I cant deal with another seperation...I want to see more of AA romance, there is still Sur's wedding which had potential for loads more masti, chori chori pyaar, takraar. PB - please dont take our happiness away so quick. Please dont break this fairy tale.
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Posted: 16 years ago
#54
My Post! '(Wrote it yday night with a not so calm mind!!)
Today, I have lost even that tiny bit of respect I had left in me for HP. Till now we all wanted to kill him but I have gone beyond all that, I wouldn't even want to touch someone like him. Yes, he is elder, he is a father but his manner of speaking to others cannot justify this. I feel like I can never forgive him.

Pre final verdict

There was the 'oomph' factor missing in today's episode. The dialogues were hard hitting but it still didn't do it for me. I expected ALOT more from Arohi post confrontation with Jibber Jabber. I didn't want her to be angry at her father but maybe if she pleaded to him when Arjun was there, that would have had a better impact on me.

Arohi-Kaalia Confrontation

It's calm and collected yet comes across powerful and intimidating. It shows Kaalia in the intimidating position and Arohi, in the position of a defeated child.

Being caught red handed by your parent is the most deadly position to be in because you cant deny anything and you can't shout back at them about it because you have been caught out, hence, all you can do is give your reasonings.

I am going to be sitting on the fence while writing about this scene because both are right in their own persona.

Kaalia

His trust and dreams have been shattered. Arohi was his aspiration. He was always proud to say that I am Arohi Sharma's father. He is disappointed that his adarsh daughter is now old enough to make her own decisions and that too the biggest decision of her life.

Arohi

How can any child bear the thought of disappointing their parent? As you grow up, all you want is that your parents are proud of you and you can imagine Arohi to be the type of daughter who was always obedient. Arohi was baba's 'achi waali bachi'.

What went wrong???

LOVE LOVE LOVE!!!...An emotion that knows no boundaries! A father who sacrifices his whole life towards bringing their child up, should they expect the same in return? Arohi and baba had a special bond. They were friends as well so I guess baba's gussa is justified because he is hurt.

However, why is everything always expected from kids but never the other way round? A child has expectations too and its sad to see that Kaalia cant trust Arohi's words. Your own daughter. If he can not trust her judgement then I guess Arjun really did not have any hope.

Conclusion No.1

I liked how father and daughter conversed.

HP-Arjun Confrontation

HP disgusts me. I have no respect for him

HP ka gussa Arjun ke liye jaayaz hai cos he hates the guy. Fine. I can deal with that. I have been doing so but to talk ill of Arjun's upbringing and his parents really disgusted me. It does not suit an elder to talk in this manner.

HP is a hypocrypte. He talks of himself to be highly respectable and having principles but yet he can stoop so low that he feels no shame in criticising someone's upbringing and abusing their parents. I am appalled.

Conclusion No.2

I hate people who look down on a child because of their parents mistakes. RM, I am highly disappointed and aghast that such dialogues were even used.

Final Verdict

I did not enjoy watching today's episode because it hurt.
Arjun's confession really touched me.

Highlight of the day

DK PUNJ & AP HUG! Once again, DK steals the show for me! There were many moments in the episode which could have triumphed but DK's screen presence has an enthralling aura.

Liner of the day'aapko joh bolna hai, woh aap please mujhe bolye, mere dad ke baare mein, please kuch mat boliye'

I wasn't expecting a miracle. I would have been disappointed if HP fat se maan jataa toh but I just hated his dialogues. They were shallow and gatiya.

Kat.xxx.

P.S. Karan, you were top notch!!

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Posted: 16 years ago
#55
SANJUUUUUU ... eeeks... i loved your post man...holy crap...every word had me captured. shit man..i loved it!!!! so many favourite parts..where to start? OH YAH... Chameli Ki Shaadi!!!! ummm... only my alltime favourite romantic comedy... GREAT FUN!!! if the do chameli ki shaadi i am all for it! I just don't want straight up DDLJ. They can blend the DDLJ with um.... CKS..or anything else. anyways... i'm blabbering.

My fav line in your post ... "arjun....its their turn now....let them do it..aur kitna karega tu yaar !!"

yap. i'm so with you yaar. so with ya.
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Posted: 16 years ago
#56
@ria: THE SONG!! fabulous actually. 🤗

@parm... thank you dear. 🤗oh, and i hope she does it too!
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Posted: 16 years ago
#57
Natz...i'm really needing the "love it" button for your post man...itching for it! could you have said it any better? nope.

argument #5 - OMG! i never thought of that. great...now i'm even more angry. bloody.

Deewani Demand - ummm....me too babes...me too!😃
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Posted: 16 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: luvfindsitsway



Yup, you have a point here.. KS can b a violent lover but then the story wud b sooo cliched... arrgh i wud hate that.. i wud prefer him 2 stay in the gray shade.. gud for Arohi n bad for Arjun... but the result wud still remain same.. A_A's separation.. but that seems so unprobable!! He wud definitely hurt Aro as he wud feel deserted by Aro too like his first wife!

@Manisha: I know that it sounds cliched but at the same time the KMH team won't bring us to the present so soon....They'll try to drag the past as much as possible...I want the past to be dragged but only with Arjuhi scenes & not with the KS ka stuff.....Secondly, as you said there is quite a possiblity that he'll compare his ex-wife with Arohi & will hurt her the double......I mean, the pain which his ex-wife gave him & also the second rejection both will make him so violent that he might actually re-think of revenge or hurting Arohi very badly by either bedding her or something else may be.....I know that the end result is AA's seperation but in any case we knew it from day one that AA would be seperated in the past.....

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: tulli

Ria...yaar..my friends need to be happy as well - but u know what would make me happy? one of your home made cookies! LOL. chalo next time.

listen, gup shup #6, i'm glad you liked it yaar..that was my first thought cause i have SEEN this backfire in real life. he he ... took a long time to manaao my dad. let me tell you. [no, it was not me! tee hee. i'm the romantically-challenged child. ;)]

Sheetal..yah man, i hope so too. and in a very strong, i-love-you-dad-but-Arjun-is-my-life type of way. na? thanks btw. :)

@Tulli: You are welcome dear......I have always loved your posts because they are always unbiased & that's what makes each one of us see the other side of the coin which we tend to neglect.....I just wish that Arohi says to HP that she loves Arjun very much & thretens him that she cannot live without him.........Let's see till which extent will Arohi go for her love....

@Kat: Loved reading your post.....

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Posted: 16 years ago
#60
Damn internet explorer!! (me got steam coming out of my ears!)
Can someone please send me page 1 and page 7!!!..cant open.

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