How we should behave with spoiler givers

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rima

@rima

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 13 years ago

People who give spoilers do it out of goodwill.

I for one feel can never criticize them for not giving spoilers or not giving correct spoilers

They deserve our love and respect for giving us spoilers in time when there is panic and when we bady want to know what is going to happen.

They cannot be held accountable for being right or wrong because tracks change.

They do not deserve to be bashed for a particular spoiler not coming true.

In fact we should be thankful they do this much for us.

Having said that, I do not think people giving spoilers are God deserving undying devotion.

For example, when people start lecturing us like school kids about how to behave, what to say and the dos and don'ts, just because they give spoilers, they deserve to be told that they cannot interfere in anyone's freedom.

When they start behaving like celebrities, wanting us to bow down to them, I do not feel like bowing down to them.

When they start giving news which can cause further issues, then I do not find use in such spoilers. Better to say things which are useful or not say them at all.

When they can't take criticism and start behaving like they have been wronged just because they have given spoilers, that does not reflect well on them, because we even criticize prime minister of the country. If they are wrong sometimes, they will be criticized.

Mind you I said criticms and not personally hurting them. Getting personal is a big no

When they get milage out of us like wanting things from us then they are simply using us

When they give spoilers which make people run behind them because it is not clear, it feels like a tease

So people who give spoilers are like any other IF member and should behave as such...and we should give them love and respect based on their behaviour and not just spoilers

So I for one do not buy this 'how can you do this to so and so' spoiler giver.

It is also time for them to ask whether they deserve our love and respect, because sometimes they do cross the lines.

PS: This is the direct result of some very weird posts and comments I read about spoilers and spoiler givers

Edited by rima - 13 years ago

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Shriya Shyam

@Forumuser_

Voyager

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

This Post is Hell TRUE. What on Earth Can Mishti Do if the tracks Keep on Changing, not like she is Writing the Script & Hiding something from us. Also, It is practically impossible for her also to give an every sec, script change update. Therefore, there isin't any logical reason to bash Mishti, or Anyone for that Matter, regarding Any Source of Spoilers.

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OwnMyCity

@OwnMyCity

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

I do agree with you completely...But at the same time...As humans we should learn to respect one another as well..U don like it stay away..Bt don get personal with the Spoiler givers..Even celebrities voice out if media gets too personal n bash them..After all it is human nature.. All i can say is tat ppl who bash are acting immature..n ppl who feel tat cos of the bashing its the end of the world r also immature..

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vellainsaan

@vellainsaan

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

Very well said Rima.. you wrote whatever I wanted to say but in a much better way.. so thanks for this post 😊

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OmNaMaSteOm

@OmNaMaSteOm

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

I agree rima :

Spoilers givers are not gods but at the same time i really respect them for leaking out information of the sets to us before the episode actually airs.

Just like we critic episodes, actors & the list goes on same way each member is criticized too for their posts.

The word spoilers also has a meaning to it that should not be crossed.

I refuse to chant sorries to ones who give spoilers because i did nothing wrong. There is a difference between bashing & criticizing people.

I truly believe in lovelyme12, Zee news & Mishti & i always appreciate their contribution to the forum.

Opps i forgot to mention Nisha in this list im so sorry Nish (galathi hogayi)

I wish all 4 stay & continue giving us spoilers.

Edited by Harshitha - 13 years ago

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Ni1234

@Ni1234

Dazzler

+ 8

Posted: 13 years ago

Awesome and much needed post..!!

I agree..!!

There has to be a limit to everything.

I appreciate two people who genuinely share the information. They take out their time and post the info here. We all respect them for that.

But they are not gods first of all. Yesterday no one bashed any body. It was just a request that spoiler giver should not reveal the personal info of the actor. which is absolutely right.

How come you can consider that request as a bashing ?

Ok to give spoiler and not to give spoiler is totally depends upon the spoiler giver.

If that person doesn't want to give then leave it. Why to beg ??

No one has hurt that person personally then why to say sorry ?

I was shocked when I saw that sorry posts..

I was like what exactly is happening ??

Few people give Hints. The moment I start decoding, episode gets aired..LOL

If you have the information, directly share it or else don't share it simple.

Why so much tam jham ?? To get the attention ?? LOL literally ???

A week back I saw the post by one spoiler giver that Mr.Sobti visits IF and read the posts.

I was like what on earth made you think that and you made a post also on that ?? 🤣 Mr. Sobti is upset because of Bashing..🤣 That BS spoiler was one hilarious I have ever read on IF till date..🤣

So make it a place where you share a spoiler related to the story and not the actors personal information.

Dear God ..!! Save IF..!!

Cheers Rima Di..!!

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Sayali_23

@Sayali_23

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

I agree with you Rima... very well said..👏

It's stupid (for the lack of better word I m using this word)

when they give so called HINTS (which no one understands most of the time)

or spoilers such as I will not tell you what I know

or falana falana actor is on leave or not shooting

or I will not give spoiler if I don't get XYZ no. hits on my post ...

It gives me a impression that they just want to get the attention and want to play with our emotion...

IF you want to share information you are welcome...

IF you don't want to share... it's fine... we will anyway get to see the scene in the episode...

PS: No offense to any spoiler giver just my personal opinion

Edited by sayali_d23 - 13 years ago

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Kinarandomness

@Kinarandomness

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

, when people start lecturing us like school kids about how to behave, what to say and the dos and don'ts, just because they give spoilers, they deserve to be told that they cannot interfere in anyone's freedom

i agree with this point some people started doing this and this really irritated me

why do people want spoilers can't they have some patience ...

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ArnavKhushiAT.

@ArnavKhushiAT.

Voyager

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

Rima Di ! i got so tired tht i made a post too 😡 I'm SO SORRY Mishti_Mkm Fans ... Cuz Unfortunately i forgot ! ppl who give us spoilers r GOD !

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musicfan5

@musicfan5

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#10

Thanks for the Post Rima...Well said and True...

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