Milind's transformation

Opti thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 18 years ago
#1

Most of us in the forum love Milsi to bits. His character has grown from strength to strength. I was watching an old episode of KYMT (truing to catch up since I was a late starter to the serial). This is the episode where Milsi finds out about Ayesha's marriage to Neev. The man is so furious that he slaps her and pulls her hair. He vows to take revenge and make her life miserable. And we know where his revenge plan got him - to his Prachi. (You may note that even in his worst behaviour with Prachs he has not slapped her. He had shaken her up and litertally jostled her around but never slapped her. But he had slapped Ayesha.)

This very same man has softened so much after he allowed himself to be loved by Prachs. In the independence day party when Ayesha threw the drinks on his shirt because Prachs had bought it, he did not react to her. By then he had let go of Ayesha and was moving towards Prachs (before the reunion party and Neev's declaration of love came and spoilt things for him). During the dandiya dance too when Ayesha slapped him he did not retaliate. The only difference between the time he slapped her and the other two incidents was his love for Prachs and hers for him. In fact he even offered Ayesha his friendship and care. He vowed to fight against anyone who harmed her. This man is surely at peace with himself and truly truly in love with his wife that he cannot be angry with anybody. That is the power of love.

Created

Last reply

Replies

11

Views

1.5k

Users

8

Likes

1

Frequent Posters

neharahul thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 18 years ago
#2
Totally agree with you. But my only concern is, now writer should not ruin milind's character as this happens in ekta's serials.
Monu-SunNaa thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 18 years ago
#3

Agree with u Opti, its amazing what the power of love can do and they also say that Marriage is an eye-opener too.

Edited by $weet Ema - 18 years ago
Ryka thumbnail
18th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail Engager Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 18 years ago
#4
Totally right, and a wonderful post dearπŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘ I am so happy for him he finally found the peace and contentment he was always searching for(for however long it lasts) . I think with the early demise of his mom, he was always needed an emotional anchor, a source of unconditional Love. He has always been restless soul... always in search of himself...which is what he was doing on the day at the lake looking at the reflection. He always has been unconditional in all his relationships in life till then... be in Sukruti who he had to nurture like a parent or continue to love Ayesha through out even though she always overlooked the obvious because she didnt believe in relationships, he stood by them with no expectations. But with Prachi expectations came in... the same way he was the only one Prachi had grown to expect from. And having found emotional stability in Prachi...he could just be himself and still know come what may Prachi is there with him.... he is at peace with himself. He is thoroughly content man today and all because Prachi stand by him.

A classic example was the Dahi Handi episodes both the time. The 1st time around it was a challenge Ayesha throw at him, she said he cant reach it... but he did reach it and gave the same challenging look back just before he broke the Matki. But when he broke the Handi for Prachi... he turned around looked at her for support and then went ahead to climb the human pyramid😳
And if Prachi stand by him... nothing can stir the set peace in him. But if Prachi goes away from him... handling him after that will be a 100 times more difficult that it was before.

God Bless... I hope they dont ruin it all for him & Prachi.
jnawaz thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 6
Posted: 18 years ago
#5
perfectly put hun...i totally agree with you...this is what all of us love-sick, hopeless-romantics want to see...

we see this guy...arrogant and stubborn as they come...not a shred of decensy in them, no compassion, no heart...he maybe drop dear gorgeous, but that is all he has going for him...that and money...as all of ektas hero's do...he is just the jerk that you love to hate...but then when situations change...your view does too...it is heart melting to see the once hard headed pig now a total softy in the hands of the woman he loves...there is somethign about that that just does me in...he may he a hard a*s to the rest of the world, but when it comes to the woman in his life...he is putty in her hands...he may call all the shots in the boardroom, but in the house he knows that he is wrapped around her little finger...the power of love...haye...kya baath hai
JAZ
Opti thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 18 years ago
#6
Agree with you. But here what I wanted to convey was not only has his attitude towards his wife changed. Love has made him a calm, sensible and sensitive person even to others. That is why when Prachi was freaking out after the attempted suicide and Ayesha went on about their wonderful past, he could be compassionate and at the same time firm in expressing his thoughts and feelings.
jnawaz thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 6
Posted: 18 years ago
#7
yes that too...his love for prachi is far more powerful than his love for ayesha ever was...i think his feeling for ayesha were maybe not love but maybe infatuation...dare i say πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜‰ ...but what he feels for prachi is strong and powerful... 😳 😳
JAZ
kubare thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 18 years ago
#8

Awww....Opti darling..wonderful dear...adn totally agree....

Our Milli baby...has changed for the best.....

He was a good human even before...but was ...wild...and restless.......and after marrige to Prachi and falling in love...he is tamed and content.....πŸ˜‰πŸ˜³πŸ˜›

Thats what I love...Tamed...but not Henpecked....πŸ˜†

Ryka thumbnail
18th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail Engager Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 18 years ago
#9
One scene i can never forget is the morning after the I-Day party... Milind and Neev crossed paths....and Milind for the 1st time and the only time i guess has spoken straight face to Neev. I loved the fact that Milind in his own stupid way acknowledged Neev for helping him save PrachiπŸ˜ƒ.... If they could talk without killing eachother, then that acknowledgment is as good as Thank You for your help. I loved the scene for the fact that Milind reacted as a husband and felt that Neev was in a place now that his help for Prachi will be a favour to him aswellπŸ˜› Milind could do that only because at that point he was so secure about Prachi. Cant say the something about the cliff scene though... there he was completely shattered.

It will be fun to see how he reacts to Prachi & Neev now. I am sure he wont have any problem with them. Actually he wont have had a problem if he wasnt insecure... now that he is far too secure...he wont even dwell on it anymore. πŸ˜ƒ
Opti thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 18 years ago
#10

Yes Ryka, agree with you. It was his insecurities which made him jealous and possessive of Prachi. The independence day party was significant because it was the first time he felt his growing attachment towards Prachi. The pride with which he introduced her as his wife. His taking cool drinks because he knew Prachi did not want him to drink. His refusal to take off his shirt even after Ayesha threw the drinks at him. As I said earlier, he was willing to overlook her blatant action because he was so filled with love, everything looked perfect for him. He did not care about anything else. (Though at this point I think he did not realise the magnitude of his feelings for Prachi).It was also the first time he acknowledged that Ayesha's betrayal did not have the same effect on him and he wondered now who/what has filled up the void left by her.

In fact the independence day party and the dandiya party are similar more ways than one. In both the cases Ayesha reacted with a lot a jealousy (though in the latter instance it was more violent because she realised that Michi have concretised their relationship in conjugal bliss). In both the cases Milsi (who otherwise has a short fuse) did not react at all. In the dandiya incident the only reaction he showed was to hold her hand against hitting Prachi (defence was for Prachi not himself). In both the incidents while his first concern was for Prachi's well being, he was compassionate towards Ayesha. In the first instance he went into her room and applied the balm on her burns before he went and did the same to Prach (if I may add with more love). In the second instance he had the heart-to-heart talk with Ayesha at the hospital, assuring her of his care for her but also making it equally clear to her that while his blessings are with her, his heart has already been given to his wife.

I am sure jealousy will not rear its ugly head now that he is secure in his relationship with Prachi. Neev can have any amount of heart-to-heart with her. Would'nt bother him one bit. That is if the creatives are as clear minded about his character as we are.

Edited by optimist - 18 years ago

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".