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prettypri

@prettypri

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Posted: 13 years ago

#281

@dks- sorry I have only recently begun posting in the forum ..but is t a norm that when ppl d no reply questioning members get rude..is that acceptable?? you now I may be wrong but I have nt seen that many posts from Mishti except those titled spoilers...so it was normal tha there was no reply isnt it???

and you say 1 or 2 days leave is ok...it doesn't affect the show...so then there shud not be a problem if she tells or not...

And one more thing...it's only bcos she termed this a spoiler that ts wrong???Bcos ppl have posted pics of Barun with his wife a the mall when he was n leave...and so many protests were nt there..as now. isn that more personal ..especially when he was on leave anyway??

if Barun were on a social nw then also we might have got news of his leave...in fact I believe once Karan(NK) had posted a pic that ndcated Baun did not shoot tha day..and then Mishti had told the same thing..so there are many sources fr this kind of news...

And ppl keep posing offscreen pcs of Barun wit friends etc...not related to show again..then why only nw is all this beng said??

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Posted: 13 years ago

#282

Originally posted by: Afya

If people sent you and your friends PMs with "How-dare-you" and "you-have-no-right" replies, That is rude. Such response is unacceptable for even a public figure. And we know some do it. We have heard it from production houses, actors and channels. Didn't that new heroine of Barun's in his movie also say that his fans threatened to kill her. All this is rubbish. No excuse for rudeness, I agree, by your friends or her ??fans.

Ahaan, but can't change the way people think now, can you?

And I think we're just creating a mountain out of a molehill. Let's just keep this in the back burner now, or better yet, let's burn it away altogether.

Let not Spoilers or Spoiler Givers spoil the mood of the Forum, whether it was intentional or not 😊

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Ashi

@TheThoughtCrime

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Posted: 13 years ago

#283

Originally posted by: Didikisaut

Arnav is not shooting today & he wll not shoot tmw also as he took off frm sets & he went out of Mumbai for two days for his personal work...

Source- Misthi-MKM

This is what she wrote a few months back...

What personal secrets is she giving out? 😆She's respectfully stating that's he on leave. I don't see the harm. People have done way worse. Posted pics of his family. Why the ambiguity in reactions?

And still waiting on those quotes as to the real personal information given out.

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DKS

@-DKS-

Sparkler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#284

Originally posted by: Dinarochka

What personal secrets is she giving out? 😆She's respectfully stating that's he on leave. I don't see the harm. People have done way worse. Posted pics of his family. Why the ambiguity in reactions?

And still waiting on those quotes as to the real personal information given out.

I cannot track sometimes it is only on twitter and not on IF...this is the one I tracked...

Two things cannot be compared...they are totally different...

I have given this bit as you asked about personal stuff...

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DKS

@-DKS-

Sparkler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#285

Originally posted by: prettypri
@dks- sorry I have only recently begun posting in the forum ..but is t a norm that when ppl d no reply questioning members get rude..is that acceptable?? you now I may be wrong but I have nt seen that many posts from Mishti except those titled spoilers...so it was normal tha there was no reply isnt it???

and you say 1 or 2 days leave is ok...it doesn't affect the show...so then there shud not be a problem if she tells or not...

And one more thing...it's only bcos she termed this a spoiler that ts wrong???Bcos ppl have posted pics of Barun with his wife a the mall when he was n leave...and so many protests were nt there..as now. isn that more personal ..especially when he was on leave anyway??

if Barun were on a social nw then also we might have got news of his leave...in fact I believe once Karan(NK) had posted a pic that ndcated Baun did not shoot tha day..and then Mishti had told the same thing..so there are many sources fr this kind of news...

And ppl keep posing offscreen pcs of Barun wit friends etc...not related to show again..then why only nw is all this beng said??

I dont endorse paparazzi culture...you may or may not it is your POV...

People like personal stuff about celebs and it has no limit...just see the recent photos of kate middleton...

Karan only said he was busy or not on set...doesn't mean a leave of absence...

There are few who post pics of barun with friends and what is the problem...have they bugged him to get snaps..they had visited sets officially

Pics with family and friends are private they should be published only with prior approval

When you make a thread you as a TM is expected to go through all replies and revert back if required...so Misthi needs to go through her threads

Edited by Didikisaut - 13 years ago

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OmNaMaSteOm

@OmNaMaSteOm

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Posted: 13 years ago

#286

I very clearly remember Mishti's tweets said about Barun's personal life schedule (rakshabandhan) - I m not on twitter so dont ask me to search for it please.

I would like to just clarify something none of my comments were offensive 😛

i was also trying to make peace with her when she gave rude replies quoting most of my conversation with others.

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GodhuliLogon

@GodhuliLogon

Inactive

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Posted: 13 years ago

#287

hi rima.. off topic..

Congrats for being the winner in 50th News letter..
Happy for you..

:)

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3208660

Edited by godhuli12 - 13 years ago

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Afya

@Afya

Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#288

Originally posted by: -Aimz-

Ahaan, but can't change the way people think now, can you?
And I think we're just creating a mountain out of a molehill. Let's just keep this in the back burner now, or better yet, let's burn it away altogether.
Let not Spoilers or Spoiler Givers spoil the mood of the Forum, whether it was intentional or not 😊

I fail to understand what you mean. 😕

Wrong is wrong no matter who does it. Any disrespectful or rude remark made by anyone is wrong. Let's take an example. Say, I love Karan and make superb audio visual posts on him daily. And say your friends come on my thread and say ''why do you always make a post appreciating only karan? Why not everyone? Either appreciate everyone or don't post at all.''

Do you think that's right?

The problem here is that Mishti is being treated like a public figure, which she is not. I can understand when we all were annoyed by GH's remark on FB. He is a public figure related to the show and was interacting with his fans in that capacity. So, his fans could question him, but again not rudely. But Mishti is not a public figure and is not participating in this forum as a member of IPKKND team. So, we have no right to question/demand/criticize her for the content of her posts just like we have no right to right to question/demand/criticize any other forum member.

And you are right, we have had enough discussion on this now. Would like to point out just one more thing. We (many in this thread) have been discussing for so long despite having opposite views on the subject yet the mood is not spoilt. That's because we have discussed respectfully. This is what the forum needs. Accept that every one is different and treat each other with respect. If you disagree with someone or their post, politely say so or ignore them. It's better than commenting rudely on their thread.

Edited by Afya - 13 years ago

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rima

@rima

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 13 years ago

#289

Originally posted by: godhuli12
hi rima.. off topic..

Congrats for being the winner in 50th News letter..
Happy for you..

:)

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3208660

what does that mean? sorry to be a dunce😊i really don't know