This is ASR's 'style of wooing'? It sucks.

Originally posted by: bong.girl

This post is for my dear friends who think we are being unreasonable and extremely critical about the show. This is for them who don't mind the mindless tracks, indifferent character butchering as long as they get their daily dose of 'hottie'and 'Sarun' Rabba Veying, that is "romancing". We all know that art imitates life. And vice versa. So there must be a common ground where reel and real becomes one. Now you as a woman who is independent, sensible and with a mind of your own, how would you like if your husband/boyfriend/partner manipulates you every step of the way, humiliates you in fron of all and sundry. Accuses you of seducing his BIL, basically hurls insults and accusations without a second consideration. Rips your dignity, butchers your character and leaves you bleeding, mentally, physically and emotionally drained. After all this, he comes and forcibly feeds you a piece of cake to celebrate your birthday and wants you to be his wife in every sense of the word. Tries to "woo" you by twisting your arm. What would you do girls? In India sadly there are many such sadistic men which is why " domestic Violence" is rampant out here. And sadly women do agree to those atrocious barbaric terms out of social pressure. Now what kind of message are we sending into society? Bear everything because your husband loves you in his own sweet way as and when he wishes. Khushi had been going through a lot of mental and emotional torture and in some degrees physical too. Arnav 's cave man tactics of shoving and pinning and twisting your arm literally would be considered Domestic Violence. Any kind of "force" is a big no no. I enjoy the arrogant devil of hero in ASR too but he should draw a line somewhere. I want the old story line back where the spunky khushi never shied away from giving him a piece of her mind. ASR was a man and she his conscience and after a heavy duty struggle He did what his conscince told him as right. I want them back. Not the caricatures please.