Trust & Belief - What They Mean... EDITED - Page 7

Originally posted by: prettypri

I believe the writers who wrote khushis character think exactly the way you have written..above in red I beileve are your comments..

If you are hell bent on saying Khushi is right all the time because she ha a good heart then thats fine

However..in your replies I see many conclusions which we have not been shown on screen

Where have we been shown that Arnav and Sheetal had a one-night drunken stand..or even has that been indictaed...even Khushi did not think on screen like that...from where have you made the assumption and why?? On the basis of whats been shown on screen Arnav saw the DNA report and said tehre was nothing like that and Arav cant be my son--I think thats pretty clear unless Sheetal had told Khushi it was in a drunken state that Aarav was conceived..where do you conclude these from--when they havent shown anything like it?? How do you say tahts the truth and Arnav doesnt know when there has been nothing absolutely said like that??

Khushi going to the mother of the kid is correct in your opinion...instead of going to her husband and shouing..each to his own...if she believes that Arnav is not wrong in lying to her she woud have gone to him..was she shown thinking that Arnav may not remember?After seeing the report is positive? Again your conclusion or speculaton isnt it??

Again you are thinking for Khushi when you say she woulnt be comfortable hugging Arnav or lying in bed with him if she didnt trust him...none of that has been shown..she hasnt been shown thinking that he is innocent..and if she did ,,again she would have gone to him..

And again she didnt think whether the report could be wrong...its your conclusion that she did think and concluded that Sheetal had no reason to change the report...

Why is it that Arnav needs to spell everything out in clear clear words but in Khushis case he needs to understand vague hints and clarify again and again and answer questions she hasnt asked??

I honeslty think we judge him for what he did in the past always...in this case thats the only way we can defend Khushis actions...others are by saying pure soul and good heart..

We have to go beyond that nd evaluate the situation itself..

All that agreed..but she is not doing the right thing by deciding what she has no right to decide..

Originally posted by: prettypri

@red is the reason khushis behaviour reeks of distrust... - No it does not. She never thought Arnav to be a lier in spite of the scientific evidence, which reeks of trust in your husband's honesty. And today she told Sheetal just that. She told her that Arnav needs to know and she is going to tell him. It took her a day to come to terms with it. But she did make the right decision which is why I said give her time to deal with the news first.

And the line after that..i agree completely..this is not even khushis decision to make..even if aarav is arnavs son and arnav decodes not to have anything to do with him she cant force him..[/DIV] - Agreed on that.

[DIV]if his decision is to include him in his life then khushi comes into the picture..[/DIV] - Again agree.
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[DIV]Here she hasnt even told Arnav what Sheetal said and that too in deference to Sheetal's wishes..thats hard to categorize as innocence or a good heart or anything frankly.[/DIV] - The word you missed there is YET. Knowing Khushi, she won't have kept this secret to her very long and she didn't. But she needed a time and place to reveal this truth to Arnav.

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[DIV]You can believe and think anything and act accordingly when it affects you but you cannot decide for others..good intentions do not justify interference and resulting blunders all the time..[/DIV] - She is not forcing the decision on Arnav. If you think anyone can force Arnav Singh Raizada to do something he doesn't want to do, you haven't really understood the character yet.
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[DIV]We had a problem with Anjali bcos her past made her act so clingy that she refused to consider her husand may be wrong..well isnt khushi letting her past..losing her parents..guide her in this decison? If Aarav is not Arnavs son then her actions are going to cause more mayhem..and if she believes definitely he is Arnavs son then its not her place to decide anything except her own reaction to the situation.[/DIV]

Originally posted by: stafhtad

<font color="#0000ff" size="3" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Tia,</font>

<font color="#0000ff" size="3" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">As you know, I am not watching the show for almost 3 weeks now. So I cannot comment on the show itself.</font>

<font color="#0000ff" size="3" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">But I fully agree with your thoughts on Trust and Belief.</font>

<font color="#0000ff" size="3" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Awesome post as always.👏</font>

Originally posted by: tia.o