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I remember few months back there was a thread created asking opinions on moderation in the forum. All opinions were put forth and one of the mods conveniently skipped replying to comments that pointed out her biasedness( refering to IFlove's thread ) . And then she was back to bullying and mocking AnuPre and fandom as member and turning tables as mod when required.

And irony, the same is happening here, when called out for deleting comment play mod card and skip giving valid replies, history repeating again, is it , every time in a more un(fair) way😆

Even i want to see if things will ever get changed in this forum, or it is going to be the same damn thing over and over again.

Now, that ban is lifted for discussing Bajaj topics, why don't the ban on namecalling be lifted too , let's all bash to our content the character we despise?

What is the whole point in calling Anurag an A grade jerk be valid, and Bajaj can't even be called disgusting? Selective unbiased rules only for grey alpha male characters ,is it ? 😒Oooh, not to forget Prerna has been thrashed every single day in atleast one thread in this forum, and that's not offensive ?

double post

Ooh, I am loving it! 😂

Just stopping by to write few words before it gets closed.

AnuPre fandom never had any problem with the other so and so fandom here or the mods having their personal preferences and being a part of the other fandom. The people "concerned" won't believe it, and I am not even expecting them to.

The problems started occurring when the "preferences" of the mods started taking a form of "partialities" against one fandom. A bad word for one character is an abuse, while another bad word for another character is a freedom of speech!, Bajaj's name can't be taken in our AnuPre AT, if we do we get PMs to edit it from our admins, while the other couple's AT is free to fill pages mocking Anupre and Anurag and mind you, mods are active members of that AT!, A mod is free to call a character names, just because she has always been like this, expressive in that way, while a member of one particular AT can't do that!, a member of PreRish fandom is free to make troll poems or whatever on Prerna, but if a member of AnuPre fandom does that to Mr. Bajaj.... Oooh he/she will get banned! Pari, you there right?!

"Selective" is indeed a not so likeable word!

Originally posted by: bashful_moon

You should if someone is appointed for moderating a Forum dedicated to FICTIONAL characters.

I know you practice what you preach...

Hence,

Bullying ---- NOT CIVIL

Mocking ----CIVIL

You do practice what you think is civil while lecturing others to not indulge in what you think is NOT civil....👍🏼

Yeah personally and specifically bullying someone and questioning their worth is where people usually draw the line when it comes to being civil online. Fandoms mock each other all the time. Going personal? Nah. I thought that was well known. Guess not 😆

Thanks but no points for equating both together when there is no way out of this lmfao 👍🏼

And another irony of current moderation --- Aren't all of us told TO REPORT NOT RETORT.

And whenever, we report, we are accused of "Selective Reporting"...

And why do the threads we make come with some "agenda" and not the ones made with half-cooked stories and half baked knowledge?

Originally posted by: AllThatCritique

Yeah personally and specifically bullying someone and questioning their worth is where people usually draw the line when it comes to being civil online. Fandoms mock each other all the time. Going personal? Nah. I thought that was well known. Guess not 😆

Thanks but no points for equating both together when there is no way out of this lmfao 👍🏼

And I repeat, if someone assigned with a certain onus fails to deliver, time and again, again and again, the worth should be questioned.

Fandoms mock because they are not accountable to maintain peace--- Moderators are....

Oh don't worry!!!

Welcome to the Forum too, getting personal has happened too -- from both the sides. So both the fandoms can drop holier-than-thou crap...

Is hamam mein sab nange hai!!!!

Lmao abhi bolne k baad help desk thread unlock kiya🤣 _h_ t _ u😆

Originally posted by: grace4317

Exactly same feelings Abhiya....One of my lengthy post in Pinot's thread got deleted. For what, i still don't know. I haven't bashed the iconic character there. I had just mentioned how Prerna was provoked to do paragliding during pregnancy. One of my threads where i appreciated Eri, was filled with negative comments; yet i never reported anything to anyone. Because, i don't consider any celebrity or fictional character above the real people. Also, I usually keep away from negativity in the forum. But, as you said, this time, I too have to say that i am not satisfied with the moderation in this forum. 😔

Had to aaj ki TRP thread thi Grace...

We were simply rejoicing the rise in TRP, we had banters, hadn't mocked anyone. But the opposite fandom started with cry baby Awnu thing..

And the note it got, I was wondering what had we even done to receive such a note?😲

Originally posted by: lunagoodlove

Lock ho gayi kya?? Justwantedtosaysomethingbeforeitlocksup!!

Unlike most members here, I am a forum debutant. This is the first time I'm indulging in discussing a stupid fictional show and my favourite AnuPre

Having logged in almost everyday, must say that the current state of this forum is partly due to how the forum was moderated when Bajaj entered into the show. Every show and its viewers take time to warm up to new characters. Specially those who are antagonists. I must say I was looking forward to Bajaj's character and how he increases the dynamics. but all his entry did was totally confuse me and disgust me (force marriage was not necessary at all).

That said, forum members do have the right to express their displeasure over a new character and it's treatment. This in itself was not allowed since the day Bajaj entered. Unless you are singing his highnesses praises, you were mocked and shut down. Small instances of joking about the character was also not allowed. Weird checklists of things not to call Lord Bajaj were made. Granted some of his fans may not have liked other members' criticisms, but that does not mean mods should jump in and completely ban those criticisms. Especially when the character was still new. They should have given time for the forum to ease up to Bajaj's characterization. Who knows, I would have turned into his fan. But, sorry to say, all the restrictions, bans, gag orders and random lock down of threads (including mine for some apparent "secret agenda"), editing of posts without permission(!!!!), made sure I was never inclined to like him.

So, I would put the onus of the current state on the way moderation was done right after Bajaj entered.

You said it luna. This is the reason why this once peaceful forum turned into what it is today!

The viewers who were watching this show from the beginning were not allowed to vent out their frustrations and disappointments with regards to the story line after Bajaj's entry . It is normal that there will be some strong opinions and disappointments when a 3rd person comes between two characters you have loved and emotionally invested in for freaking 9 months!There were too many bans and restrictions all too soon. The AT was under radar and closed twice. Had you not mocked our views and given us time to accept the new character, maybe the forum would have been a much better place now. Very honestly, I myself was excited about Bajaj and KSG’s entry before all the restrictions, mocking and bullying that happened here. More than the forced marriage that happened in the show , this forum put me off him completely...so much so that I don’t want him back now. I do not wish to go through the same shit that happened in the last 3-4 months in this forum. A lot of our people left thanks to the state of the forum then. Topics criticing Bajaj would turn into a battleground with the TM being mocked by the moderator herself. I saw this first in IFLove’s post and was quite surprised then. Until then I was of the opinion that the moderators were doing their job without any bias. People criticising Bajaj and those who are now liking Aamna over Hina all are insecure of the popularity of these stars and apparently have some international agenda. How can one moderator accuse and mock a whole fandom repeatedly in her posts? I don’t know if something happened between her and the anupre fandom that made her so bitter towards us ...because I remember her calling out Ksg fans too for bullying others in the beginning. And please moderators are not being bullied for having a different opinion . Before brushing off our concerns as mere agenda , please try to understand that there is a real problem here .

In my 10 years on IF, I have never seen such a crazy forum. Even dmg forum with worse fan wars looked so much better because one fandoms was not continuously mocked over the other

This forum is like a stagnant pond- you get such a strong sense of deja vu when you return to it😆

The main problem with this show is the writing and till that is fixed it will remain a shoddy poor quality product.

I mean look at BB13 my favorite reality show turned soap- the writing is so inconsistent there that it does my head in but the characters remain gripping and intriguing.