At what age is a MS & Sindoor sacred? - Page 3

Originally posted by: ViTharvforever

since your highlighting the real n reel life...am asking yu acc. to reel world vividha is married to atharv or ravish???

once again am clearing yu going by the logics of serial world vividha is married to atharv or ravish???

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

You know I'm waiting for Atharva Sujata to come back and give everyone in the show a huge lecture on samaaj and it's man-made customs! I think that's why they haven't shown a divorce yet because Atharv needs to see what Viv went through and then he will no doubt raise his voice!

Originally posted by: mcdreamy.

Reema, this is such a thoughtful post and your last line shook me. I never thought of it like that, but it completely makes sense now and what a pity. No offence to anyone, but in a country where Goddesses are worshipped and then WOMEN are treated like crap, it gives of the impression that girls are just meant to be devoted to their husbands and fulfill all their duties as the 'perfect' bahu and wife. It's sad, really sad.

That Dangal scene is a perfect example of the situation in JNDSD. That girl in dangal was devastated and if she had dared to say no, she most probably would have been tortured into the marriage anyway or ... yeah killed! So like you said she is putting her OWN life over some stranger's life, whereas Vividha saved someone else's life. I mean death over a heartbreak? I'd always choose the latter, call if selfish if you want now!

I'm quite religious, so yes the institution of marriage does hold importance for me personally and I regard it as sacred, BUT only as long as it is done with the CONSENT of both parties. It's the kind of relationship that can be most beautiful if both parties love each other, acknowledge each other's rights and feelings, however it can also be the ugliest when it's forced upon people and the wife is reduced to merely an object that's meant to worship the ground her husband walks on.

I can't say about others, but I'm glad my religion gives me a CHOICE to walk out of a forced marriage if I wish to.

Originally posted by: ShivSaan

I sense a little hostility in your question. If I am right I can only say I put forth my views don't take them personally. If I am mistaken I am sorry for my assumption.

As to your question acc. to reel logics Vividha is legally the wife of Ravish.

Originally posted by: sweetygirl28

There isn't an iota of doubt about it.

It has always been atharva who faces the truth and supports the truth. They are waiting for his return of course.

He has never been a person to mix things. He will ask or vivi will tell him before he asks. Either way he ll come to know. He ll ask her if she wants to stay in that marriage.

If vivi had to fall for R that would have happened long back . There was no competition for him. Atharva became a baby. But still this girl did not fall. Now atharva is alright how will she fall for R? Foolish isn't it?

So he ll come to know and after that we ll have a dhamaakedar band bajaofy episode for each and every one. I'm just waiting for that track.

Vivi doesn't even consider this marriage so MS is no big deal for her. Still if cvs are keeping it in sure that's for this reason alone.

Originally posted by: ShivSaan

I sense a little hostility in your question. If I am right I can only say I put forth my views don't take them personally. If I am mistaken I am sorry for my assumption.

As to your question acc. to reel logics Vividha is legally the wife of Ravish.

Originally posted by: ViTharvforever

the situation may differ if a girl is just forced to marry sacrificing her dreams...if the husband is supportive n loving guy some may fall in love in that case...dat shud clearly depend on the girl's decision not MS or Sindoor..

Coming to the show Vividha is clearly in love with atharv..so wat will make difference if Ravish is gud guy r bad...cz she loves atharv...n that sindoor n MS put by Ravish is called sacred..even though vividha is forced...

then wat about those 7vachans n the sindoor vividha willing had with atharv??thay is not sared???cz it doesnt have a legal paper??

Originally posted by: ShivSaan

I sense a little hostility in your question. If I am right I can only say I put forth my views don't take them personally. If I am mistaken I am sorry for my assumption.

As to your question acc. to reel logics Vividha is legally the wife of Ravish.

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Even if at a later stage the wife does fall in love with the goodness of the husband, it STILL does not change the fact that she was forced. No marriage should be allowed like that - end of!

Arranged marriages are different, there's reasonable consent. The end result is not the matter in question, it's what caused the marriage which makes the difference.