I suppose its all in the delivery with how it comes across. In those previous posts the way you mentioned it came across as fun loving and carefree...even the comments about Bharmal , Mainavati..etc...and looking the way they do ever disparaged their physical appearance, it was just your opinion on how they come across in the role they play...
BUT I found it to be entirely different in your delivery with the way you commented about Paridhi's looks...you have to admit the post was definitely not fun loving and sweet like many of your posts...in fact even in the ones where you are venting you haven't commented on an actors looks quite the same way from what I can remember off the top of my head. The acting is obviously open to commenting on,
WHICH is why I wanted to point out to you how it came across to me when I read this particular post. There never was any intention on my part to report it, so no I"m not taking the bait so to speak to take that course of action.
Furthermore, I seem to always get this underlying feeling of antagonism from you which is why I had not commented on any of the previous many posts...for instance just from the delivery in your comments you have basically stated that you do not believe I have read all of your posts and you have also put words in my response by stating that I claimed to not like them (which I bolded in below) . Not agreeing with your comments is very different to not liking them.
I'm not sure where this negativity towards my posts comes from, however; what I can say is that it is definitely coming from your end, while I made very attempt to be respectful when crafting my post in this thread.
I"m not sure if I have gotten this line right but I"ll attempt it anyways ...
"Je humse koi bol hogay hai, phir hum maufi chathe hai...nadani samaj ke...mauf kar do? "
I wouldn't mind getting back into the mood in responding to your threads...but as of right now I"m not sure if that would be a wise course of action on my part...
I'll wait for your response, if you choose to provide one.
Thanks,
Sonya
Originally posted by: sashashyam
Dear Sonya,
When Rajat looked flabby to me, in that shirtless lep scene, I said so, and recommended more workouts for him. Now, Paridhi looks overweight to me in that dance scene, and so I say so. She needs to diet for a bit . Yes, it does matter for a dance if you look overweight.
I do not play favorites; I have written that Bharmal looks like a kirana dukanwala and not a raja.
If you feel that these comments of mine are in any way violative of IF rules, please feel free to report them, and me, to the mods.
I was interested to see that in all my 30-40 posts that you claim to have read but not liked, this is the single point that you have thought fit to comment on. '
And no, no one else had protested to me on this point on this thread, and none of Rajat's fiercely committed fans, who abound in this forum, had taken umbrage at my earlier critical comments about his physique either.
Shyamala Aunty
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