How we should behave with spoiler givers - Page 28

Originally posted by: molten_lava

@DKS: A spoiler is basically something that spoils the excitement of the upcoming episode. Now if Barun goes on a leave, we will get to see a body double. So won't that affect your excitement for the show? Maybe not, but it does for some. I'm just saying for debating sake. I kinda like debating with you.😆

Originally posted by: rima

People who give spoilers do it out of goodwill.

I for one feel can never criticize them for not giving spoilers or not giving correct spoilers

They deserve our love and respect for giving us spoilers in time when there is panic and when we bady want to know what is going to happen.

They cannot be held accountable for being right or wrong because tracks change.

They do not deserve to be bashed for a particular spoiler not coming true.

In fact we should be thankful they do this much for us.

Having said that, I do not think people giving spoilers are God deserving undying devotion.

For example, when people start lecturing us like school kids about how to behave, what to say and the dos and don'ts, just because they give spoilers, they deserve to be told that they cannot interfere in anyone's freedom.

When they start behaving like celebrities, wanting us to bow down to them, I do not feel like bowing down to them.

When they start giving news which can cause further issues, then I do not find use in such spoilers. Better to say things which are useful or not say them at all.

When they can't take criticism and start behaving like they have been wronged just because they have given spoilers, that does not reflect well on them, because we even criticize prime minister of the country. If they are wrong sometimes, they will be criticized.

Mind you I said criticms and not personally hurting them. Getting personal is a big no

When they get milage out of us like wanting things from us then they are simply using us

When they give spoilers which make people run behind them because it is not clear, it feels like a tease

So people who give spoilers are like any other IF member and should behave as such...and we should give them love and respect based on their behaviour and not just spoilers

So I for one do not buy this 'how can you do this to so and so' spoiler giver.

It is also time for them to ask whether they deserve our love and respect, because sometimes they do cross the lines.

PS: This is the direct result of some very weird posts and comments I read about spoilers and spoiler givers

Originally posted by: prettypri

Where has a spoiler been defined??? it's up to those who give info. they can decide what to post...and since Baruns leave beng mentioned is being brought up here...if ppl did nt like Mishtis spoiler during RB saying he s n leave and if they have so many issues with her spoilers then why open her posts??

And you say comments can be rude..then so can her reaction..why attempt to control that right??

And what exactly does basher mean??Thats what is the objection right..she said bashers??? So posts can be rude..but to qualify as bashing there is another level???

And leave of actor is related to show...how...in this case..bcos Barun was n a long leave and wasn't seen for so long...and at that time many asked when he s coming etc...so she may have thought ppl are interested to know about it since even one day with less Barun does create a furore n the forum..

and ppl are observant enuf and watch he show enuf times to spot BDs and ask why when both actors are present they used BDs..so she must have given this info...

maybe there shud be a request to title the post as Baruns leave info..and nt spoiler so those who r objecting need not open and lose interest n the show. that and clearly define spoiler as well..

maybe that will help??

Originally posted by: Afya

I would leave the word '' Bashers'' out as it has been misused many times in this forum. She was intimidated in that thread.

I am not aware of the thread you are referring to. So, I won't justify why her fans(really??😲) force people to apologise. But surely, these fans didn't threaten IF members with a gun and force, Did they? How did they force? And why blame her for that?

You are right, It's a free world. If someone made a post asking for support to get her back, So be it. If you don't agree, You had a choice not to reply.

Originally posted by: Didikisaut

I think ppl have been pointing it out since quite some time and rudeness came as there was no response...I personally found many to be well within limits...

Her reaction was outright against forum rules...you cannot use caps...her post on bashing I have nothing to add it is her POV and I have no issues in being labelled as Basher...

1 or 2 days would not affect the show...they can bank episodes/scenes...it cannot be compared to film shooting time as PH never ever gave info of his return so people had a right to know when will he return.

yes giving it separately will help...I need not open it...

Originally posted by: -Aimz-

Lol if there was a cyber gun, they would definitely have used it!

Just kidding...Not speaking from experience but my friends have sure told me how their Inbox is spammed with all those "How-dare-you" and "you-have-no-right" replies.

And dear, of course I didn't comment. None of my friends did, either. They can make as many Mishti Manao Andolan posts they wish...but why nudging us to get involved too?

Originally posted by: Dinarochka

Then why does it matter whether she gives out the schedule or not. Some fans would be interested to know about the leave(as is evidenced) while others can just ignore that part of the post. You say you had a right to know then?

Why is that? Why did you have expectations from her? Why is it subject to change? Is she going to dream of your change in expectations?

It still does not justify the kind of reaction by members in that thread. Is that so hard to comprehend? If someone is hen pecked about such a flimsy detail, they are going to react & obviously this turned out in a bad way. Why can't people just take information at face value & leave it be. This is a case of overreaction leading to another overreaction and it snowballing & blowing up. I still reiterate, I don't condone her behaviour.

This goes to show why restraint in language and tone is necessary.

All of us loved her spoiler when he was shooting for the movie, so what's the big deal if she gives out his leave for 2 days.

And you still haven't quoted her about giving out personal information.