How we should behave with spoiler givers - Page 26

Originally posted by: prettypri

And dear may I respectfully ask you to read all the posts in the delightful discussion between @ainimonaya and me before you gve our opinion??

I did not mention age at all...please note @ainimonaya veered from the topic t get personal and.I replied.

Originally posted by: serious

I am not going personal with her, I never did with anyone. But if u look at thread, she started to quote posts where users were asking her not to disclose Barun's personal schedule. What's wrong in that ? They gave her proper constructive criticism. They didn't bash her for a long time, as far as I followed, the bombardment of bashing happened only after her immature reply.

Originally posted by: rima

my two cents again

let her say what she wants to say

if some said we don't want so and so info they expressed a view

may be rudely too (again I have seen a few parts of the thread which i only saw next morning. i have been told it was rude but ask me what rudenss can be when I make one of the ASR posts. This was nothing. But still let us just say it was rude)

again she called them bashers

and returned the rudeness

and hence the scores were levelled

no one is the injured party here

if at all anything is injured it is the dignity of an open forum where people who express opinion are called bashers and a person giving the news is called the hero

yes people have the choice to not open posts

but unsuspecting people like me who opened it got upset that y am I reading abut barun's leave

when the info will lead to me thinking am I seeing BD

usually i am blind to BDs

now i will notice

Originally posted by: Didikisaut

You never said what impression you have of misti but clearly stated what impression was being created on me and others questioning/requesting her...so I replied to that...

Please tell me what is immature in my or others reaction??

Pleej I am scratching my head...

Originally posted by: Didikisaut

Totally Agree...

She was pissed...using Capitals as if shouting...she lost her cool...

Members respect her as she was never known to act in such a way...hence no one went personal and I am happy that no one still has gone personal...

Now again making a post stating bashing word for more than 5 times doesnt go well

Originally posted by: molten_lava

Time for Facts:

First of all, there are many people like you and me who don't like the way Mishti gives spoilers. It's not just your friends, there are so many others too. But the truth is there are so many others who like her spoilers and are big fans of hers. Now, just because we don't like it, is it really necessary to butt into her posts and spoil it for others who like her?

It's not a question about rights here. It's about necessity. Is it really necessary?

Rather can't we make our own posts with our own like minded people about the topics we like? And if you clearly know that she is going to be upset, why pursue it?

You want to know what's immature in your reactions?

It's because you know she is going to be instigated and yet your friends repeatedly make such posts. and that is immaturity. And that is borderline bullying.

My point is there are so many different people out there in the world. And it's not necessary we should like everyone of them. Khushboo was giving spoilers in riddles, because it's her way. Mishti is demanding likes because it's her way of doing it. Just because we don't like their way, why do we have to question them just because we have a right?

If we don't like them, ignore them. That's it. Mishti is not going to call you a basher if you don't respond to her posts. But if you do, then don't complain that she calls you a basher.

Originally posted by: Dinarochka

You'd think if she never reacts that way, then the comments before her reaction may have been constructive criticism bordering on rude & judgmental?

Heck, I don't get what bashing means anyway. IMO the comments were rude.