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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: rima

what does that mean? sorry to be a dunce😊i really don't know



Every week in the forums news letter they declare some winners.. if u can just check once u will know..
this is the 50th one.. and You won in this.. as an active member.. who is active through her posts replies and all.. Last week you had a very good week ( post wise ) .. So u won.. and congo..

I am happy u won in the 50th one..
And you get a winning siggy or something as a prize..

i gave the link in my earlier post.. if u find some time .. see your name there..

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Posted: 13 years ago
I agree with you rima... Well said
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: molten_lava


I've gone through most of the replies on this thread and this reply above was something that caught my attention. Now, I've gone through all the other related threads and after studying it thoroughly, I've come to this conclusion.
First of all, I'm no Mishti or Khushboo supporter. I just read their spoilers but I don't go about begging them for spoilers or campaign for them.
Rima, I partly agree to your post and I clearly know what made you make a post like this. Even I agree to it that we shouldn't treat the people who give spoilers like some celebrities. Even celebrities don't deserve the attention that we give them.
But at the same time, don't you think other people too who question them are wrong?
@bold : See, this is what I'm talking about. Mishti/Khushboo has every right to give a spoiler on whoever they like. They might be huge Barun fans and that's why they only give spoilers about them and they do so with their own wish. So if they don't give any info about Sanaya, what right do you have to question them? You are not paying them for giving spoilers. And some of the replies in Mishti's thread clearly demanded an answer from her as to why she posts Barun's schedule.
My point is if you have that much problem with her posting info about Barun only and not about others, can't you simply ignore her spoilers? why chase her? she doesn't owe any explanation to anyone.
If she demands 1000 likes, it's her wish since she's the one who is making the post and the one giving spoilers. We cannot dictate her about what she can demand or not. At the most, we can simply refuse to give in to her demands by abstaining from liking or commenting on the post. But if there are other people who like to give in to her demands, why does it bother you people?
I'm not saying what Mishti is doing is right, but you people aren't right either.


even Barun's fans had a problem with this buddy not just a few ppl including me who commented on it
Barun fans - they themselves questioned this more than i did
in her previous thread ppl questioned this too
it got aggravated now
it all comes down to the BD issue
spoilers does not include an actor personal life
the movie leave was affecting the serial to a large extent - i dont count that
Barun fans themselves dont count it !

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: rima

can we have a ban on the word bashing , redemption and zabardast twist and spoilers swati?
it will solve all issues😊
by the way loved the underlied words

Sure Rima! I would love that! 😆
And thanks! 😳
Sorry I didn't reply earlier..wasn't on IF yesterday... 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: godhuli12



Every week in the forums news letter they declare some winners.. if u can just check once u will know..
this is the 50th one.. and You won in this.. as an active member.. who is active through her posts replies and all.. Last week you had a very good week ( post wise ) .. So u won.. and congo..

I am happy u won in the 50th one..
And you get a winning siggy or something as a prize..

i gave the link in my earlier post.. if u find some time .. see your name there..

thanks a ton buddy for brining it to my notice
never wud have known otherwise
grateful
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: prabba

It looks like all the spoiler princesses want their 5 minute of fame, they know the actors it's their privilege , but don't make an agenda to have your own fan club, very immature of them. This is my point of view in general. This statement is not targeting anyone personally. Sorry I had to put to avoid bashing from Ooh and Aah clubs.

I agree!
And anyways, those actors are also people doing their work just like all of us. It's not like these people have met God and come back with superpowers or something..so I don't understand all that fuss...
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Posted: 13 years ago
Congrats Rima! You should get the member of the year award! You deserve it for such awesome posts! And for being such an awesome person! 🤗
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Didikisaut

Dont tell me about pschology, perception and reasonin dear...I know quite a lot about it...

I am not here to leave a favorable impression or make friends...I am here to discuss the show..my friends are like minded people and I will disagree with them when required...

I am not a celeb who ppl will rember or cry about if I leave and dont wanna become one...I keep as low profile as possible...


Ok so lets discuss if I go by impression that what impression has misti left on us by saying criticism or questioning is bashing, making a fuss leaving and returning within 24 hrs😲.

@bold- you answered your question and coming to the need why no members are well within the Code of conduct..what is wrong...there is a rule of law and all members are equal no special status is given

No one showed attitude to her..one should be humble enough to take criticism in the right spirit..

DKS- I completely agree with you yaar! I feel next time I say 'Hi' to someone I'll be banned for bashing.. 😳 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: molten_lava


I've gone through most of the replies on this thread and this reply above was something that caught my attention. Now, I've gone through all the other related threads and after studying it thoroughly, I've come to this conclusion.
First of all, I'm no Mishti or Khushboo supporter. I just read their spoilers but I don't go about begging them for spoilers or campaign for them.
Rima, I partly agree to your post and I clearly know what made you make a post like this. Even I agree to it that we shouldn't treat the people who give spoilers like some celebrities. Even celebrities don't deserve the attention that we give them.
But at the same time, don't you think other people too who question them are wrong?
@bold : See, this is what I'm talking about. Mishti/Khushboo has every right to give a spoiler on whoever they like. They might be huge Barun fans and that's why they only give spoilers about them and they do so with their own wish. So if they don't give any info about Sanaya, what right do you have to question them? You are not paying them for giving spoilers. And some of the replies in Mishti's thread clearly demanded an answer from her as to why she posts Barun's schedule.
My point is if you have that much problem with her posting info about Barun only and not about others, can't you simply ignore her spoilers? why chase her? she doesn't owe any explanation to anyone.
If she demands 1000 likes, it's her wish since she's the one who is making the post and the one giving spoilers. We cannot dictate her about what she can demand or not. At the most, we can simply refuse to give in to her demands by abstaining from liking or commenting on the post. But if there are other people who like to give in to her demands, why does it bother you people?
I'm not saying what Mishti is doing is right, but you people aren't right either.


What we all are trying to say that just like she has the right to give spoilers of her choice even we have the right to quesiton her about what spoiler she's giving. That's all we're saying. All they did was questioned her which created so much hue and cry. Personally, I don't find anything wrong in what tey asked her. Now today, if I make a post saying something about the show which I believe but others don't then obviously I'll be questioned. I can't term that as bashing and start cribbing and crying over it.
Well, then if we're given the advice of not reading her spoiler then why can't she ignore our questions if she soo feels that we're bashing her by asking her?? We might demand answers. That's our choice just like it's hers to ignore us.
You got us wrong on top of that. We aren't saying that she asking for 1000 likes is wrong. Like you said it's her wish. What we are saying is a more general thing. Like someone asking for 1000 likes and saying that only if I get so many likes I'll post spoilers is more liking using people who believe in your for name and fame. That is wrong. It's not like she gets 1 or 2 likes for her spoilers. She gets soo many. So what's the point of cribbing for not getting that many likes?
Well, if by not understanding that I'm immature like someone else on this thread called people like us, then fine I'm happy being immature.
This is directed to the person who called us immature- Atleast we're enjoying our life then. Be happy with your very mature life! We're happy with ours! 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: molten_lava


If you felt it was wrong, you have every right to say that...but don't you think Mishti behaved a bit immaturely- calling people bashers when in fact this used, misused and abused term no where fits in this scenario and then cribbing about not giving spoilers anymore? Now if it's the age factor, it's fine and even if it not, then also it's her right to deal with things her own way. But how do you justify her "fans" forcing people to apologize? It's a free world, right?


I will only concentrate on the bold part. Fans have a right to make a post about whatever this wish to, just like anyone else in the forum. But you, have a choice. Those fans are not holding you at gunpoint and asking you to apologise right? So basically, 'forcing' does not come into effect. You are free to turn a blind eye to those posts.
Again I'm not justifying people who ask people to apologise nor am I asking you all to apologise. As you said, it's a free world.
@bold- Just like them bashing didn't come into effect there...Asking is not bashing...Well forgive me if I don't know how to use English words that well...It's okay dear if you're stating what you feel. We're doing the same and after all..you only said that it's a free world. So why is asking her wrong?
If they're not forcing then how are we bashing? We haven't verbally, physically or mentally abused anyone. Well, if criticism can't be taken in the right manner then hell will surely break loose. It's all about how the other person takes it. We might not think of it that way while stating it but it might be taken in a wrong manner. Now how is that our fault..please tell.. 😊

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