Why girls defend ASR (ASR not BS)..

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sonapari

@sonapari

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

Hi,everyone.

I am talking about ASR here & not Barun sobti.

So plz don't bash me & ask questions as why are you after Barun sobti???

Poor soul Barun sobti...

I like BS off screen.

He is such a nice,sweet guy in real life.

Let me tell you this post is about ASR & ASR only.

Whenever there is a situation that Khushi is being insulted,humiliated by ASR many girls in forum defend ASR.

Right from first episode when ASR pulls dori & insults her because of misunderstanding to terrace scene...

There have been numerous occasions where khushi's pain insults,humiliation have touched my heart.

ASR insults her on diwali night because he can't think Harvard educated ,rich business tycoon falling for poor girl like Khushi.

He insults her because he has feelings for her & doesn't want to accept it.

Then when she gets engaged ,he again insults her for not able to trap a rich guy.

In terrace scene he is not man enough to confront Khushi about what's going on with snake...

Rather than using his brain ,he forces her into marrying her.

He threatens her into marriage...

After that scene which girl won't feel khushi's pain???

At least that's what I thought...

But some girls in this forum were so saddened by ASR's tears...they forgot all about Khushi & what she must be going through.

I was stunned that as a girl,how can you not feel khushi's pain???

In last two episodes I have seen that girls are again defending ASR ,his tears,his anger & his actions.

& this unfortunate past ...I feel pain for both of them.

Both of them are so so devasted by shocker ...

But Khushi was left in mandap answering people's vibes & taunts...

She was left there at altar because of no fault of her's...

She is dealing with past ,her marriage,taunts of mami/dadi/anji...

Her problems are bigger as she didn't get a chance to scream in secret place& sort out past in luxury of privacy...She was left at altar with all people asking,taunting her about garima...

Funny & sad part is the same girls who defend ASR for insulting Khushi...

Treat dadi,mami anji,shyamu Very differently when they insult Khushi...

A woman in them suddenly wakes up when they see other people torturing Khushi...

So my question is do looks,style & accent give you a license to insult women??

Fellow women don't feel pain ,insults of Khushi just because the guy doing all these acts is a hot guy...(ASR ..I mean).

This is my reading about whole ipkknd story...

The aim of my post is to know why some girls never feel the pain of Khushi??

Why ASR's actions no matter how rude,arrogant & cruel are always defended by some girls???

Plz share your views.

Edited by sonapari - 13 years ago

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krisha06

@krisha06

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Posted: 13 years ago

Totally agree with you... IF is blind as far as ARNAV is concerned, I has an ardent KUSHI fan always feel her pain and feel that CVs have not been fair to KUSHI... THAT is the reason I have posted SLAP FOR ASR... Not that I dont like ASR... Great fan of SaRun

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rima

@rima

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Posted: 13 years ago

What a valid and honest post

Do you know why I joined the forum in October 2011?

Simply because of this

For everything ASR did people were blaming Khushi

They insulted her when she danced for the desi boys track, for a small mistake

they said she is characterless

whatever ASR did was glorifed

It is then I decided to join and fight my battle for Khushi

From then till now I do that

I wanted people, especially girls to see another girl's pain

Like you I am amazed how they can't

I get the response Khushi is fictional

Then why do they feel so much for ASR?

If you see none of his actions from dori tearing to lucknw footage to throwing him out of the window are tolerable sins, let alone glorifiable

Then how can they defend him

Same is happening now

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rukuswasthika

@rukuswasthika

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: krisha06
Totally agree with you... IF is blind as far as ARNAV is concerned, I has an ardent KUSHI fan always feel her pain and feel that CVs have not been fair to KUSHI... THAT is the reason I have posted SLAP FOR ASR... Not that I dont like ASR... Great fan of SaRun

u stole my words.i always feel that cvs have not portrayed khushi's pain as much as they have shown asr's.there would be a breaking point for everyone.how come khushi has not yet reached that point.after this past bomb also if she is again the sufferer and does not reply back and show her emotions then that would be the most unfair thing

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sonapari

@sonapari

Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: krisha06
Totally agree with you... IF is blind as far as ARNAV is concerned, I has an ardent KUSHI fan always feel her pain and feel that CVs have not been fair to KUSHI... THAT is the reason I have posted SLAP FOR ASR... Not that I dont like ASR... Great fan of SaRun

Thank God today he came...

today he didn't behave like typical ASR who is focussed on himself & his di...

before kidnapping track his behaviour was so obnixious but still girls defend him...

I don't get it...😕

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sonapari

@sonapari

Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: rukuswasthika

u stole my words.i always feel that cvs have not portrayed khushi's pain as much as they have shown asr's.there would be a breaking point for everyone.how come khushi has not yet reached that point.after this past bomb also if she is again the sufferer and does not reply back and show her emotions then that would be the most unfair thing

...firstly no girl in real life would fall for ruthless,rude & coldblooded ASR ...

Onscreen it might feel cool or hot to some girls...

But in reality ASR before kidnapping track was so abusive...it would be a living hell...

thankfully he has changed after near death experience...so this ASR seems more reasonable to me ...

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@Decent6Chori

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

This is a major problem in the forum. People who cannot differentiate between the actors and their characters. ASR/Arnav will be wrong yet you will see the phangirls defending him. Why? Because the feel it's an insult to BS. HELLO! News flash! They are two different people. One is real and the other is reel.

The day people learn the difference, this forum will be a much peaceful place

Edit: Feel Khushi's pain?! LMAO! Never! Apparently these phankis and Gul have a lot in common..

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sonapari

@sonapari

Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: rima
What a valid and honest post

Do you know why I joined the forum in October 2011?

Simply because of this

For everything ASR did people were blaming Khushi

They insulted her when she danced for the desi boys track, for a small mistake

they said she is characterless

whatever ASR did was glorifed

It is then I decided to join and fight my battle for Khushi

From then till now I do that

I wanted people, especially girls to see another girl's pain

Like you I am amazed how they can't

I get the response Khushi is fictional

Then why do they feel so much for ASR?

If you see none of his actions from dori tearing to lucknw footage to throwing him out of the window are tolerable sins, let alone glorifiable

Then how can they defend him

Same is happening now

Yep ,today he was really behaving like a guy in love...

but till kidnapping track,ASR was as abusive as you can get...

I don't get it seriously...

How can girls defend a guy who forces a girl,threatens a girl into marriage...

A guy who calls her characterless without trying to know the whole truth...

How can girls defend a guy who pulls her dori & mistreats,misbehaves just because he misunderstood her...

How can girls defend a guy who gets upset at her on diwali night because he has feelings for her...

He has full right to get engaged to La while secretely loving khushi...but if khushi gets engaged then he taunts her for not trapping rich guy...

I mean what's all this about?

I really don't understand why would women defend such an abusive man???

Sadly there are women who felt sympathetic for "TEDD BUNTY OR SCOTT PETERSON"...

So it's not a new thing...

It's sad & unfortunate...

Charisma,looks,style,clothes,sunglasses matter so much that it covers all other personal traits...😲

Many times i asked what are qualities which make ASR(NOT BS MIND YOU) so great,desirable in your eyes?

So i am called a basher ,i get response that we love BS & ASR EQUALLY...

Funny & great part is BS himself said in an interview "in real life i am not at all like ASR ...woh toh bahut khadoos hai"...so there you go...😆

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

Sparkler

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Posted: 13 years ago

Thanks for making this post. I'm tired of explaining these crazy ASR fans that we are not criticizing Barun or his acting capabilities or his personality. He is a sweet sweet guy.

What we, the so-called feminists, objected to was the inhuman treatments of a woman by a man and his family. We believe that being a woman, when we refuse to watch a woman being subjected to insult and humiliation makes us human. But apparently we are termed as feminists.

And these women who are going on and on about us bashing ASR, God forbid are ever in a position where they are stood up at the alter until all guests leave with their grooms missing and their family are being subjected to humiliation in front of all the society, then they will understand that what seems romantic on screen is not how it feels in real life.

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sonapari

@sonapari

Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: tia.o
Thanks for making this post. I'm tired of explaining these crazy ASR fans that we are not criticizing Barun or his acting capabilities or his personality. He is a sweet sweet guy.

What we, the so-called feminists, objected to was the inhuman treatments of a woman by a man and his family. We believe that being a woman, when we refuse to watch a woman being subjected to insult and humiliation makes us human. But apparently we are termed as feminists.

And these women who are going on and on about us bashing ASR, God forbid are ever in a position where they are stood up at the alter until all guests leave with their grooms missing and their family are being subjected to humiliation in front of all the society, then they will understand that what seems romantic on screen is not how it feels in real life.

Dear,ASR on screen might be hot or cool...i don't know ...

But in real life ASR like guy will make your life a living hell...

How can women defend a guy who doesn't know how to respect,treat women?

I understand that after kidnapping track he is a changed man...

I like that changed ASR...

But before that,he has been plain abusive...

And sad,unfortunate part is fans defending him are mostly girls😲

So no wonder looks,style ,charisma, make an impression rather than how respecful you are as a person...

If mami taunts khushi...mami is not so nice...

If dadi taunts khushi...dadi is not so nice...

If anji misbehaves with khushi...anji is not so nice...

If shyam ...forget it...