Trust & Belief - What They Mean... EDITED - Page 6

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Of course we have full faith in Khushi that she trust her Arnav blindly and so do we. Its only Sheetal that she does not trust and is wary and with her sixth sense can feel it. thats why she is disturbed and is on her way to making it right and save Arnav again from this evil plot.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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There is trust and belief. No doubt. Each one is right in their own way. The only thing I want very much to happen is for Khushi to talk to Arnav - tell him what she found out. If Arnav finds out later that Khushi was in conversation with Sheetal regarding him being Aarav's dad, he will really not like that. If I was the husband, I would want to know the truth right away and think about the best way to solve the issue, however tough the solution may be.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: minnie2308


Cool One Tia.O!

In all this humdrum, we forgot how cool Arnav was being - Had eyes only for Khushi and was very concerned for his foodie wife who had noteaten due to this tough fast( reminded me of my husband, who loves to see me gorge!); I bet he must have made reservations at "Punjabi By nature" coz he knew an Italian restaurant is not her cup of masala chai...gifting her KKGSR Dabba service, realising she has the self reliant streak in her and admiring it...For me this was his redemption
Anyways, back to your post!
Khushi's belief is on the fact that ASR loves her . She is being extremely modern in her views that he can still make a baby with "protection failing" drunken night out where Sheetal took advantage of a drunk ASR and fled before he woke up"wink grin". And so even though the relation meant nothing, it went to physical level with/without ASR's knowledge. And we must not take away that credit from her.
She trusts him with her life, but the way I see her psyche, she does not trust her fate enough to let her live in peace.
At times I feel, she actually goes all out to open random pandora's boxes to check if they were meant for her. It's almost as if she is trying to uncover problems before they come so that none of the troubles catch her unawares...
She trusts his word that Sheetal meant(and means)nothing! But she does not trust her fate that this means no trouble for her.
And by the way why would Sheetal use "Jhootha pani and other woman's thaal " for her own Kavachauth. The SP better have some sensibleexplanation for this blasphemy! No one uses other person's items here even if the man issame!
My rant went all spiral. Hope it made some sense.
But you made a lot of sense in your post Tia



Agreed. If you notice, Khushi asked the question about Karva Chauth but Sheetal did not answer. She diverted the topic. If Khushi had not already been disturbed by the DNA report, she would have pursued this matter with the same tenacity. But for her, Aarav being Arnav's son is a bigger issue than Sheetal stealing a sip from Khushi's pot and rightly so. However, she needs to calm down slowly and use the same brain she used against Shyam. She needs to shut her heart and think with her brains instead.
The reason she hasn't figured out anything yet is because Sheetal has not made her feel threatened yet until today when she talked about her leaving Arnav or vice versa. Now her alarm bells should ring. Khushi is quite ferocious when it comes to Arnav and her relationship.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nerina

Of course we have full faith in Khushi that she trust her Arnav blindly and so do we. Its only Sheetal that she does not trust and is wary and with her sixth sense can feel it. thats why she is disturbed and is on her way to making it right and save Arnav again from this evil plot.



Agreed. Khushi and Arnav need to fight this (Sheetal) together. One person can't win this alone.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: VancouverBC

There is trust and belief. No doubt. Each one is right in their own way. The only thing I want very much to happen is for Khushi to talk to Arnav - tell him what she found out. If Arnav finds out later that Khushi was in conversation with Sheetal regarding him being Aarav's dad, he will really not like that. If I was the husband, I would want to know the truth right away and think about the best way to solve the issue, however tough the solution may be.




I agree. But again it's not Khushi's secret to tell. She is not mother of Aarav nor she kept Aarav hidden for all these years. Arnav does not want to hear anything about this and Sheetal does not want to tell. Who is Khushi here other than a step mom?
But I believe she won't be able to keep it hidden for very long and she will blurt it out soon.
Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree if the case is a drunken Arnav forget all this. and kushi think so
But still kushi's reaction on the shock...its strange!!!!!
And did she even forgot to think why her husband said soo.because we didnt see a question arose in her mind why Arnavji said so.
or immeditely when she got the result positive she didnt make an enquiry about the the words of Arnnav, and decided to believe he was not consious about all what happened ,without even making a calculation in her mind.!!!!!!!
you think A wife who was so insecured about the hubby and his ex and kid will react like this considereing that what her hubby said is true he was not aware of any such thing happen wiht him.
And she tust him.
If she is so worry abut the fact dont you think as a wife she will atlest make a calculation on his words and the report.
dont ou think she should spend some time with her mind to settle down with the fact,yes she bilieves him because she thinks he is unconsious about the fact,
no such sign was shown on kushi.
then how can we justify this.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hats off for this post..!!!! 👏 ⭐️
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -PreciousPearl-

Hats off for this post..!!!!👏⭐️



Thanks. 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o


I agree. The CVs are showing Khushi as someone who believes anyone before she believes in herself. However, she was always depicted as a bleeding heart who thinks about everyone's happiness at the cost of her own.

Being a woman with a big heart is okay. But she needs to stop projecting her life incidents on every orphan.

Aarav has a healthy and happy life where he has a mother who cares for him. So he wants to meet his dad. Fair enough. But it's not up to her to do it. It's up to his mother. Sheetal didn't tell Aarav about Arnav. So respect her decision because she is his legal guardian.

If you feel that's unfair to Arnav then tell him that Sheetal told me that Aarav is your son but not to tell you. I think you should know about it because my first loyalty to you as my husband.

Then let him handle it. It's not your problem anymore.

I said it during Anjali's track that Khushi's first loyalty should be to her husband and herself. His family and/or relationships come later.

Who knows? May be Arnav likes being Aarav's friend and doesn't really want to have a grown-up child. So yes, he deserves to know what Aarav's mother told you. But he doesn't deserve to be thrown at a relationship he isn't prepared for. I'm talking about Aarav here, not Sheetal because she doesn't fall in any relationship whatsoever.

@red is the reason khushis behaviour reeks of distrust...
And the line after that..i agree completely..this is not even khushis decision to make..even if aarav is arnavs son and arnav decodes not to have anything to do with him she cant force him..
if his decision is to include him in his life then khushi comes into the picture..
Here she hasnt even told Arnav what Sheetal said and that too in deference to Sheetal's wishes..thats hard to categorize as innocence or a good heart or anything frankly.
You can believe and think anything and act accordingly when it affects you but you cannot decide for others..good intentions do not justify interference and resulting blunders all the time..
We had a problem with Anjali bcos her past made her act so clingy that she refused to consider her husand may be wrong..well isnt khushi letting her past..losing her parents..guide her in this decison? If Aarav is not Arnavs son then her actions are going to cause more mayhem..and if she believes definitely he is Arnavs son then its not her place to decide anything except her own reaction to the situation.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I believe the writers who wrote khushis character think exactly the way you have written..above in red I beileve are your comments..
If you are hell bent on saying Khushi is right all the time because she ha a good heart then thats fine
However..in your replies I see many conclusions which we have not been shown on screen
Where have we been shown that Arnav and Sheetal had a one-night drunken stand..or even has that been indictaed...even Khushi did not think on screen like that...from where have you made the assumption and why?? On the basis of whats been shown on screen Arnav saw the DNA report and said tehre was nothing like that and Arav cant be my son--I think thats pretty clear unless Sheetal had told Khushi it was in a drunken state that Aarav was conceived..where do you conclude these from--when they havent shown anything like it?? How do you say tahts the truth and Arnav doesnt know when there has been nothing absolutely said like that??
Khushi going to the mother of the kid is correct in your opinion...instead of going to her husband and shouing..each to his own...if she believes that Arnav is not wrong in lying to her she woud have gone to him..was she shown thinking that Arnav may not remember?After seeing the report is positive? Again your conclusion or speculaton isnt it??
Again you are thinking for Khushi when you say she woulnt be comfortable hugging Arnav or lying in bed with him if she didnt trust him...none of that has been shown..she hasnt been shown thinking that he is innocent..and if she did ,,again she would have gone to him..
And again she didnt think whether the report could be wrong...its your conclusion that she did think and concluded that Sheetal had no reason to change the report...
Why is it that Arnav needs to spell everything out in clear clear words but in Khushis case he needs to understand vague hints and clarify again and again and answer questions she hasnt asked??
I honeslty think we judge him for what he did in the past always...in this case thats the only way we can defend Khushis actions...others are by saying pure soul and good heart..
We have to go beyond that nd evaluate the situation itself..
All that agreed..but she is not doing the right thing by deciding what she has no right to decide..

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