Jalal: You are not a good husband - Page 13

Thanks everyone for such beautiful comments! I was hesitant to post this thread as I thought nobody would be in the mood to discuss it given the new promo but you have all shown it so much support 🤗

divi, could not find my comment so making a new one..!

absolutely an outstanding post👏..you have so beautifully covered all as in all the points about jalal and what he did for jodha! both are flawed characters, they both have their insecurities and deficiencies when it comes to being as a fair pair..jalal has been devoid of true love all his life and always believed in conquer by power and keep everyone at his toes by power, whereas jodha has been involved in a marriage forced by her parents to keep their kingdom alive and make peace with the more powerful..and that has itself killed her inner being of her identity as to who she is..that is why she becomes rebellious and does not want to submit herself to jalal because she thinks if he has the physical power to bring her to his harem then she has the inner power to refuse to be his toy at display in the harem..

..and this very turmoil in their relationship has bought them closer..jalal appreciates honest and fearless people because he knows that if they love or hate they will have no two sides to it they will express their feelings as it is..and jodha too appreciated his good qualities of him being fearless and tactful in resolving many issues which are the basic qualities of a good leader..and him being secular and liberal in his views was also added to the string of other great qualities that he possessed...

..now both have explored each other's qualities and with time falling in love is very much justified after so many ups and downs, because inside they respect each other for who they are.. having said that there are still some improvements that need to act as a cement to build a solid foundation of their relationship which cannot be shaken by any MU whatsoever!..jodha needs to learn to trust jalal's decisions on important issues, for example in shenu's case she should not have argued and gone against his decision..i did not find it right and i think she needs to learn to bend a little and also see what the other person has to say...whereas jalal has also learnt to trust her and given her the hints that how much he cares her loves her and enjoys her company..in a polygamy set up if a husband is giving so much attention to his favorite begum and basically ignoring the others is definitely not a bad husband for jodha but then what about the others?..can someone answer me why ruk had to stoop so low to get his attention?

Very nicely written

Originally posted by: najma123

awesome post man! loved it. at last a jalal lover. no, i am not saying about a fan war. but yes, the points correctly mentioned. jodha has finally understood. good post.

I hope the only thing that CV's show to avoid further rage against Jalal, is to have post SR moments together, and both of them waking up and enjoying their new found physical bond.

Originally posted by: munnirony

i know many r sad about jodha's sadness, but im actually happy. for months we were complaining about jodha not showing the same passion & same longing for jalal. but finally tht moment came when jodha wants him, she wants to be one with him forever & thts why she got upset. as salima had said, if love is there jealousy will also be there. why we will be sad about jodha's tears??? instead we should be happy tht now she has the same desire which jalal has for her. why only jalal will evrytime run behind her??? she also needs to miss him, needs to be impatient, needs to feel tht emotion. thts wht makes it an epic love. infact, im happy tht the SR will be happening at this point of time, bcoz jodha also needed to feel the same way which jalal was feeling even she was in amer. though jodha was also missing him, but still tht want, tht passion was missing, but this one incident made her realize how deep her love is for him. only saying is not enough, she also have to feel tht 'adhik prem'. isnt it actually beautiful??

Completely agree- this were tears not of hurt and insult but longing and love; she is showing the depth of her "adhik prem"

Originally posted by: chitterati

Hi,

Loved your post, you should add Jalal's super hot killer looks to that list of good husband ( that one makes it to my top 5 list of qualities😉)

Even i don't understand the big deal about Jalal's exit from Jashn. It was way more graceful and respectful than JO's shirking his hand in Amer during Gangaur festivities.

Having said that, for me the distress is not about why and how he went to Ruk, its about the fact that he believed that baby was his. This implies he was physically intimate with Ruk / other begums even while claiming to love Jo sooo deeply. My monogamous mindset simply cannot accept that he would be intimate with anybody other than his beloved Jo.

And miscalculation ka funda doesn't fit at all - he was just as much in love with Jo after the Ben track. which would have been atleast 4-5 months back... CVs itni stupidity kaise dikha sakte hain... its like believing you were in a car accident while watching TV in your living room😲. Jalal ne believe kiya toh usne kuch toh kiya hoga na Ruk ke saath ... the thought gives me creeps!!!

Thanks- yes good looks can be added to the list for sure.

On Ruqs- I think that one drunk night be the option. I think Shraddha has described the Ruqs-Jalal equation pretty well but soon it looks like they will show a one woman man.

Originally posted by: Mallika-E-Bhais

Why do you keep saying that???😭

Because I love it when you like my post - and you know I am just kidding!