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Posted: 13 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: kookie2020

Okay I am missing out on a lot of good posts these days.

Better late than never.
ASR is a fictional character , Barun Sobti is just the guy who brings ASR alive on screen.
If someone says something against ASR that does not mean that He/She is bashing Barun Sobti.

Learn to differentiate between ASR and Barun.
One is reel and another one is real.
For god's sake Open your eyes and see it.

I have nothing against Barun Sobti.
I wish him all the best.
He is a great guy.

But I hate ASR's guts .
So I will talk about it.
I can talk about a fictional character, I have full right to.

Now before anyone calls me biased , I appreciate ASR whenever appreciation is required, but I don't get many chances to do that.
I cut him some slack last night but Let's see how long that lasts.
His brain cells will not remain intact for long, I am sure of it.



Girls need to chalk out the difference between real and reel.

Thank you for making this post TM.

EDITED-

I read all the previous pages and I came to this shocking conclusion that some girls want to marry a guy like ASR?
Really?
Can they inflict this kind of suffering on themselves just because the guy is hot headed and good looking?
Really?
What is wrong with ppl?



Yep...some of the girls want to marry a guy like ASR...😲
God bless them...
Thankfully I am not one of them...
What's wrong???hmmm...
No idea dear...why would you want to get in an abusive relationship???😲
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Posted: 13 years ago
#82
I defend him because there is ALWAYS a reason behind his stupid actions! Yes he insults her left, right and center but people always choose to see what he did not WHY he did. Arnav is a very interesting character and I don't really have a problem with Khushi. I see the show for BOTH but apparently some people see it only forKhushi.

As for the characters khushi is simple- I understand her completely but what intrigues me is Arnav and I am not ashamed of it. I will defend him as long as it seems reasonable.

See to be honest it's just a matter of perspective. What is right for me will not be the same for you.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: Rockerchic


I don't want to marry an ASR just as i don't want to be like Khuhsi.

They are fictional characters and hence their attributes and shortcomings are exaggerated. But i am sure when people say they want to be like Khuhsi or marry an ASR they mean the positives. Like Khushi's innocence/kind nature and ASR's caring nature towards his family/ability to love deeply.

It's just an escape rout and a very common trait in everyone. Nothing too serious.

Arre yaar...phir wahi Baat...
Darling some girls want ASR like husband in reality...
So in real life why would you want a guy who will manhandle you???
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Posted: 13 years ago
#84

Originally posted by: maisoon

So happy to see such post!
I love when asr does something good...like yesterday when he kept his promise.he came and they got married ;even after a lot of tears but they got together

and i condemn and will carry on to do so...to critize, condemn or bash as people like to call all his evil acts


Yep wrongdoing is wrongdoing...
But problem here is...
Dadi,mami,anji,snake are all evil whenever they taunt Khushi...
Girls can find faults in other characters because they are not hot...
But with ASR ...nope he is so hot...so he can't do any wrong...😲
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Posted: 13 years ago
#85

Originally posted by: Jammy-

I defend him because there is ALWAYS a reason behind his stupid actions! Yes he insults her left, right and center but people always choose to see what he did not WHY he did. Arnav is a very interesting character and I don't really have a problem with Khushi. I see the show for BOTH but apparently some people see it only forKhushi.

As for the characters khushi is simple- I understand her completely but what intrigues me is Arnav and I am not ashamed of it. I will defend him as long as it seems reasonable.

See to be honest it's just a matter of perspective. What is right for me will not be the same for you.

Changed ASR after kidnapping track is a reasonable guy...
I found him abusive & too full of himself kind of guy untill kidnapping track...
This changed man is a welcome change though...
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Posted: 13 years ago
#86
Bwahaha, I think this question ranks just beneath 'Is the Big Bang Theory True?' and just above 'Was The Man on The Moon Faked?'

I've spent (unfortunately) a year on this forum, and I must have been part of every Team here...Team Barun, Team ASR, Team Sanaya, Team Khushi, Team Sarun, Team Arhi...I'm fickle minded. Sue me.

I cannot blindly justify characters I like out of loyalty to the actor or for any other reason if they are blatantly in the wrong. And please, people reading this thinking 'Omgz bashrz! #@%?' don't patronise me with 'you don't get the character' bullshit. ASR/Arnav is one of the main reasons I started watching this show...His character wasn't your run of the mills SP, momma's-sari-clutching-boys, which was refreshing to watch.

Same applies to Khushi...She had the balls to stand up for herself and be crazy ass self. But at the end of the day this is a SP serial, characters persona's will be amplified to gain extra dramatic affect...So you see Arnav turning to a class A jerk, and Khushi turning into a bumbling fool.

Both characters have been screwed with courtesy the CV's, yet the STI's seem to spreading through the forum like wildfire.

My only issue with Arnav defending is this- why is it that Arnav fans are unable to criticise and bitch about his character every time his character is butchered, when they can do it in an instant in a heartbeart when the topic is Khushi?

Call a spade a spade, and realise when the characters are being destroyed by the CV's and speak up about it...Don't sugar coat it and find some shitty excuse to find BOTH their actions plausible.

Oh and if anyone is wondering what teaam I am now...It's Bhatiya all the way baby.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#87
i am someone whos always supported asr whatever hes done and always disliked khushi. I love asr but no i dont want a husband like him..! Its looks good on screen ..off screen i wud kick the guys ass!
And thats why i dislike khushi so much... Spineless., i know many will diagree but she only stands up for other people.. SHe has LET him do all that stuff to her.n as a woman i dislike her for it. if she would just kick that guys ass and is less dumber.. I have always liked women who can stand up for herself. He blackmailed her to marry him. Understand her 'pain'? Why did she say yes? For her sister? Please. Hr sister would never want her to do that to herself. I would give my life for my sister but iwould never say yes to this.. Because if my sisters future husband would listen to his brother and leave my sister. I dont want him as my jiju. I disliked khushi from the first episode where the grooms side demanded dowry. In THIS DAY AND AGE? N only becus dey didnt hav d money she went to convince them oderwise she wud have said yes?nd ill admit i love and support asr because all that he does looks super hot ON SCRREN ! In real life.. Iwould truly kick his ass.
Bt in the end all this is required to move the story forward so 'enjoy.. Serial hi to hai'!
Please do reply even if you disagree. :)
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Posted: 13 years ago
#88
You put my thoughts down so well!

I wanted to but did not!

Felt so good reading this!!

Good looks & hotness doesnt give you ticket to be rude arrogant and disrespectful.
I cant tolerate my BF or spouse treating me like that, just because he is hot & sexy.

(This is about ASR, not BS)
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Posted: 13 years ago
#89

Originally posted by: .Euphoria.

Bwahaha, I think this question ranks just beneath 'Is the Big Bang Theory True?' and just above 'Was The Man on The Moon Faked?'

I've spent (unfortunately) a year on this forum, and I must have been part of every Team here...Team Barun, Team ASR, Team Sanaya, Team Khushi, Team Sarun, Team Arhi...I'm fickle minded. Sue me.

I cannot blindly justify characters I like out of loyalty to the actor or for any other reason if they are blatantly in the wrong. And please, people reading this thinking 'Omgz bashrz! #@%?' don't patronise me with 'you don't get the character' bullshit. ASR/Arnav is one of the main reasons I started watching this show...His character wasn't your run of the mills SP, momma's-sari-clutching-boys, which was refreshing to watch.

Same applies to Khushi...She had the balls to stand up for herself and be crazy ass self. But at the end of the day this is a SP serial, characters persona's will be amplified to gain extra dramatic affect...So you see Arnav turning to a class A jerk, and Khushi turning into a bumbling fool.

Both characters have been screwed with courtesy the CV's, yet the STI's seem to spreading through the forum like wildfire.

My only issue with Arnav defending is this- why is it that Arnav fans are unable to criticise and bitch about his character every time his character is butchered, when they can do it in an instant in a heartbeart when the topic is Khushi?

Call a spade a spade, and realise when the characters are being destroyed by the CV's and speak up about it...Don't sugar coat it and find some shitty excuse to find BOTH their actions plausible.

Oh and if anyone is wondering what teaam I am now...It's Bhatiya all the way baby.

I agree with you partially...
Khushi never stands for herself since the day she realized her love...love for ASR...
It has something to do with being an orphan...losing parents at an early age...
May be she has learnt that you have to be too sacrificing to be loved...
With ASR ...I think many people can't differentiate between ASR & BS...
So when we criticize ASR they think we are bashing BS...
😲 Part is some girls replied to me saying they want a husband like ASR in real life...
So GOD bless their hearts...

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Posted: 13 years ago
#90

Originally posted by: blahblah26

i am someone whos always supported asr whatever hes done and always disliked khushi. I love asr but no i dont want a husband like him..! Its looks good on screen ..off screen i wud kick the guys ass!
And thats why i dislike khushi so much... Spineless., i know many will diagree but she only stands up for other people.. SHe has LET him do all that stuff to her.n as a woman i dislike her for it. if she would just kick that guys ass and is less dumber.. I have always liked women who can stand up for herself. He blackmailed her to marry him. Understand her 'pain'? Why did she say yes? For her sister? Please. Hr sister would never want her to do that to herself. I would give my life for my sister but iwould never say yes to this.. Because if my sisters future husband would listen to his brother and leave my sister. I dont want him as my jiju. I disliked khushi from the first episode where the grooms side demanded dowry. In THIS DAY AND AGE? N only becus dey didnt hav d money she went to convince them oderwise she wud have said yes?nd ill admit i love and support asr because all that he does looks super hot ON SCRREN ! In real life.. Iwould truly kick his ass.
But in the end all this is required to move the story forward so 'enjoy.. Serial hi to hai'!
Please do reply even if you disagree. :)

Dear...thank god you don't want to marry ARS like guy in real life...
Sadly & unfortunately...dowry,helpless women are real life situations in modern INDIA too...
I have been avoiding this story telling ...but just because of your point ...I am going ahead...
Yesterday I stopped & didn't tell whole story...because it takes an emotional toll on me...
It's so heartbreaking...
If you are softhearted person don't read this...leave right now...
When I was in engineering ,one of my close frd's sister got married.
I & all Frds attended the wedding,...
After her sister's wedding my frd changed slowly but surely...
We understood something is wrong but never guessed it might be about her sister...
Her sister's husband,in laws were very abusive...
They tortured her,taunted her about being not that wealthy...pretty...
She was from a middle class educated family...
Guy was from very rich family...
Actually she went in his company for job & he proposed...it was a love marriage...
One day my frd's relative came to pick my frd up from hostel...
We read it in newspaper that my frds's sister was burnt alive...
She was tortured with hot iron first...
When after 2 months we went to meet my frd...it was heartbreaking...
Her mom was devastated beyond belief...she was looking as if she is a dead body...
My frd was in shock...she just said...
"is it true ?is it a nightmare?"...
It was life changing moment for me& all of us...
It's easy to blame Khushi like girls...
My frd after few yrs said" my sister couldn't have come back...she was oldest ...we are 4 sisters...
If her marriage would have been broken...my parents couldn't have married rest of sisters"...
I was stunned ,I just hugged her yaar...
That story & other stories are true pictures of domestic abuse...
There are many many women who are doctors,engineers ,teachers & educated,self earning individuals...But sometimes it's not possible for them to go to parents house after Brocken marriage...
Many marriages are Brocken because of dowry...
It has neve happened in my family...
But I have close Frds who will tell you stories of real abused women...because of dowry marriages are called off...
That's truth...that hurts but it's true...in modern India in some communities,some villages or some cities too...this is happening every single day...
Fortunately I was never in that situation...but I won't say those women are spineless...
May be they allowed it to happen...but in many cases if these women go back...society will treat them as dadi treats Khushi or garima with disgust...
Characters like dadi are every where...
Every family has share of dadi,mami,ASR...
But nani,Khushi are a rare species...

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