At what age is a MS & Sindoor sacred? - Page 6

Any other time and I would have had a lot to say, but I'm completely exhausted rn.

Originally posted by: baubles

Any other time and I would have had a lot to say, but I'm completely exhausted rn.

So just gonna say this is one of the most amazing posts I've EVER READ...Reem, love ya!🤗

Every bit of this made so much sense, there was so much reality in this.

I wish people would understand the importance a girl's choice, her freedom holds in her life.

Thank you so much beta 🤗

Just if ey! *sigh*

I liked this, this morning itself but didn't get a chance to comment!

Yes and I remember you being a writer too! This forum gets a bit too personal at times. Tell me about it! 😃

100% agree that shows can go anywhere anytime hence I hate the term endgame lol This is especially true in indian serial, I'm sorry to say. Many start of good, you can see the structure, the theme, the plot points and then the moment they get to the middle it starts waffling, the theme and story question thrown out the window. In their bid for trps, writers are sacrificing their art and I as a writer just want to throw the book at them!

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

I definitely do not want any hostility here, so let's all have a respectful discussion please :)

To reel logics Vividha is legally the wife of Ravish, accepted because that's what we have seen for the past 10-15 years but then don't you feel they're trying to change that in this show?

How often do you see the wife fighting so vigorously for her boyfriend (I use that word even though it's used mockingly here). She's gone to the extent of saying they're one person. Is that a norm in reel life do you think? From what you've seen so far.

Originally posted by: ShivSaan

Seriously I don't find this show that much different from other shows. In other shows the FL is more vocal about her hatred for the husband who married her forcefully . Here there is nothing to hate so she is more vocal about her love. But even here her words and actions do not match always. I strongly believe that only TRPs and length of a show are the factors which matter in the outcome of any show. If the story were to end in a month Vitharv will unite and the end but if it lasts long anything can happen including Ravidha. My reasons for watching a fictional show are very simple - entertainment. Moral values , right or wrong , forced or not are all ok for me in fiction world.( If somebody thinks its shallow , so be it). I may debate about it sometime but most of the times it doesn't matter to me much.

No no no Anjs, you haven't got the point of my post.

Even I know this is fiction and most of the time it is for entertainment. Read the post carefully where I've counter-argued this constant preaching about the sanctity of marriage, the mangalsutra and sindoor. Now if the show is just for entertainment purposes then it shouldn't hurt anyone's MORAL values even if Vividha sleeps with Atharv because it's just a show right? Why are we thinking about morals for a show which is just for mere entertainment?

But if you are going to bring in the whole 'sanctity of marriage' then this is a post to nullify how the 'sanctity' does not always stay intact due to circumstances.

I want to discuss on moral grounds because that's what a few fans here keep going on about. Please if anyone can explain why the MS & Sindoor are so important to those people?

Hope my point is more clear :)

Also, if people didn't have their moral measuring tape whilst watching the show then they wouldn't call Vividha cheap & disgusting. You can't say she cheated Ravish because then you're judging her on your own 'moral values'. It's just a show na? Chill karo, enjoy karo...let her do what she wants.

Originally posted by: _innocent_

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">I liked this, this morning itself but didn't get a chance to comment!</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Like many have already said, this is a wonderful post. People have voiced my opinions already as has the content of your post Reema, therefore...I won't bore you with an essay of mine.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">If your heart is not into something, you will never do it wholeheartedly, especially not when you've been forced into the situation. Child marriages, forced marriages, honor killings etc are all too familiar situations for us (we read about it, some of us witness it through our lines of work, etc). One should not be tied down to a situation that was forced upon them, just because they are wearing sindoor and that thread around their neck. Sadly despite us praying to GODDESSES, women are still looked down upon and are expected to be the sacrificing goats!</font>

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Your words of wisdom can never bite anyone!

Mangalsutra nahin hua, phaasi ka phanda hogaya! Indian shows need to stop making such a big deal about them because in the real world, a married woman wearing them could easily cheat and a woman not wearing them could be loyal. It makes no difference! There's no special power in them so stop acting like you understand the depth behind them...coz you don't! 😃

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

Yes and I remember you being a writer too! This forum gets a bit too personal at times. <font color="#990000">Tell me about it!😃</font>

100% agree that shows can go anywhere anytime hence I hate the term endgame lol <font color="#990000">This is especially true in indian serial, I'm sorry to say. Many start of good, you can see the structure, the theme, the plot points and then the moment they get to the middle it starts waffling, the theme and story question thrown out the window. In their bid for trps, writers are sacrificing their art and I as a writer just want to throw the book at them!</font>



Haha no rotten tomatoes! Atharv is too much of a man of principles, he wouldn't sacrifice if he knows Vividha wants to be with him. He believes in speaking the truth even if it hurts the other person. It would be different if Vividha didn't want to be with him because he would step back (completely shattered of course).

Ohhh yes SC!! lol another forced marriage. I remember a few Pramad-Kumud supporters there too! People ship anything.