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Ankita C

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Posted: 13 years ago

#301

Originally posted by: Ni1234
Awesome and much needed post..!!

I agree..!!

There has to be a limit to everything.

I appreciate two people who genuinely share the information. They take out their time and post the info here. We all respect them for that.

But they are not gods first of all. Yesterday no one bashed any body. It was just a request that spoiler giver should not reveal the personal info of the actor. which is absolutely right.

How come you can consider that request as a bashing ?

Ok to give spoiler and not to give spoiler is totally depends upon the spoiler giver.

If that person doesn't want to give then leave it. Why to beg ??

No one has hurt that person personally then why to say sorry ?

I was shocked when I saw that sorry posts..

I was like what exactly is happening ??

Few people give Hints. The moment I start decoding, episode gets aired..LOL

If you have the information, directly share it or else don't share it simple.

Why so much tam jham ?? To get the attention ?? LOL literally ???

A week back I saw the post by one spoiler giver that Mr.Sobti visits IF and read the posts.

I was like what on earth made you think that and you made a post also on that ?? 🤣 Mr. Sobti is upset because of Bashing..🤣 That BS spoiler was one hilarious I have ever read on IF till date..🤣

So make it a place where you share a spoiler related to the story and not the actors personal information.

Dear God ..!! Save IF..!!

Cheers Rima Di..!!
agreed wid u dear bt due to d crap silly spoilers hasne ko to milta hai...🤣
for example nk would marry khushi...aftr readimg ds spoiler i ws lk wat d ...hw d...🤣nd ws laughing like hell

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Posted: 13 years ago

#302

Originally posted by: Afya

I fail to understand what you mean. 😕

Wrong is wrong no matter who does it. Any disrespectful or rude remark made by anyone is wrong. Let's take an example. Say, I love Karan and make superb audio visual posts on him daily. And say your friends come on my thread and say ''why do you always make a post appreciating only karan? Why not everyone? Either appreciate everyone or don't post at all.''
Do you think that's right?

The problem here is that Mishti is being treated like a public figure, which she is not. I can understand when we all were annoyed by GH's remark on FB. He is a public figure related to the show and was interacting with his fans in that capacity. So, his fans could question him, but again not rudely. But Mishti is not a public figure and is not participating in this forum as a member of IPKKND team. So, we have no right to question/demand/criticize her for the content of her posts just like we have no right to right to question/demand/criticize any other forum member.

And you are right, we have had enough discussion on this now. Would like to point out just one more thing. We (many in this thread) have been discussing for so long despite having opposite views on the subject yet the mood is not spoilt. That's because we have discussed respectfully. This is what the forum needs. Accept that every one is different and treat each other with respect. If you disagree with someone or their post, politely say so or ignore them. It's better than commenting rudely on their thread.

I was speaking about those fans who were hell bent on making people redeem their posts in Mishti's thread. You said there's no excuse for rudeness. But we can't change someone who is being rude, can we?

You don't get the point. The point is...I agree, utterly, absolutely, completely with the fact that Mishti has EVERY right to hand out spoilers about Barun, just Barun, no one but Barun and I must have NO problem with it. But then the Forum Members DO have a right to question her...its called freedom of expression. It was NOT bashing like Mishti put it, God forbid this damned word, but what I inferred was that upon getting no answer the members felt as if Mishti was deliberately ignoring them [which may not be true, since Mishti says she doesn't reply to posts nor checks her inbox] and hence the replies.

Do you know even Khushboo used to be active in the thread as long as she was getting I-love-you posts. As soon as a Do-The-CVs-Know-What-They-Are-Dishing-Out post came up front, she used to pack her bags and sign off.

Now if you start talking about RIGHTS, there's no end to them. Let's take a look, shall we?

Mishti had every right to dish out spoilers about anyone she wished.

The Members had every right to question her

Mishti had every right to either ignore them or reply to them

Mishti fans had every right to apologize to her on behalf of any XYZ

BUT Mishti fans had no right to spam anyone's inbox with hate mail.

I, for one, haven't targeted Mishti anywhere. Its the behaviour of the fans I'm against. They had no right to do so.

And I'm sure it's the behaviour of those members that questioned Mishti which you are against. They had every right to do so...rude or not. Once more, I'm not justifying my friends but just stating the obvious.

And yes, I'm glad there's a healthy debate going on here. Rima's posts have that charm!

PS. I replied on that thread in Mishti's favour. You are free to check:

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/3205364/spoilers-21-9-12