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Originally posted by: bashful_moon
Sure....
You didn't bully, only mocked...
Bullying is NOT civil, but mocking someone for FICTIONAL CHARACTERS is!!!
Great!!!🤣
We've been mocking each other from the start. Welcome to fandomship lol. Dont even try to put them in the same bracket. They are not. Its not a laughing matter either. To target someone specifically and say shit about their 'worth'- thats the line nobody should ever cross. Period.
Originally posted by: AllThatCritique
We've been mocking each other from the start. Welcome to fandomship lol. Dont even try to put them in the same bracket. They are not. Its not a laughing matter either. To target someone specifically and say shit about their 'worth'- thats the line nobody should ever cross. Period.
If a person doesn't follow a basic decorum endowed to a position it would be questioned in a democratic system.
Hence, upon seeing that a person is biased despite being a moderator, and shows signs of prejudice time and again, such behavior and the worth will be questioned, in fact should be questioned, over and over again...
Over and Out!!!!
P.S : People even say shit about the worth of Modi Ji, Rahul Gandhi and Trump and many others.
Originally posted by: AllThatCritique
I wasnt the person questioning 'worth' based on a fictional show lol. Therein lies the difference! Ofcourse when y'all treat them like that again and again they will put their thoughts into words. I feel they were being too nice when they said what they said. And No, calling out people who question someone's worth over a damn fictional character is NOT online bullying. You tried. Calling out the bullies is not bullying. You can call the fandom anything you want, who cares. But stop ganging up on RD and questioning their 'worth' . That goes beyond fandom.
Aww so cute... calling a mod out on her worth as a mod of a public forum becomes online bullying (no one is questioning her worth as a person here) but calling people pathetic, worst ever, etc etc isn’t bullying 👏👏👏👏
Originally posted by: bashful_moon
If a person doesn't follow a basic decorum endowed to a position it would be questioned in a democratic system.
Hence, upon seeing that a person is biased despite being a moderator, and shows signs of prejudice time and again, such behavior and the worth will be questioned, in fact should be questioned, over and over again...
Over and Out!!!!
What is basic decorum? Having similar views? lol.
Funny how the other mod showed us last time around that when RD had similar views the same behavior and their 'worth' was never questioned. They were not called biased and attacked and ganged up against. Too convenient. And still does not warrant that question someone's worth and their language and what not. Dont make anyone feel like shit over a fictional character.
Over and out.
Originally posted by: AllThatCritique
What is basic decorum? Having similar views? lol.
Funny how the other mod showed us last time around that when RD had similar views the same behavior and their 'worth' was never questioned. They were not called biased and attacked and ganged up against. Too convenient. And still does not warrant that question someone's worth and their language and what not. Dont make anyone feel like shit over a fictional character.
Over and out.
Basic decorum --- Unbiasedness for a moderator...
Dunno about last time -- just based on this thread --- you gotta call AnuPre Panauti, and the same word used for Bajaj got deleted....
Not the decorum for a moderator, for sure!!!
@ Bold : Haven't you yourself done that plenty of times????
Remember practice, preach and all that jazz???
Toddles
Originally posted by: bashful_moon
Basic decorum --- Unbiasedness for a moderator...
Dunno about last time -- just based on this thread --- you gotta call AnuPre Panauti, and the same word used for Bajaj got deleted....
Not the decorum for a moderator, for sure!!!
@ Bold : Haven't you yourself done that plenty of times????
Remember practice, preach and all that jazz???
Toddles
SURE!
Ofcourse you dont know.Perhaps ask around before saying anything. Am sure someone can lead you to several threads where RD was ganged up against.
And Nope. Never personally questioned anyone's worth over a fictional character or what they think of that character. Not my jam you see😆 So I do practice what I preach!
Toodles!
Originally posted by: AllThatCritique
SURE!
Ofcourse you dont know.Perhaps ask around before saying anything. Am sure someone can lead you to several threads where RD was ganged up against.
And Nope. Never personally questioned anyone's worth over a fictional character or what they think of that character. Not my jam you see😆 So I do practice what I preach!
Toodles!
You should if someone appointed for moderating a Forum dedicated to FICTIONAL characters falters time and again at the job assigned to that person.
I know you practice what you preach...
Hence,
Bullying ---- NOT CIVIL
Mocking ----CIVIL
You do practice what you think is civil while lecturing others to not indulge in what you think is NOT civil....👍🏼
However, Civil is not what civil thinks, but what civil does...So no need for all those sermons!!!
Originally posted by: Cute_Virgo
Aww so cute... calling a mod out on her worth as a mod of a public forum becomes online bullying (no one is questioning her worth as a person here) but calling people pathetic, worst ever, etc etc isn’t bullying 👏👏👏👏
What was our worth CV, when we were called the WORST fandom ever on IF by a MODERATOR, for fictional characters...
Unka worth is worth, aur humara worth?????
Lock ho gayi kya?? Justwantedtosaysomethingbeforeitlocksup!!
Unlike most members here, I am a forum debutant. This is the first time I'm indulging in discussing a stupid fictional show and my favourite AnuPre
Having logged in almost everyday, must say that the current state of this forum is partly due to how the forum was moderated when Bajaj entered into the show. Every show and its viewers take time to warm up to new characters. Specially those who are antagonists. I must say I was looking forward to Bajaj's character and how he increases the dynamics. but all his entry did was totally confuse me and disgust me (force marriage was not necessary at all).
That said, forum members do have the right to express their displeasure over a new character and it's treatment. This in itself was not allowed since the day Bajaj entered. Unless you are singing his highnesses praises, you were mocked and shut down. Small instances of joking about the character was also not allowed. Weird checklists of things not to call Lord Bajaj were made. Granted some of his fans may not have liked other members' criticisms, but that does not mean mods should jump in and completely ban those criticisms. Especially when the character was still new. They should have given time for the forum to ease up to Bajaj's characterization. Who knows, I would have turned into his fan. But, sorry to say, all the restrictions, bans, gag orders and random lock down of threads (including mine for some apparent "secret agenda"), editing of posts without permission(!!!!), made sure I was never inclined to like him.
So, I would put the onus of the current state on the way moderation was done right after Bajaj entered.