Why girls defend ASR (ASR not BS).. - Page 7

Originally posted by: Rockerchic

I actually wonder why they support either of the characters.

Arnav -A man handeler w/ anger management issues and trust problems.
Khushi -A spineless doormat who never stands up for herself.

But defending a character has nothing to with whether they condone the same views in real life. Often times it's just about perspective.

Originally posted by: -sanika-

That is what nah, if I was in Khushi's position, one tight chamaat followed by a kick in a vulnerable place would have ensued. I am physically strong, unlike Khushi and can defend myself. That is the main difference. But simply because , some one says you have to marry me, I am not going to go say yes. Instead I would say , go ahead, I dare u. ASR would have to deal with ASR not Khushi :P

Also, I would have disclosed the Shyaamu truth the day I found out, so me landing up in any of Khushi's predicaments is highly unlikely. If we start discussing this further, it will turn in Arnav vs Khushi again . So instead of pointing fingers at khushi, I would say , that I would have done things way differently, hence not landing in her situations.

But then again, the CVs have written this to create a drama, I am sure people would have behaved differently in real life.

hmmm i dont know what to say...😕

Originally posted by: sonapari

Yep if someone tries to do that to me ...I would defend myself...

So if he opens the dori like in first scene...he would have gotten a tight slap ...

But point is in real life some girls want to marry an ASR...

That's what I am stunned at...

On screen it might sound cool or hot...

But in real life a guy of his mentality o( mentally unstable) will make your life a living hell...

If you are just talking about ASR a fictional character...I can at least understand he might be hot as BS plays that part.

But some girls in this forum want ASR in real life...so why would you want to get into relationship with mentally unstable guy ???😲

As I said, my personality is more like ASR than Khushi
That is why I can relate to him more
We let people be as long as they leave us alone.
He isn't mentally unstable
More like frustrated that he is being forced to do things that he would rather not.
ASR has never acted on his own.
All his actions are reactions to Khushi's actions
As I am not Khushi, I doubt he would react the same way with me.
I wouldn't have gate crashed an event
I wouldn't have argued with him in his office.
Maybe after I left it (that was very immature)
i don't eat food on other people's property
I can go on.

I am not talking about the looks at all.
I am talking about the personality
Polish, education, mannerisms
I like the fact that he is an atheist. I am one as well
I like the fact that he is close to his family
I like the fact that he isn't sexist. If you remember the Lavanya incident , where she is asking for his permission to go to a party, he is like, why the hell are u asking me. It is your life.
He expected Lavanya and Aman to work equally hard.
Not special treatment was given based on gender.
I like that equality.
No point in comparing him to when Khushi started her Dabba service
(story from then was utter unASR like )
I like the fact that he is independent and he has started his own business.

Okay I am missing out on a lot of good posts these days.

Resv, would like to really write a reply after the weekend

Originally posted by: -sanika-

As I said, my personality is more like ASR than Khushi
That is why I can relate to him more
We let people be as long as they leave us alone.
He isn't mentally unstable
More like frustrated that he is being forced to do things that he would rather not.
ASR has never acted on his own.
All his actions are reactions to Khushi's actions
As I am not Khushi, I doubt he would react the same way with me.
I wouldn't have gate crashed an event
I wouldn't have argued with him in his office.
Maybe after I left it (that was very immature)
i don't eat food on other people's property
I can go on.

I am not talking about the looks at all.
I am talking about the personality
Polish, education, mannerisms
I like the fact that he is an atheist. I am one as well
I like the fact that he is close to his family
I like the fact that he isn't sexist. If you remember the Lavanya incident , where she is asking for his permission to go to a party, he is like, why the hell are u asking me. It is your life.
He expected Lavanya and Aman to work equally hard.
Not special treatment was given based on gender.
I like that equality.
No point in comparing him to when Khushi started her Dabba service
(story from then was utter unASR like )
I like the fact that he is independent and he has started his own business.

Originally posted by: sonapari

I defend Khushi because in this world ultimately Khushi will win in the end...

She might be naive but she is not spineless...

Her resignation speech still resonates...

" hum thik hai...aapse wajah se nahi...par aapse bawjood hum thik hai"...

Bhaad mein gaye aap aur bhaad mein gayi aapki naukarii"...

I agree that cvs have diluted Khushi...

I don't like ASR the character...

But people here want to marry a guy like ASR in real life...😲

So that's what confuses me...