IP REDUX ; Pandora's Box !! - Page 2

I liked today's episode, one push was required for Arnav and Khushi both to have that much needed argument where Arnav blurts out part reason.

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How we see a Full Circle happening here, How they had started with a marriage when they started appreciating one another & how at this another wedding, they are starting to understand each other, today when the scene opened, I loved the way Arnav had the flashback abt Khushi, I mean he is still connected to her, her tears, since the start of the series they hv shown Arnav get ruffled by Khushi's tears though he nvr has understood the reson for it yet he still feels the pangs. though he himself told her the tears will not work at him anymore, loved the file scene reflecting how Truth is often is one's reach yet we are so engrossed in other things that we skip the truth, similarly for Arnav.

As proclaimed even after a fortnight the mission VERITAS pursues in the Gupta house: Here is the man who finds himself oscillating between two extremes - emotion and rationality. The same man juggling in finding the fulcrum to balance his unconditional love and undisputed aversion towards the same person. Here is the man who always desolating in the social gathering of people but accommodating to remove the malice of the civic society failures.

This the painstaking effort that our Arnav Singh Raizada understanding life eluded from the ivory towers to the life of a plebeian.

A war between emotion and rationality:

It was excruciating - ASR was going through when his lovely lady was explaining the intricacies of wedding trousseau. Slowly and meaningfully as he was trying to regain his lost composure and coy himself in the private chambers of his heart. The moment Buaji gave him the file; he was trying to find the other important file. Within fraction of seconds - the victim repeatedly victimized just by a single thought by the man ' Khushi the culprit hide my important file. That is irony - even a miniscule of trust is missing in this powerful relationship.

A slight ecstasy in finding the file, verifying the content and irritated by his thoughts of wronging his wife made his attention divert to understand the intimate world of his wife. He already has one overt nemesis - Salman Khan that is not challenging his position but yes, he finds again the name of his covert nemesis - Shyam Manohar Jha - openly in war with him in the pretext of the gift wrap carefully under the wraps of his wife's belongings. Shyam Manohar Jha - the name he wants to mitigate but unfortunately handles the coveted trophies of his existence. (His sister and his wife).

Where do you find rationality, he clouded in emotion - he has no requirement just one layer of rationality, he is within the reach of conquering the paradise lost. Here he voluntaries to elevate the misunderstanding.

A war between unconditional love and undisputed aversion:

Arnav's tangent:

Unconditional love: The women who entered the deepest point of his heart 'drawn for her innocence, nave, ebullience, beauty and spirit of Samaritan. By providence, he met her but he became subservient to conquer a mere innocent smile on her face. He treasured to protect her in all the woe of life.

Undisputed Aversion: A life without her is a living hell but living with her is worst than hell. The infamous terrace scene is grueling his senses of betrayal, deceptiveness, double timing him and ready to seek extra-martial relationship with his Jijajee. The angst to feel her presence in front of him in her home after seeing the gift wrapper with Shyam's tag infuriated his senses. He longing from her is at lest likeness instead of love.

Just this point I will speak from the Khushi's tangent:

Unconditional love: This man always remained an enigma in her eyes but at every odd circumstance there, he arrives as her protector. His proximity made her feel the seasons of human behaviour ' happiness, pain, dilemma and challenges. Unable to comprehend the reason for his contractual marriage ' she took all the possible routes to reach out to his destination. The motive bringing him to her maternal home has the same notion.

She remained drawn the way he was treating her ' Golgappa scene, adjusting the ladder, ready to share the bed space, buying food for the family, replete the provisions for home, adjusting to the middle class norm of life without any qualms.

Undisputed Aversion: The same man shows the other side ' the undisputed aversion. The despair and anguish to decimate her existence, make her vulnerable by throwing her out in open air, denial to give her the status and dignity of wife.

She very well knew that her prince and beast remains the same ' she cannot search any thoroughfare. She became so accustomed to his mood swings ' the very look of him, made her realise he is not in his moods. She wanted to know the reason for his "Mujhe Par Yek Meharbani Kyoon"

A war between the customs torn civil society and malice torn civic society:

Talents are best nurtured in solitude but character is best formed in the stormy billows of the world - von Goethe :

A man who is nonchalant to the happenings at homewant to escape from the self-inflicted torture was packing his things. The non-essential talk according to him by the Gupta ladies and Bride's mother made him charter to the surrounding. Yes, the very same wedding ambience that always made him crosses the Rubicon :

- His sister's wedding made him lose his mother and stopped an imminent wedding. He lost his childhood and grew manifold to the harsh realities of life.

- The Wedding of Payal and Aakash made him marry an innocent girl and tainted her image irrevocable in the family and society. Here he broke the sanctity of the institution of wedding and lost the trust of the women he loved and family.

- The wedding of Preethika : made him exhibit his leadership qualities

Key performance Indicators of AR Designs :

Leadership and Learning and indispensable to each other: John F. Kennedy :

Yes, Leadership and Learning goes hand and glove. He learned the dire strait the family is put into, the pain and travails of the struggling middle class of the social fabric. His algorithm that one of his employees is getting married made him take the lead. From his routine help from Aman he handled the situation.

- He entered the zone that he want to distance himself addressing the bride groom family ' "I am Arnav ' Khushi's husband" ' Wow ' never used his strong family name. Probably, we can call him Mr. Arnav Kumar Gupta.

- Knew that his wife words with have no impact to the avaricious groom family, he did not want anyone to humiliate her. He took control and asked her to go and get the ice cream.

- When the Bride groom mama requested him to teach his wife etiquette ' his words were "Main Koshish Karunga" ' very powerful words ' he is trying to understand her, to make her understand him ' make themselves understands the predicaments they are in

What did he do? Did he pacify the groom's family with the best offering of the market ' not he chooses his employee to discharge the lessons. He did not hesitate to terminate the services of the employee who was anticipating a promotion. What were the his Key Performance Indicators : Kaam karne ki chahat (the unsated desire to work) ; Kaam karne ki Kabliyat (the ability to work) ; Apne baat ko kehne ka confidence (to have confidence in his beliefs) ' tum main yeh teeno nahi (you do not possess any of these abilities).

Jab tum apni wife ko respect and usko family ko respect karna nahi seekh jaate, meri company main tumhari koi zarurat nahi hai.(Unless you respect your wife and her family there is no requirement for your services in my organization).

Well, my Arnav singh Raizada, the love of your life did the same - she chooses the same path. At the pre-destined day that you met her in your Sheeshmahal she came to see her would be Jijajee.

Can we ask - did you respect your wife? Do you respect her family?

Did he respect his wife ? There should not be an iota of doubt in his caliber of respecting his wife. What he confronted with her was within the four walls never in public arena.

- He was ready to walk out the home with Khushi when his family was reluctant to accept her.

- After the "Mou Dikhai" when Mami ji and Nani ji were fighting with her for the bad name she caused to them in the society, it was Arnav who restored the status of his relationship ' Maine Shadi Ki Hai ' Jaiyis Rishtha Hai (I have married her and it is legitimate relationship)

- When Khushi was not prepared to return RM from the temple, he declared to the devotees that she is his legal wife and lifted her all the way to the car.

- During the Heer-Ranjha scene ' he came to the stage to enact the role of Ranjha.

Did he respect her family? Do we need to discuss it. We are experiencing the respect he is bestowing on them.

I have spoken more than the requirement.

Hi Sathya, Doodsie, Anna, Pam, Swetha,Payasa, Shanthi,Bush, Zu, Vasiraju, Somy and each and every reduxian ... I'll wait for you all.

Anna i was just watching the episode while reading ur analysis 😃
One question why does Arnav shout at kushi in front of the guests ??

Originally posted by: prathikri

Anna i was just watching the episode while reading ur analysis 😃
One question why does Arnav shout at kushi in front of the guests ??