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Nisha

@NishaAP

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Posted: 12 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: abayance
i think by the time la was brought into rm asr was already attracted to khushi and started to loose interest in la. probably this was the reason we could not see ars's physical attraction towards la.

True but I always wonder that at first when he attracted Kushi we clearly knew that was only attraction. He clearly knew he was loosing control and it was not love, purely physical. And always wanted to touch her. That's why he wanted to run from her. If he attracted to LA before Kushi's entry in his life then he won't feel to run away from Kushi. He might have think it's natural to get attract to a beautiful woman just like he was attracted to LA but he felt that Kushi is a threat. That means this attraction is different and he never felt that way before. So finally I concluded that may he was not attracted to LA. she was just convenient and pretty to satisfy his needs. More likely he needed a beautiful women (LA) whenever he was aroused and even that time also he can control his needs easily where as he will aroused whenever he see Kushi and he has tough time to control and thing go out of hands and mind most of the times. May be that is the difference.

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abayance

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Posted: 12 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: nishaipkkdian

True but I always wonder that at first when he attracted Kushi we clearly knew that was only attraction. He clearly knew he was loosing control and it was not love, purely physical. And always wanted to touch her. That's why he wanted to run from her. If he attracted to LA before Kushi's entry in his life then he won't feel to run away from Kushi. He might have think it's natural to get attract to a beautiful woman just like he was attracted to LA but he felt that Kushi is a threat. That means this attraction is different and he never felt that way before. So finally I concluded that may he was not attracted to LA. she was just convenient and pretty to satisfy his needs. More likely he needed a beautiful women (LA) whenever he was aroused and even that time also he can control his needs easily where as he will aroused whenever he see Kushi and he has tough time to control and thing go out of hands and mind most of the times. May be that is the difference.

i agree with you that for arnav - lavanya was most probably was a relationship of convenience and physical attraction ...but i think with khushi it was much deeper than physical attraction he had with la...by the time la was brought to rm the famous "guest house" incident had already happened...and during time he had started to feel for khushi...remember his "patta nahi kya kiya usne..." response to his di when she asked why he was bothering khushi so much (immediately after guest house incident) and also during that time he was much bothered by the thought of khushi was leaving for lucknow for good...therefore in my opinion when we were shown arnav-la vs nani tussle...arnav had already started to fall for khushi so he was no more interested in la except for using her as a shield to get attracted towards khushi and at the same time to avoid marriage talks.

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Nisha

@NishaAP

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: abayance

i agree with you that for arnav - lavanya was most probably was a relationship of convenience and physical attraction ...but i think with khushi it was much deeper than physical attraction he had with la...by the time la was brought to rm the famous "guest house" incident had already happened...and during time he had started to feel for khushi...remember his "patta nahi kya kiya usne..." response to his di when she asked why he was bothering khushi so much (immediately after guest house incident) and also during that time he was much bothered by the thought of khushi was leaving for lucknow for good...therefore in my opinion when we were shown arnav-la vs nani tussle...arnav had already started to fall for khushi so he was no more interested in la except for using her as a shield to get attracted towards khushi and at the same time to avoid marriage talks.

I agree but for physical attraction for LA part was little bit confused. My feeling is that he cared for LA because she fulfiled his personal and professional needs the way he wanted, but when it comes to his physical needs I think any beautiful woman who listens to him will do, LA was not special or particular one.

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aviation-ca

@aviation-ca

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Posted: 12 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: nishaipkkdian

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Nisha

@NishaAP

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: aviation-ca

He only realises that he was not fair with Lavanya after he calls her Kushi. Then he broke up with her. When did he tried to reciprocate her feelings? Before that whenever he was nice to LA or whenever he apologises her it is only because of Kushi.

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Nisha

@NishaAP

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Posted: 12 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: aviation-ca

Hmmm. My feeling is that he never try to reciprocate LA. whenever he reciprocated LA before his breaking point is not because he felt unfair to LA, he did that to make Kushi happy or can not bear to see her tears. Sometimes he even tried to reciprocate his feelings towards Kushi by showing those on LA.

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Oliver.Queen

@Oliver.Queen

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Posted: 12 years ago

#47

Everything ASR did for La one way or another is to scorn off khushi n prevent his feelings. I remember after La proposed marriage n sits in his room in the form of a bride, he fights with her n in the process blurts out that he doesn't care about her. Mayb there relationship's only foundation was based on convenience. ASR definitely knew the implications of bringing her over to his house but all those had one purpose: to put nani in her place n rile her up. Once again trying to say he makes his own destiny. Yeah he was affected by Khushi but even otherwise we didn't really get any intimate reaction from his side. For this I wanna thank the Cv's.

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abayance

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Posted: 12 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: aviation-ca

I agree that La was not the special girl to Arnav..but a privileged one who could approach him to some extent because she was fine with their non commitment relationship that Arnav wanted. Besides, Arnav also wanted her to be in RM so that he can escape marriage proposals that his grandma had started to entertain. But when Khushi happened to him...he was not able to control the emotions he was feeling for khushi...not physical but feeling helplessness whenever he saw tears in khushi's eyes. La left RM when Arnav blatantly denied getting married to La (after La waiting in bride's attire as per Khushi's plan scene in Arnav's room). Arnav was least bothered and in fact was fine with La leaving his house and country for good because he never wanted a girl who would ask for a committed relationship and marriage...but it was Khushi who forced Arnav to bring La back and it is her who made him realize that La was really hurt and he is responsible for that. So he goes to take La back home. He even reciprocates La's hug so I think it is the physical comfort that he shared with La that he could hug her back (which was not there with khushi during hospital scene because he was attached to khushi emotionally more than physically) . He went to La's place not only because he felt guilty for La but also because he did not like the idea that he hurt Khushi's feeling. When La and Arnav hugged Arnav kept looking at Khushi as if telling her that "...is it ok now? I accepted I hurt Lavanaya and look I am here to take her back with me". But when he again saw tears in khushi's eyes...Arnav's expression said something like ..."now what happened? see i am here to take Lavanya. now why are you crying dammit?" (hehehe sorry I put my own dialogue for Arnav 😆 ).

So, I guess, there was physical comfort between Arnav and Lavanya from the beginning but we were not shown that aspect in the show explicitly (scenes between and La and Arnav were not much) and when La was brought to RM where Arnav and La were together, equation between them had already started changing...of course from Arnav's side since Khushi had entered in Arnav's life - unknowingly.

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...Doctor...

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Posted: 12 years ago

#49

I don't think ASR and La were college mates. They just worked together & eventually started dating. That's just my assumption, I maybe wrong.

He said those words to La and once he even gifted her a handbag, I think that's because he didn't want her to question him about their relationship. And maybe he didn't want her to cling to him like other girlfriends so he kept her happy. To avoid all those girly fits and tantrums, I guess 😆

And he said that he'll leave the house because he wanted to avoid the topic of marriage so...emotional blackmail is the best way to convince Anjali & he use it perfectly :P Also, I think he was actually okay with his relationship with La. No demands, no commitments, and that was the only thing he wanted from a girl.

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Oliver.Queen

@Oliver.Queen

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Posted: 12 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: ...Doctor...
I don't think ASR and La were college mates. They just worked together & eventually started dating. That's just my assumption, I maybe wrong.
He said those words to La and once he even gifted her a handbag, I think that's because he didn't want her to question him about their relationship. And maybe he didn't want her to cling to him like other girlfriends so he kept her happy. To avoid all those girly fits and tantrums, I guess 😆

And he said that he'll leave the house because he wanted to avoid the topic of marriage so...emotional blackmail is the best way to convince Anjali & he use it perfectly :P Also, I think he was actually okay with his relationship with La. No demands, no commitments, and that was the only thing he wanted from a girl.

Exactly my thoughts. It was definitely worse than a no strings attached relationship.