This is ASR's 'style of wooing'? It sucks. - Page 26

what do you mean grand style of wooing from ASR. do you mean the cheesy way that most heroes do it or with material things. cause the black mailing and stuff you mentioned is i suppose his way of doing it.

actually i would have liked for him to go through a redemption track or at least an episode where he realized the mistakes he made and the pain he caused khushi as well a the unfair treatment he gave her even after she saved him, like he never learn his lesson or empathized with khushi. but if that happened and khushi forgave him then wouldn't the wooing scene be boring or dull, because she has accepted him. maybe the redemption will come along side or a little after him wooing khushi, if he is able do that. if his wooing plan backfires he may begin to realize his mistakes especially if khushi stands up and scolds him to put in a way. what i mean to say is that his plan will not work on khushi this time around and that may be the trigger that will cause a redemption track in him or something. to make him rea;ize this time he can't go back to his normal self with so many unresolved issues.

if there is a redemption track how would you suggest it go, as in story wise and events and stuff. do you want arnav groveling or just apologizing to khushi. would it be enough of a story so as not to seem to be dragged so you or anyone else don't complain about the dragging.

you know what, wait and watch. maybe they haven't skipped the redemption part and they show it soon.

the cv's r have lost it but if that does annoy you or you just don't like the current rack then there is actually plenty or other romantic comedy or just romantic dramas to watch. if you would like i could suggest some if you don't mind if they are in different languages but they have subs. so at least you can wait it out but have something to enjoy at the same time to fill the void. mind you its in seasons and some have one. my sig is one of the drama. don't worry lets hope they do get back on track and they do, do a redemption track for arnav cause it feels like something is missing from the whole equation and i do agree with you to some extent.

interesting point of view, that is your comment

Originally posted by: bong.girl

This post is for my dear friends who think we are being unreasonable and extremely critical about the show. This is for them who don't mind the mindless tracks, indifferent character butchering as long as they get their daily dose of 'hottie'and 'Sarun' Rabba Veying, that is "romancing". We all know that art imitates life. And vice versa. So there must be a common ground where reel and real becomes one. Now you as a woman who is independent, sensible and with a mind of your own, how would you like if your husband/boyfriend/partner manipulates you every step of the way, humiliates you in fron of all and sundry. Accuses you of seducing his BIL, basically hurls insults and accusations without a second consideration. Rips your dignity, butchers your character and leaves you bleeding, mentally, physically and emotionally drained. After all this, he comes and forcibly feeds you a piece of cake to celebrate your birthday and wants you to be his wife in every sense of the word. Tries to "woo" you by twisting your arm. What would you do girls? In India sadly there are many such sadistic men which is why " domestic Violence" is rampant out here. And sadly women do agree to those atrocious barbaric terms out of social pressure. Now what kind of message are we sending into society? Bear everything because your husband loves you in his own sweet way as and when he wishes. Khushi had been going through a lot of mental and emotional torture and in some degrees physical too. Arnav 's cave man tactics of shoving and pinning and twisting your arm literally would be considered Domestic Violence. Any kind of "force" is a big no no. I enjoy the arrogant devil of hero in ASR too but he should draw a line somewhere. I want the old story line back where the spunky khushi never shied away from giving him a piece of her mind. ASR was a man and she his conscience and after a heavy duty struggle He did what his conscince told him as right. I want them back. Not the caricatures please.

oh no i double posted, sorry

i like how you put this and for people to really put themselves going through that. just reading it and imagining it myself, it actually does feel really bad, frustrating and exhausting. i would be annoyed as hell if my boyfriend or husband did something like that(although i have neither). i agree he should draw the line somewhere. but this show isn't about any social message or claimed to be although i do get that point you made as many girls ideals in romance and in a men may be influenced into thinking this is romantic and passionate. take twilight for example how relationships broke cause their partner was perfect like Edward or 50 shades of grey where pleasure comes from pain literally and emotionally and people or should i say women want that. if you know 50 shades then you know what i'm talking about. but its honestly peoples choice and how the makers want to play it out. but even back then ASR was still forceful and many people on here complained like no tomorrow

Originally posted by: bong.girl

This post is for my dear friends who think we are being unreasonable and extremely critical about the show. This is for them who don't mind the mindless tracks, indifferent character butchering as long as they get their daily dose of 'hottie'and 'Sarun' Rabba Veying, that is "romancing". We all know that art imitates life. And vice versa. So there must be a common ground where reel and real becomes one. Now you as a woman who is independent, sensible and with a mind of your own, how would you like if your husband/boyfriend/partner manipulates you every step of the way, humiliates you in fron of all and sundry. Accuses you of seducing his BIL, basically hurls insults and accusations without a second consideration. Rips your dignity, butchers your character and leaves you bleeding, mentally, physically and emotionally drained. After all this, he comes and forcibly feeds you a piece of cake to celebrate your birthday and wants you to be his wife in every sense of the word. Tries to "woo" you by twisting your arm. What would you do girls? In India sadly there are many such sadistic men which is why " domestic Violence" is rampant out here. And sadly women do agree to those atrocious barbaric terms out of social pressure. Now what kind of message are we sending into society? Bear everything because your husband loves you in his own sweet way as and when he wishes. Khushi had been going through a lot of mental and emotional torture and in some degrees physical too. Arnav 's cave man tactics of shoving and pinning and twisting your arm literally would be considered Domestic Violence. Any kind of "force" is a big no no. I enjoy the arrogant devil of hero in ASR too but he should draw a line somewhere. I want the old story line back where the spunky khushi never shied away from giving him a piece of her mind. ASR was a man and she his conscience and after a heavy duty struggle He did what his conscince told him as right. I want them back. Not the caricatures please.

Thank you for your kind words Vibha and Bila. I think we all have said enough already. I was just playing the Rabba Ve music and I realised that I loved the old RV more, the one without the lyrics. I somehow feel the words kind of ruin the magic of a RV moment. Also, the Nand Kishor act of buaji is becoming repetitive, boring and predictible. I don't even find it funny nowadays with that weird music as BG. I want a rewind button so that we can go back to that golden era of shimmering sexual tension between the leads and when we actually had a story going.

Originally posted by: bong.girl

Thank you for your kind words Vibha and Bila. I think we all have said enough already. I was just playing the Rabba Ve music and I realised that I loved the old RV more, the one without the lyrics. I somehow feel the words kind of ruin the magic of a RV moment. Also, the Nand Kishor act of buaji is becoming repetitive, boring and predictible. I don't even find it funny nowadays with that weird music as BG. I want a rewind button so that we can go back to that golden era of shimmering sexual tension between the leads and when we actually had a story going.

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

You know lovie this the issue that I have as well that why romantize violence? generally speaking if this happened in real life can you imagine a poor lady?

The thing Khushi doesnt know he has changed, heck even I dont know if Harvard has changed...when he found out the truth about khushi and after the hug and all he blasted her and then instead of apologising throws contract in her face and then instead of saying birthday wishes gives her gifts...twisted indeed...wooing at its epic fail!!!!

If my husband gave me a 25carat diamond and no birthday wishes, trust me that diamond will be crushed and put in his coffee...not joking because for me that is a big deal...dont care for diamonds ...and thats why I understand where CV's want khushi's mindset to be at...

Now he wants to play business business which he sucks at but whatever...to be honest in reality I dont think men like Harvard would surivive in society...purely because there arent many females like khushi...power yes...but then you have to realise that even with power you can only go so far...

Now to the people who think we ought to watch other shows, I have only one thing to say to them...why dont they read other posts???they cannot help but read our posts then why do they in their naivety think that we will watch other shows???

I love what you have written and it certainly is a food for thought but I truly think that CV's are sadist and they love this plight of female...sad society indeed

res.

Ufff...u ppl always find some thing to complain...kitna rotay ho...har waqt...har baat par...kabhi toh khush hua karo...mushkil hai but try 2 b mature n sensible

Cry cry itna cry karte hai hum kyun? 😆 go ASR go! Break the woman' spirit. Make her beg on her knees. She deserves worse for her ego but ASR being a romantic fool still loves the egoistical woman. Oh ASR you deserve better. You must have some Khushi. My heart bleeds for you. You are going through so much pain and angst. People are morons. They just don't feel for you. Oh I wish I could make people see your love, your pain, your internal struggle. I love you ASR! I do! I do! I do!

Originally posted by: bong.girl

Cry cry itna cry karte hai hum kyun? 😆 go ASR go! Break the woman' spirit. Make her beg on her knees. She deserves worse for her ego but ASR being a romantic fool still loves the egoistical woman. Oh ASR you deserve better. You must have some Khushi. My heart bleeds for you. You are going through so much pain and angst. People are morons. They just don't feel for you. Oh I wish I could make people see your love, your pain, your internal struggle. I love you ASR! I do! I do! I do!