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Posted: 16 years ago
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@ Karishma - I loved your post!!! I felt the same anger about HP's behaviour.
And soooo true! here is questioning Arjun's character and Arohi's choice when he his choice is so wrong. He is choosing such a guy for his daughter who has all his life treated women like trash. HP, jaago before its too late. Parents make mistakes too and HP is making the biggest mistake of his life for which he will never be able to face himself...if something happens to Arohi because of HP's stubborness, he should go and die in chooloo bhar pani!
K, I go with option no.8!!!...Arjun, once you are done with the voodoo doll, give it to me!!..I want to poke it then cut it into small pieces then burn it.
Kat.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Kya galti kit hi maine,

Ki toot gaye saare sapne,

Jis pyaar ke saath duniya basaane chala tha,

Jiske saath ne mujhe badal diya,

Usi se phir ho gaya hoon door,

Hum dono ho gaye hain kitne majboor,

Na woh mere paas aa sakthi hai,

Na main uske paas ja saktaa hoon,

Na koi galti hote hue bhi,

Sazaa de rahi hai kismet humein,

Kabhi pyaar mujse kar raha tha nafrat,

Toh kabhi hum dono ke beech khadi thi meri kismet,

Aaj jab laga ki khade hain hum dono saath,

Phir na aaya gam ki siva kuch apne haath,

Kismet ne phir khela aisa khel,

Ki na ho sakta hai apna mel,

Kyon aa gayi humaare beech yeh duniya phir,

Ab na kat ta hai uske bin zindagi ka safar,

Bas khatam ho jaaye ab sab duriyan,

Warna chale hum chod kar yeh duniya…

(sorry last line..)

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Posted: 16 years ago
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1. Arjun's from a broken home, he's the son of a materialistic father, but does he have the faintest idea about the kind of family KS comes from? He's known Savita all his life, and Arjun also has her blood in his veins? and Savita is the guardian angel of the Sharma girls.

HP thinks that 20 years of teching is more valuable than a 20 minutes transformation.....Only his daughters can have good teachings but not the one who is actually borne from her womb.....See, if a person has to change then he/she can change in either 5 minutes or 5 years.....Change is a change........HP has that ideology that Savita can only be the guardian angels of his daughters & not of anyone else be it that the person her own son.....



2. Arjun is Arohi's former boss; KS is Arohi's boss at present. Surely she knows both men better than HP can ever know them, her judgment HAS to count.

For HP, he is the only one who is right.....Remaining people are fools...And the person who thinks like this is the biggest fool


3. Arjun bringing HP's musical instruments, 'aap sabit kya karna chahte hain' is what HP says to Arjun? well I'll say he wants to sabit karna the same thing that KS has been doing by getting Sur's shaadi arranged and helping with the hall etc., aik beti ki zindagi koi banaey, punya? doosri ki koi doosra banaey? paap!

For HP, if KS even kills someone then that is Punya but if AP does the best of the deeds then it is Paap....I just fear that if tomorrow KS beds Arohi then HP wouldn't mind it because he sees to be least interested in anything else other than marrying off his daughter to KS.....


4. 'mujhe aik baat bata, tu theek toh haina?' never, in my life can I imagine having that kind of a conversation with my dad? HP especially has NO right asking that kind of a question, reason I say this? Remember Sur, out and about with Abhay, four hours in a car, all alone? did he ask Sur ki beta tu theek toh hai? Nah, all he did was agree to the wedding? Arohi should've acted thick, and instead of understanding the meaning of the question should have said 'nahi baba, unfortunately ab mein theek nahi hun?' just to give HP a heart attack and give some thandak to my kaleja!

I would have loved to watch if Arohi had said that......HP ko attack aa jaata aur hum log party karte...



5. Salil Purvi RAN away and got married- theek hai the circumstances were different, Salil had been okayed by HP where as Arjun was never okay, but look who bore the brunt of the fiasco at Salil Purvi's wedding? Arjun? I can accept the fact that anyone would blame Arjun in the heat of the moment cos he was the one hurling insults at the Sharmas, but HP has had plenty of time to think since the wedding. DK & Mohan are the ones he went to with the Purvi k past ki kahaani? Mohan's been forgiven, Paddy is forgiven, Salil forgiven for not being sensible enough to save Sharmas ki izzat at the mandap? Arjun, guilty without trial! Purvi ne peeth k peechay shaadi kari, okay? Arohi ne peeth k peechay vachan parhe, not okay? maybe cos Purvi ka kya hai?...voh HP ki beti thori na hai!
Daughter is a daughter while DIL is a DIL....How much ever tried but still we still try to discriminate between Daughter & DIL & thats what HP did.....Purvi kisi aur ghar ki beti hai & hence he doesn't bother but Arohi khud ke ghar ki beti hai & hence it bothers him

6. 'yaad hai jab tum 6th grade mein thee?.' Yadda yadda! HP, get a grip!! That was SIXTH grade!! Arohi would've been what?11?12? She's a 21 year old now and this is her LIFE not a silly homework assignment we're talking about? 😡

Even I partly hated this part....I liked the fact that Arohi is a strong character ut hated that HP is comparing Arjun to an answer........How the hell can HP compare Arjun to an answer of 6th grade?????

Also HP thinks that this is a college-going junoon & nothing else....But does that mean that KS' love is sachcha pyaar????????How can he say that KS' pyaar is not junoon???Does he have any proof?????Or is his saying this just because KS is older than Arjun????

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: KK84

@ Karishma - I loved your post!!! I felt the same anger about HP's behaviour.

And soooo true! here is questioning Arjun's character and Arohi's choice when he his choice is so wrong. He is choosing such a guy for his daughter who has all his life treated women like trash. HP, jaago before its too late. Parents make mistakes too and HP is making the biggest mistake of his life for which he will never be able to face himself...if something happens to Arohi because of HP's stubborness, he should go and die in chooloo bhar pani!
K, I go with option no.8!!!...Arjun, once you are done with the voodoo doll, give it to me!!..I want to poke it then cut it into small pieces then burn it.
Kat.

@Kat: Before that we all will kill him.......Errrgggggggghhhhhhhh......I just want him to know the truth asap & then apologise to AP, DK, Savita for all those bad/ill things said by him.....HP ko sharam se paani-paani hote dekhna chahti hoon main......

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Posted: 16 years ago
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@ Sheetal...love your post!..yday I feared that I have lost the ability to feel after seeing Arjun like this. I am just like you. Arjun's every action has an equal reaction on me..when he is happy, I am happy! I walk to work, smiling and dancing!..When he is sad, I am in mourning...Arjun is not just a reel character and those who dont watch KMH will never understand! I guess accolades to Karan for portraying Arjun to be so real. Thats why I firmly believe that Arjun Punj is what it is because of Karan Kundra. An actor makes the character real and Karan has done an outstanding job!! He is truly a SUPERSTAR!
Yday took the biscuit...the way HP has treated him. I have no emotions left for him. I dont even hate him. He has stooped so low in my eyes that his presence makes no difference to me.
I was thinking..how would my dad have reacted...and to be honest what HP did does suffice for HP's behaviour being one of a father...My dad would have flipped at me, if the guy came home, he would have been angry at him and if he knew the family, he would have blurted awful things about them even if it wasnt true, just so he could prove to this guy that he has the upper hand.
I still have no respect for HP and I still think what he said was bang out of order.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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@ Manna...Me too doubted DK's intentions there! I wonder what is cooking up in his mind...or is it our paranoia??
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Koi mujhe Pg 1 and 7 jaldi se bhejo!!!! I am dying to read Anu, Ria, Sanju and Natz post!!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I don't agree. HP has been Arohi's ma and baba. So it is most mothers who would ask their daughters a question like this, but HP's always acted as the father and mother. I would assume that he's accepted the role so well during all these years that now he feels obligated to be asking a question like this. When did Arohi's mom die? Cuz I wouldn't be surprised if it was HP who helped Arohi deal with her menstrual cycle beginning. :p
It's an annoying question...but I think it very aptly showed HP's state of mind.
Looks like I completely missed this part where HP asks Arohi about having a physical relation? I did not hear that at all!..and Thank god I didnt!..cos after that Budhaa toh mere haat se nahin bachtaa!
but putting my anger for HP aside, I think Manna, you are right!...for parents that is their biggest worry, especially in our indian culture...and as ma is not there, baba would have had to ask.
I still can not justify the way HP treated Arjun but what he said to Arohi was what any father would have said to a daughter whom he has 'fakhar' over.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: KK84

@ Sheetal...love your post!..yday I feared that I have lost the ability to feel after seeing Arjun like this. I am just like you. Arjun's every action has an equal reaction on me..when he is happy, I am happy! I walk to work, smiling and dancing!..When he is sad, I am in mourning...Arjun is not just a reel character and those who dont watch KMH will never understand! I guess accolades to Karan for portraying Arjun to be so real. Thats why I firmly believe that Arjun Punj is what it is because of Karan Kundra. An actor makes the character real and Karan has done an outstanding job!! He is truly a SUPERSTAR!

Yday took the biscuit...the way HP has treated him. I have no emotions left for him. I dont even hate him. He has stooped so low in my eyes that his presence makes no difference to me.
I was thinking..how would my dad have reacted...and to be honest what HP did does suffice for HP's behaviour being one of a father...My dad would have flipped at me, if the guy came home, he would have been angry at him and if he knew the family, he would have blurted awful things about them even if it wasnt true, just so he could prove to this guy that he has the upper hand.
I still have no respect for HP and I still think what he said was bang out of order.

@Kat: I too agree with you fully......Arjun Punj is because of Karan Kundra...Karan has portrayed the character so well that it feels as if it comes naturally to him...He is totally at ease....Though Arjun Punj is just a reel character but it has had an impact on our real-lives which cannot be washed away by anyone....Never has any show or in particular any character had this impact on me but the character of Arjun Punj has changed my mind-set totally....He has made me believe in love & the saying which says that love does not mean by living with her but it means to live for her....I never believed this but now I do....Arjun Punj has changed my perspective & now I am proud to say that after watching this show, I am a changed person....As it is said that every action has an equal & opposite reaction, same has happened with both of us....In this case, we are totally alike....

Rahi baat HP ki toh I have no feelings for him......Even hatred is one type of a feeling but I don't want such a strong feeling to be felt by me for someone who has stooped so low in my eyes that he can never gain my trust back....

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Posted: 16 years ago
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@ Tulli...I wish I could write like you!! You are amaaazing!! You struck the right chords on this episode!! Everything you have written makes sense!! I was like 'ohhhh'..'oh'.'ohhhhh'!! Loved it!!

I too think now will be Arohi's turn for 'dil ke liye duniya'. If she leaves her family, I will not feel any regret about her decision! Parents do eventually come round...some before the kids get married, some after.

And I truly believe that parents dont always make the right decisions for their children. One of my friend gave up the person she loved and married a guy 12 years older than her, chosen by her father and now, 5 years later, she is still unhappy and only living for her children. Her husband is never there for her, has affairs etc.
Morale of the story: Only because you bring your child into this world, does not mean you always know whats best for them.
Was the 'are you OK' question meant in that context??!! Me confused.com!! I thought he meant 'are you OK or have you lost it or something?!!'
Me too naive when it comes to these things!!!

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