Trust & Belief - What They Mean... EDITED

Originally posted by: Faiqahfadia

I wholeheartedly understand what Khushi is feeling and the way she is reacting. I would do the same thing. If u are presented with a miniature version of your husband and his mother is a girl that your husband dated for a while and although it meant nothing, you know what your husband was like. You had proof with Lavanya when your husband was just going to stay with her without marriage and your husband has been saying you know how i was in those days, did not believe in marriage and what not, so what are you supposed to think. Even when he says, he was just dating, in the western countries these days dating includes sleeping with each other. These days couples go out a couple of times and are ready to sleep together. Most relationships in the western countries are like that presently. There might be only a few that are platonic and even though Khushi has not been to western countries, I think she realizes this. She believes her husband wholeheartedly and you should give her thumbs up that she has accepted that Arnav has a son and willing for the two to get to know each other. If that was me, I would not say anything to anyone and probably find an apartment quickly and kick sheetal out of the house and get back to my life.

Originally posted by: Japonica

Absolutely, Tia! I am a bit taken aback by people's responses to Khushi's actions today. Some have been particularly nasty and unfair.

From a worldly point of view her actions are naive, but never her intentions or her heart. She never judged either, she didn't think of it as a betrayal in any form. her concern was only for the child.

That IS who she is. She is in pain, yet she can think of the other's pain.

But I agree with ASR when he tells her that to lie is not right, however, good the cause.

I'm not sure what point the cvs want to prove either with this track or with depicting Khushi in the way they are. I doubt if they have thought this through as with any of the other tracks. Always reactive instead of being proactive.

Originally posted by: tia.o

I agree. The CVs are showing Khushi as someone who believes anyone before she believes in herself. However, she was always depicted as a bleeding heart who thinks about everyone's happiness at the cost of her own.

Being a woman with a big heart is okay. But she needs to stop projecting her life incidents on every orphan.

Aarav has a healthy and happy life where he has a mother who cares for him. So he wants to meet his dad. Fair enough. But it's not up to her to do it. It's up to his mother. Sheetal didn't tell Aarav about Arnav. So respect her decision because she is his legal guardian.

If you feel that's unfair to Arnav then tell him that Sheetal told me that Aarav is your son but not to tell you. I think you should know about it because my first loyalty to you as my husband.

Then let him handle it. It's not your problem anymore.

I said it during Anjali's track that Khushi's first loyalty should be to her husband and herself. His family and/or relationships come later.

Who knows? May be Arnav likes being Aarav's friend and doesn't really want to have a grown-up child. So yes, he deserves to know what Aarav's mother told you. But he doesn't deserve to be thrown at a relationship he isn't prepared for. I'm talking about Aarav here, not Sheetal because she doesn't fall in any relationship whatsoever.

Originally posted by: gopikaaji

I'm not agree or dis agree ur thoughts but...for me i want khushi to think her arnavji words for once above all proof and shitall words ...then ask herself the question WHY??? her man deny the father statement in blank point ...for she knows he is a man of honesty and not hide such big thing from her ...never lies or shy from his mistake...for once i want her to think from ASR's pov...