MY PROPOSAL ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ - Page 11

Originally posted by: Rumi

i was in a hurry when i posted my story!! but now i have sometime to go for more details!!peaches , you have started the thread and after reading this and of course after watching our armu-jass lovely moments, i don't what happened to me!! i was sitting in a workshop all day but my mind was not there!! i kept on thinking about my first two years' whirlwind romance after my marriage!!!😳😳😳!!!that's why i want to share those moments with you people!!!!i hope mods will not get irritated with these cos i will not tell anything offensive!!!😉!!!

i those days we used to go to all the lovers' spots in kolkata!!!,nalban, aquatica, nico park, etc... he used to say: Rumi,its not fair that our parents have readily accepted our relation!!!

i was shocked: what? are you mad??

he said: no , just think.agar o log nehi mante to mai aur tum chori chori yaha aata aur chori chori pyar karna kitna achcha lagta hai na??😉!!

if i went to kitchen for cooking anything, he used to go there and stand behind me after every five minutes and said , mai kuchh madat karoo??

his cousin sisters used to come there and they laughed and enjoyed those scenes!!

i used to get mad: please , jao yahase !!sab dekh raha hai!!!!😳

in the early mornings at about 4 am i used to wake up suddenly to see him sitting in front of me and looking at me sleeping!!

i used to say; what are you doing ?? sona nehi hai kya??

he used to say:: shhhhh!!! don't talk!!i am thinking yeh pari kaha se aa gayi mere ghar me, mere jindegi me!!!😳!!!!

when ever he was siting beside me and may be i was doing some works , he would always open my hair . i always tie up my hair , but this was his habit!!i got irritated : what are you doing??

he used to say: you look beautiful in open hair!!i will always do it!!!

if he ever knows that i have told these to you, he will kill me!!!hahahaha!! don't tell him!!!😉!!!

How cute! the one where he says abt ur parents n all that was cute!

Originally posted by: vijay

Hi,

Well it's nice reading through all your posts.

Initially I was a bit hesitant in posting to that topic as I do not have any such special moments😳 like you guys and then I am not married too. And above all I didn't wanted to sound like some stupid guy who do not have a girlfriend and being 25 and yet to experience my that very special first kiss. (Probably saved it so far for that special one.)

I got hooked to computers after my 10th board exams. I didn't had much to do except studies and computers. When my friends used to waste time in canteen or college campus, I had to run for my job. Well forgot to tell I got a job very early and I was still an undergraduate then and that too by invitation (they saw my old homepage and some of my earlier work) and that too at a salary I demanded (it still surprises me as that was pretty high for an undergraduate here in india) and this is when I decided my career is going to be in computers before that I was pretty sure I am going to join my Dad's business and computers for me was an addictive hobby.

So didnt get time to make/find many gal friends in college which could further develop in love or something. And even at my workplace I was the youngest so no luck there also 😆

P.S. Probably I would be the only guy posting on this thread.

ya i think so too...

Originally posted by: sukh

ok now its my turn..

i,m married for 6 years now.

well mine was aranged marrige.my aunt knows my hubby,s uncle as a family friend.. so thats how the things start.before he got merry to me. he tells me about his family. he met with my mom,sis & dad.

then he talk to his famliy.(my in laws r in india,but my husband,s uncles family is here in california). then my hubby ,s uncle,s family come to our house. they saw me. then they went home. my hubby didn,t come with them that time.

well then the my hubby,s uncle & my hubby call india & they discuss the whole thing..

my mom in law & dad in law said to my hubby that since its ur life,& u r one who has to decide. if u thing u like the girl & everything then just go for it.

then my hubby & his uncle,s family come to our house the same day.😳

then they did the roka.i,m not sure all of u know this means. its like ring serimeny. something like that.

then thats how we get engazed,

i used feel so shy about talking to him over the phone.

then my hubby used to call me every 2 days to talk for hours. & my family looks at me like .😆. i,m sure u know what i mean.he ask me on the phone that where i like to go for the honey monn.& things. still when i miss those days. i feel like so happy from heart.& rest u already know how u guys were feel in ur early marrige days.

after 3 month we get married.after a week or so when i was in my in laws house here. i was helpin my my aunt in law. i went to my room & my hubby was sitting on the bed. he told me to sit there & talk to him. i said that i have to help aunt.

then he said that don,t worry just sit here for a while first then u can help her. it was those golden days.

well now i have my 2 kids. one is 5 years old & another is 15 monthsold. family is complete. now we don,t have that much time to sit togeter. its really rare. we r working in diffrent work time. hope u guys like it.😳

well i guess thats the life.

Thanks cute.. those earli married days r more romantic 😡 well i better get a hubby who is gonna love me n be romantic till the day I die.. i mean i am way to romantic to get a hubby who cant gush over me all tht time😳

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Originally posted by: bluelotus

Very nice everyone. JD you are not the only one who loved and married. And lash, at last I convinced him its okay to post here.

Here goes my story.

I heard my husband before I saw him and fell in love with his voice. One day I called my friend who was working in his office and he attended the phone. I was so attracted to that voice(It still gives me goosebumps) that when my friend came on line I asked her Who is that person with so melodious a voice?. I didn't know that he had not put down the parallel line. He heard my every word and next time I went to meet my friend, he came over and introduced himself to me. It was love at first sight for both of us. I still remember the front yard of his office, which was fully covered by yellow flowers.

Then the romance started. I used to stay in a hostel at that time,in the first floor. He used to pass by the road facing my room every morning and evening. He loved lotuses(Hence my user id) very much, so every day I used to put one lotus in a flowerpot near my window so that he can see it when he passes by. I used to stand by that window (At that time I loved that window more than my life) for hours together just to have a glimpse of him. And he never disappointed me. Rain or shine, he used to come that way every day. I still remember him standing down and looking up at me in drenching rain one night for so many hours because we quarreled earlier in the day. He was telling sorry. He used to shower me with gifts and I uesd to give him chocolates every day. It was so lovely.

Then the separation came. I got a job in another state and it was unbearable for both of us. The letters and cards started flowing. At one time, I used to get at least ten letters per day, so that the postman asked me special salary. He used to drive thousands of kilometers alone to come and take me home in his car.

Luckily for us , both our families accepted us with open arms and after five years we got married. And he still surprises me with his thoughtful actions. I still get valentine gifts, beautiful dresses and candlelight dinners.

Thank God for giving me such a wonderful Husband and I wish all of you extreme happiness in your lives.

Bluelotus

wow 5 years later now thats Really ture love i dont think i could wait 5 years to marry the one i loved

Originally posted by: MonicA#1Actress

I had my first kiss at 13!!! The boy was moving away, and that was the last time I saw him😭!!! We were on Liberty Island!!! It was a sweet kiss, and I don't regret it!!! I haven't spoken to him since, but we still miss each other! We were friends since 1rst grade!! I am crying now😭!! I just hope in the future I get someone like Armaan and somebody proposes to me in New York city or somewhere, it just has to be very romantic!!!😳😳😳

i agree! he just have to be very romantic!!!!!!!!!!!!! just like our armu!

hey guys no one told us how exactly they were proposed!

Originally posted by: armaans4ever

thats very cute! man we could put all these idead togeather n make a love story!!!!!!

We should call the story...The Notebook...lolz😳😳, but we won't make it as sad as the movie was!!! We could also call the story Humhari Mohabattein!!! 2 Cute naa??!!

yes thats cute guys everyone get ready everone has to write... or we culold name it the Perfect Love Stories... n we can put in everyone's story! 😛

When i went home friday night i didnt imagine that when i would come back we would have a so many posts in this thread...... wow .. reading your stories is giving me goosebumps.. so romantic ...😳

keep them coming girls and guys ( vijay) .....😛

Originally posted by: Jassidevi

I would like you understand it too..And just to add..Does it cross your mind that idea doing everything😳 when you say yes?? Lets see what our girls who had arranged marriages have to say about this...

😆Hey I meant I need to get the feeling "I want to be with this person"or "I want to know more about this person"... even before second meeting.., whereas my parents can't obviousely wait for such feelings when rest of the set parameters of the marriage are met.......& even if I had that idea, is anything wrong in it ?I guess that's the difference between a woman's love & a man's love..!

Again I'm saying I'm not against arranged marraiges I have witnessed two beautiful love-stories in arranged marriages too ,both have taught me a lot , but isn't there need to be some driving force which can decide ur next step....apart from being well educated,well settled etc. etc.?

May be I'm wrong & need to overcome this feeling but did you all feel the same? If yes how did you overcome it? if no, why?😕