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tanthya

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hi Sunshine's,

A beautiful episode !!

When I first saw the episode esp Arnav opening that drawer I was strongly reminded of Pandora's box ...cos in a way..Mondays episode saw the opening of the cause, the root of this anger and hurt ..

Second, I was flummoxed on what to write about since we have thrashed about almost everything .. REDUX has spoken about how this is the reconnection of Chotte with Arnav , Heart Vs & Class, Khushi's understanding of Arnav and today's episode was the reiteration of the same but done in a sensitive manner ..

Kudos to Barun for his wonderful acting y'day .. the way he switched roles with such an ease , no wonder half the forum went into mourning when news came that Barun has allegedly signed a movie bec Y'day Barun showed that he makes ASR alive ...Applause to the actors who played Nandini, Maamaji and also Sanaya for that brief second by the door when she comprehends that Arnav is upset .

The episode began with search, Search for something that Arnav has in his possession , his search yields him a unexpected bounty, a painful reminder. A memory which he had been suppressing now bursts out as he finds another memorabilia showing off the love story of Khushi and Shyam !! Arnav's happy bubble bursts and the anger bursts ..but he controls himself now is not the place nor the time for him to react ..

Redux had always said that Arnav's is crossing the bridge and his search for truth will bring him to Gupta's..The place where it all began !!..Today we saw him getting one piece of evidence that Shyam was a known entity in Gupta's house .. He should have begun to wonder whether Gupta's are aware of Khushi's dalliance and If so , how did they accept it.. His mind a whirlpool of confusion but unfortunately his anger and hurt obliterates his rational mind .. A possessive and jilted lover reacts rather than Arnav Singh Raizada..

Loved the subtle touch of the CV's.. Arnav who had begun to peel off the layers , who had begun to emerge now puts back his vest , the mask is back in place..

The Baraat comes , nitpicking , cribbing about all the arrangements made so far, barbed words belittling the Girl's side ...It was a well etched picture of the middle class !! The humiliation n the scorn accepted meekly by the girls side depicts a true picture .

Dil chota nahi karthe & Babua ,Tum teekh hona ; 2 statements !!
One is when Khushi is agitatedly cooking in the kitchen, Buaji comes in fretting that Arnav adamantly refuses to join the celebrations, Khushi comforts Buaji and tries to divert her anxiety by pointing out that Arnav is busy .. Buaji immediately picks on the vibe and probes Khushi , Khushi as usual puts up the wall but not before we understand that her heart has been crumpled yet again by Arnav's bitter words ..simple sentence but giving a ample display of Khushi's tortured heart, hurt emotions and her unceasing love for the man who hurts her at every turn.

The second statement by Garima ...Only a mother can know the inner turmoil of its child even when the child maintains a stoic facade , Garima proved it today when she instinctively realized that something is not right with Arnav , who dared to enquire and was met with courtesy, pilteness and reserved affection...Loved Sobti here !!

As i had mentioned in corn Mother's...The CV's have divided the duties of this two ladies quite neatly... If Buaji will be the messenger who understands Khushi n will highlight and describe Khushi's nature leading to his better understanding then Garima will be the mother who will understand Arnav , even the things unspoken by him and will guide her daughter into better understanding him as well as become the mother to Arnav..

We had mentioned that the Gupta house will be the healing place for Arnav, where Chotte will emerge and his wounds tended coz until Chotte heals Arnav will not be a complete man , The festering wound will always be stinging him .. Today we saw the pandora's box opened .. Chotte emerging and reacting to the taunts thrown on the girl's side ...He was a helpless bystander then , but not today !! he will pick up the cudgels on behalf of the girl, fight for his sister, the sister whom he could not save on that fateful day will get justice through this girl, he will not let this girls life to be trampled and scarred ...Today we are witnessing the first outline of the warrior who will fight for justice, for rights without involving emotions .

Girls, Much Though I would love to write and elaborate on this, I simply am not in the mood to write , Please forgive me, I know I am letting u down .. i'll try to make it up in todays episode .. Feel free to ask anything and I'll try my best to reply..

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Posted: 13 years ago

Sorry Reduxians, me completely was stuck with work. Today spare me please. I'll club both the episodes in the analysis tomorrow. 😃

Sorry once again to keep you waiting... Hugzzz 🤗

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Tanthya,

** Will wait for your analysis**

Below is my analysis:

A wedding day for a girl, is one of those days that she's waits for the whole of her life. Its the day she has been dreaming about, has been planning for since a very young age. She dreams about this perfect groom, perfect family, perfect day which is filled with happiness, a day when she is going to embark on a new life. The wedding day is the most difficult day for a girl because she is leaving the known and entering the unknown, a place which is going to be so different from her home but is now her home. She knows she has to walk into the unknown, to place which is going to be her new home, a place about which she has no knowledge, no idea, but only knows that she has to make her parents proud of herself. Her only hope, her only strength is that she will have her prince and his family alongside her to help her.

But in India, for most of the girls reality is so very different. For them since the day the wedding is fixed, it becomes a time of curse and guilt because they see their parents scrambling to fulfill their each and every wish of the groom's parents, they see their parents struggling to fulfill each and every demand of the bridegroom's family. The girl sees her parents bowing their heads, getting insulted but parents do not utter any word, they bear everything because they do not want anything to hamper the life of their princess. The girl on the most important day of a life witnesses everything but she is unable to do anything because she does not want any of her actions to reflect as one more insult for her parents. She sits there wishing that she was never been born, she sits there wishing that the concept of wedding was never created, she sits there wishing that the person who is going to be better half protect her parents, behave as the prince that she has always dreamed about,she sits there realizing that she will be leaving her home, she will be leaving her parents under a huge burden of debts, and she sits there understanding that she will carrying a huge burden of responsibilities herself of ensuring that none of her actions result in her parents being disgraced, she sits realizing that her new journey is not going to be a bed of roses she dreamed of but full of thorns and she sits there as a silent spectator screaming for justice,

Arnav recognized all this when he saw Preethika today , he recognized her dreams because he himself had shared those dreams with his sister's. He recognized her pain because he had shared that pain when his sister's marriage had broken the first time. He heard those screams because he had witness them before and carried its burden. He had paid an hefty price for those broken dreams and he wanted to fix things today. His actions today were not for Khushi, or the Guptas, they were just for the girl and her family and for that time long back when he was unable to do anything. This was not the first time he has saved a marriage, he has done this twice before and he will do it many more times in the coming future.Whether he will be successful in saving his own marriage, only time will tell.

"Patni or uski family ki izzat karna sikho"

Arnav has always believed in marriage and today proved that he believes that it is husband's duty to protect his wife and her family. Its husband's duty to ensure about his wife's happiness by being the pillar which will protect her from all evil even if the bad is done by is own family. This justifies three things today,

First, Arnav has a very strong sense of right and wrong. He has always been able to damp his emotions to do what is right. Today we saw him doing exactly that. He kept his anger aside to solve a problem faced by total strangers, a marriage of a person he has never met before in his life. This proves that Arnav Singh Raizada would never break a marriage and he would definitely not stop a marriage on its wedding day. When times come, Khushi will realize this and she will know that he is a person who believes in marriage for life. She will understand that his values and his beliefs will never allow him to break one marriage for another. She will know that whatever his claims,he would have not stopped Payal's marriage on that fateful day and nor will he ever break her marriage. She will realize that he is a person who will go to any lengths to protect a marriage and she will understand that all his drastic actions against her were because he thought she was the person responsible for breaking a marriage and especially of that person who is the most important part of his life.

Second, is the reason for why he cannot forgive Khushi. His sister marriage was proof for him, a hope that there is happily every after,it was proof of his beliefs in the institution of marriage. For him, it defined everything he believed in marriage but his illusions were broken by none other than the person who he thought had the same beliefs like him that marriage is for life, for ever and it is the most scared relationship in the world. Thus, she is a bigger culprit is his eyes because she demanded that Shyam break his marriage vows and leave his wife. She demanded him to break the very thing, the very promise which Arnav believes a husband has to make and follow for the whole of his life, that is to protect the wife from all bad and ensure her happiness at all times. For him, it was an unforgivable sin that she committed on that day and this is why he cannot forgive her or forget her words.

Third, He believe that one should protect his wife and her family and in the past we have seen him doing this. Whatever his personal relationship with Khushi inside their room, he has always protected her from his family, he has always protected her from the bad, be it Shyam or the general public on their Mooh-Dikhayi. Yes, he has insulted their marriage many times inside their room, and he will repent for that but all his actions have always been because, he thinks, that she is not faithful to their marriage and is having an affair with his brother in law. Also, he has never been disrespectful towards her family. Even today, being on the height of his anger, he was calm in front of Gayatri and Buaji. He was only angry towards Khushi because, according to him only she is responsible for her actions and not her family. But as Redux has been predicting from a long time that when Arnav realizes the truth, the whole truth, the real truth about the true face of Shyam, he will be their warrior, he will stand next to Khushi, he will stand in front of the Guptas not only because it will be the right thing to do but because he believes it to be his duty and his responsibility and that is, to protect and respect your wife and her family.

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--Anna--

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hola people 🤗

Sathya - I will wait for you analysis but I hate waiting!!! 😛

What to say about today's episode - one of the best episodes yet again! Everything Just Perfect!! ⭐️ I believe I am repeating this quite often these days but I cannot help it. These days the episodes leave me wanting for more and more and everytime it ends - I end up being disappointed and nothing else. But when I think of the episode, I cannot help but be happy.

Arnav's guilt and regret and the Misunderstanding

If there is something that I like about Arnav Singh Raizada that is that he regrets what he has done and is guilty about them (and I know I sound a broken record when I keep saying this). Nevertheless he saw Khushi in pain when her friends talked about their marriage and he realized his mistake. He realized how he had shattered her dreams, how he had trampled on her hopes and how he had not cared for a single moment about what the sindoor and mangalsutra must have meant for her. His realization was not dependent on what he thought of her and Shyam relationship but on what he had done to her - to the girl for whom he secretly harbours the feeling of love.

Then comes the scene when he looks for the missing file and realizes that Khushi may have hid it somewhere like she promised to do. He goes on his mission to search when he finds the file with himself. Isn't this is what is happening!? The truth is in front of his eyes - its right there if he would be careful with Khushi's words - if he would notice her actions - but no - he has turned a blind eye to everything in and around him and especially to what Khushi says and that is what is building this thing up. He trusts what he has seen in front of his eyes - he is taking everything on the face value and believing that. He is neither probing nor even trying to find the truth, even though it is right in front of him. All he needs to do is make an effort.

The Gift wrapping paper: When I saw it - I was like why was Khushi saving a wrapper and that too with a tag!? Then I realized that it is very common in middle class families to save the gift wrapping paper for future use and knowing Khushi she must have definitely kept it for that. But Arnav does not know that does he!? He has not lived in an atmosphere where you have to save every penny and utilize all these resources. Now, because he cannot understand these nitty-gritties - he misunderstood the whole thing. All he could see was that Shyam had gifted something to Khushi and she had kept the wrapper like a prized possession. That was when his mind went off to the terrace confrontation and again he believed what he saw. Coming to think of it, I think he is now more bothered about the lover in him than the brother in him. His possessiveness is growing.

The confrontations

Again a very nice confrontation scene and something tells me that had Garima not butted in, Arnav may have spilled something out. Nevertheless at this moment he just cannot face Khushi and does not want to see her face - because first he is guilty and secondly he cannot still accept that Khushi and Shyam are indeed having an affair. Every time he wants to think otherwise, there is a new thing that crops up in front of his eyes that changes his perspective about her and he holds her guilty. I will have to give Khushi that she understands when his mood changes and realizes that there is something that is bothering him. Just like he needs to probe further to clear his misunderstanding - so does she needs to probe him to an extent that she knows what his pain is and what he hides in his heart. She has started doing it in her own way - though kiddish but she has - and all we can hope is that it does yield some result.

"Respect"

Respect is a very strong word. We respect only few people and not everyone and that respect has to be earned - it cannot be just there. Does Arnav respect the Gupta ladies!? Yes he does. Does he respect Shashi ji!? Yes he does. Does he respect Khushi!? Yes and No. Does he have reason to respect Khushi as of now!? No. When Arnav needed to stand up for Khushi in front of the guests during the Muh ' dikhayi ceremony ' he did. He did do it for his family and somewhere for Khushi because he knew he was the one who had put her in such a situation. Overall in their personal relationship, he has crossed his boundaries and stripped her off any dignity that she has ' but other than 4 walls of their room, he has not crossed his limits persay. And moreover he has not disrespected her family deliberately.And mostly importantly he respects Khushi and her fighting spirit and that is what he has fallen in love with.

However, again, that is where this is leading to. When Khushi comes back - which she will when she learns about the whole misunderstanding - she will be the one who will face these people, she will be the one who will be questioned and she will be the one who will be pointed fingers at. That will be the moment when Arnav will be responsible for Khushi's and the Gupta's loss of respect, dignity and status in the society completely and then he will also be the one who will restore it back for them

Today he saw all the problems that lower 'middle class families could face. He realized how low could actually people fall for money and the disgust on his face was apparent. Here we realize that all the talk about money, class and status is nothing but on the face - he does not believe in them persay. Whatever he says is in anger and he does not mean it at all. That is the reason - when he realizes what was about to happen he goes onto correct it.

What was subtle about it - when he gets the call from Aman, he looks at Preeto the bride and for a moment sees the uncomfortable look on her face and is touched. Khushi comes right at him for supporting the groom clearly stating that he is like them and he does not answer yet again and states that he does not want to see her face. She retorts back at him and leaves as he clearly is disinterested and wants to focus on the groom - and that is what the pressing matter was then and there.

Arnav Singh Raizada always helps but never states that explicitly. In his own way he has solved the matter - by awakening the consciousness of the groom. He asked him to stand up for his wife and her family , something that Arnav would also do if something like this would have happened in public with the Gupta's.

Pointers :

1) Both Sanaya and Barun were Fabulous today

2) Barun looks good ' looks like he has got his break and is resting

3) I miss Shyam, again! Looks like I miss him a lot!

Favorite Character :

Arnav Singh Raizada!

All in all a good entertaining episode. Me loved it totally! Cannot wait for tomorrow! ;)

Love all :))

P.S : Thank you everyone for your b'day wishes!! I was not here online for the weekend but I did read all of them and replied to everyone that I got. Yet, Thank you so much! My b'day was awesome and your wishes just made it better! Thank yoU! 🤗🤗

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Nia

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Posted: 13 years ago

THE BATTLE BETWEEN HEART AND MIND

Mine eye and heart are at a mortal war,
How to divide the conquest of thy sight;
Mine eye my heart thy picture's sight would bar,
My heart mine eye the freedom of that right.
My heart doth plead that thou in him dost lie, -
A closet never pierced with crystal eyes -
But the defendant doth that plea deny,
And says in him thy fair appearance lies.

(~Shakespeare's Sonnet XLVI)

The above excerpt is from a sonnet by Shakespeare that talks about the eye and the heart sparring over ownership of love. The Eye "see's" the 'image' of 'love', while the Heart 'feels' the love. They war over which is more important, holding the image of love in ones eyes, or feeling the depth of love in ones heart.

If you take the above sonnet in context to Arnav's situation, then, the 'Mind' is a fair replacement for 'Eye'. What I'm trying to say is that, in Arnav's case, his 'Eyes' saw Shyam and Khushi together on the terrace - this 'image' immediately carved a deep impression in his 'Mind'. Arnav's mind has that scene embedded there and any slight reminder of it causes his mind to relive those painful moments of seeing the woman he loved in someone else's arms.

Let's go line by line of the sonnet to see how much it resembles the battle between Arnav's mind and Heart:

Mine eye and heart are at a mortal war: Arnav has been having a see-saw experience with his mind and heart ever since he got married to Khushi. If first his mind sees Khushi being at fault, then the next moment his heart shows him that Khushi is completely innocent. Examples of this happening are:

1. The Sethi brothers scene: Khushi jabbers nonsense in the important deal meeting as she had come to know that the Sethi brothers were frauds. Arnav was angry with her at first, but on coming to know that she did it to save his company he realized he was wrong in judging her.

2. Going with Shyam to the Chemist: Khushi on Anjali's request refused to let Arnav know that she had gone to the chemist with Shyam to get medicines for Anjali. Arnav, again, was livid at her but instantly went to rectify his mistake of unnecessarily berating her once Anjali herself told him about Khushi going with Shyam.

3. The stolen Car parts: Arnav thinks that Khushi stole the parts of his car as part of her prankster nature, but regrets pinning the blame on her after the Police tell him that they have recovered the car parts.

4. The File in the laptop bag: Arnav is unable to find the grey colour file anywhere and assumes that Khushi has hidden it somewhere, as she had told him that she would hide his stuff if he didn't agree to repair the mohalla's broken items. However, he finds the grey file in his laptop bag which he had overlooked at first. This lightens his anger toward Khushi and makes him realize that she was not at fault.

All the above instances show Arnav's mind refusing to let the heart see through the situation at first. His mind is always more at command than his heart in such instances. His mind is quick to register the happenings, the scenes, the perceptions - but his heart is reconciled only when a subsequent situation brings Khushi's innocence to the forefront. This has been happening quite frequently, and we see Arnav torn between believing his mind and believing his heart.

How to divide the conquest of thy sight:Arnav's mind and heart are on the war path between which 'sight' of Khushi to believe in. His mind tells him that Khushi is a cheater, a liar, a person with low morals. His heart on the other hand tells him that she is gentle, caring, innocent, naiive, and loving. Should he believe in what he 'saw' that night? Or should he believe 'the girl who forgets her own pain to alleviate other people's pain?'

Mine eye my heart thy picture's sight would bar, My heart mine eye the freedom of that right: The first line here says that, his eye would blind his heart from what he "see's". The second line says that, his heart would not give his mind that right to 'see' that picture. How true is that in Arnav's case!

His 'Mind' keeps blinding him from seeing Khushi as she really is - a caring girl who would never think of hurting or destroying anyone's life. His mind sees her only as a person out to demolish his sister's marriage. His 'Heart' on the other hand is engaged in stopping his mind from this very occupation. His heart is trying it's best to steer the mind away from believing the 'lies' and instead training Arnav to witness the depth of Khushi's genuineness.

My heart doth plead that thou in him dost lie, - A closet never pierced with crystal eyes - These lines say that, the Heart confesses that the 'true image' lies within it - the heart is a closet/private place where even the crystal/transparent eyes is unable to pierce.

The eyes, people say, are the windows to the soul. The eyes can see through lies, deceit, sorrow, pain, anger... but here, the eyes, are unable to see through the delicate weavings of the heart. So, Khushi's true character, her true innocence, her true self is known to Arnav's heart. But, his mind/eyes are unable to see that right now. his heart keeps telling him that Khushi is free of malice toward anyone, it keeps sending him clues to her innocence, his heart conveys the truth of Khushi to him innumerable times, and Arnav has started listening to his Heart.

But the defendant doth that plea deny, And says in him thy fair appearance lies.: The 'defendant' here is the 'Mind/Eyes' which rejects the Heart's plea of holding true feelings within it. The Mind says that the true character of 'love' is held in the Eyes. The 'appearance' of love belongs to the Eye/Mind alone and that love cannot be held by the Heart.

This connects well with Arnav's current situation. If the Heart keeps sending snapshots of Khushi's innocence then his Mind keeps reliving the 'terrace scene' - 'in him thy fair appearance lies'. Arnav's mind stores the 'image' of the 'terrace scene' and rejects his Heart's plea of seeing Khushi in a genuine light. Hid mind is adamant on believing what his 'eyes' saw that night, the 'fair/true' appearance of the girl who he loves.

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SUMMARY

Yesterday was a poignant episode with regards to Arnav's Mind vs. Heart clash. He is upset by the pain he has caused her by forcing her into marriage - thereby destroying her fairy-tale dreams of marriage. He is filled with regret and guilt as he considers what he has put her through. The fact that she has been hiding her pain with her laughter only stabs him harder.

Before he can get out of this pain, a situation is presented to him where he suspects Khushi of hiding his file. He is proved wrong in this prejudice of his when he finds the file in his laptop bag. In an instant his heart is reconciled that khushi, yet again, hasn't played around and that it was his oversight that led to him seeing her in a false light.

His heart is put to the test immediately after he is assured that Khushi is innocent - a gift wrapper with a gift tag that says - "Dear Khushi... With Love, From Shyam". Just as his Heart had started to believe, again, in Khushi, his Mind overpowers his Heart to prove that his Heart is still weak, still fragile, still hurting, still vulnerable.

Barun was remarkable in the action of crushing the wrapping paper - it signified the way Arnav's heart was crushed mercilessly in a slow, heart-wrenching, painful, crumbling, and tightly clutchedmethod.

We are beginning to see Arnav restraining his impulses these days. Khushi enquires about the reason behind his anger, but is told to go out of the room before he could 'do anything he would regret' - okay he didn't say that in actual words, but that's what he implied.

Arnav has learned by now that his Mind is betraying him with regards to Khushi's character. He can't put his finger on it yet, but he is aware that he is mistaken about Khushi's nature. His gut feeling is churning confused thoughts in him - his Mind's 'sights' about Khushi is attacked by his Heart's 'encounters' with the true Khushi.

This is why he asks her to go out before he can say or do anything that he may regret later. He has faced so many 'regret incidences' regarding Khushi now, that he is no longer sure whether to believe his Mind.

However, pushed by Khushi to know the reason behind his anger, he is about to let her know when they are disturbed twice - first by the 'dhols' and then by 'Garimaji'. This is extremely significant of the fact that we have another occurrence of Arnav probably coming to face with something regarding Shyam-Khushi, and will either blast on his own, or will lay all bare if Khushi forces him to say it.

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Loved the episode, except for the annoying Mama-Mami, but that was required. Loved Barun and Sanaya - excellent portrayals by both of the hurt, anger, frustration toward each other. It was also admirable to see Arnav keeping his hurt and pain aside to help the Gupta's friend - brilliant touch by the CV's on Arnav's character!! 👏

P.S: I apologize for not posting my analysis on Friday - had sudden outdoor plans on the weekend and was difficult to reach out to the internet.

Love,

Nia 😊

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anjani-pagli

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Posted: 13 years ago

"Communication Problem"

The only thing that came to my mind after seeing the episode was "communication problem" between Khushi and Arnav😆

It reminded me of an old movie wherein, lead pairs, although in love with each other, lived in separate realms!

One being in love with a different avtaar of the person he loved!

This resulted in doubt in another's mind, that probably, her love loved somebody else!!😕

Throughout the movie, they had real communication problem !

Today's song pick is a song from that movie!

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OQq2x8UlGoo[/YOUTUBE]

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The Moon is half now

Night is Mid now!

I so don't hope, our rendezvous, remain in-complete!

}

[Updated]

👍🏼Things i liked👍🏼

The situation created for lost file!

All things are in front of him, yet he is failing to uncover the truth!

He sees, whts hidden, whts not meant for him! Whts not truth but "half truth"👏

Loved Barun's acting here!

Its very difficult to do a solo acting! Barun did it!⭐️👏

Khushi, loved her OTT anctics. She is doing her best to protect the honor of her family!

Loved garima n buaji today!

But more than that I liked the girl's mom. She emoted really well!

The guy/groom is handsome indeed😉

Liked him!

Even though, ASR hated khushi and was nt ready to face her and show his anger, held himself and respected the situation!😳

I knew, ASR wud be the Boss!

Well he is The Boss😉😆

👎🏼Things I did not liked👎🏼

The tight script, which I was shouting from last week, went for vacation with me!😆

As MU clearance gt delayed, so did the script!

Its very aparent that they had to introduce a new track just to kill time

Still CVs did a convincing job, except for the fact, I thnk, they are over-utilizing same resources

They shld concentrate on different/parallel tracks!!

Its High time!!

With so much spoilers and new news, it seems, we need to chant "All is Well" all the time😆

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iritz

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hello All,

My first post on Redux thread, although I've been hooked on to this thread since I joined the forum a couple of months back ! Thanks to Tanthya, Doods, Anna, Sea.Nymph, Pam and others !

Coming to the episode, I will leave the metaphors to Doods and the analysis to Tanths, you guys do a brilliant job. Just wanted to put my point across !

For the past few days that Arnav is living at GH, we are seeing things from Khushi's point of view after a very long time perhaps and how could a girl like Khushi fall for THE ASR !

ASR's delicious looks and bank account would have made a Lavanya fall for him, but Khushi needs to see Arnav... the real Arnav. The one with a heart. Khushi is a girl who likes to make everyone happy, even if it is at the cost of unhappiness for herself. And that too without a complain ! We all know Arnav is head over heels in love with Khushi and we all know why ! But for Khushi to fall in love with The mighty ASR... she has to see the 'Arnav' hidden inside him. The GH track is for Arnav to be revelead to Khushi !

Just when we think, we know what is gonna happen, the PH throws a googly at us ! The sudden 'Gift Wrapper' part was BOOM... in your face bouncer ! 😛 Just when we thought the romance ❤️ is blooming... they threw in more misunderstanding ! Not that I'm complaining... as it will eventually lead to some progress in the story !

However, although the story continued from last week, but with sooo many people around ! I guess, the time devoted to so many extras was probably because of Sanaya's UK trip and hurried up shooting schedule, but my problem with today's episode was not the characters, but the actors... If only they had extras with better acting skills (except for the bride's mother - who was pretty good), it would have been perfect !!⭐️

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shreya_l

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Posted: 13 years ago

Pratyaksha mein jo hai ghataa, ateet ki smritiyan raheen hain sataa...

Kaam ne di hai dastak, dhoondhni hogi khoyi pustak!

Mithya-aarope se bhara hai man, kyun nahin karta hai ye chintan?

Uksaane ke liye jo tha kaha, vahi kyun man mein raha?

Vastu ke milne par hai santushti, soch mein thi koi truti,

Drishtigochar hain kuch tathya, parantu yeh adhoora satya...

Krodh ne phir machaya utpaat, kahin sab kuch kar na de samaapt...

Var paksh ka hua man se swagath,

Phir bhi...Sunaye gaye vadhu paksh to katu shabd!

Karta hai yeh chitt manan, kya dhan-samridhi hai sahi darpan?

Sanskaron ki kyun hoti nahin baat? Aadan-pradaan ki kyun bichayi jaati hai bisaat?

Kyun aisa hai padata sunana?

Prabandh nahin hain umdaa, isliye padega tumhe jhukna!!!!

Smaran aati hain woh smritiyan, karti hain jo hriday ko vichalit...

Par netron ne jo dekha drishya, kaise maanoon use uchit?

Kyun ho itne krodhit, kya ghata hai akalpit?

Sakhi ke prashn agar karein tumhe dukhi,

Uske liye main hoon kshamapraarthi!

Man hai atyant adheer, prashno ke na chalao tum teer,

Chali jao tum turant, mat karo mera maun bhang.

Meen-mekha se jab ho baat aarambh,

Maan sammaan par aati hai uske uparaant...

Apno par jab aati hai baat, man ho jaata hai ashaant.

Ichchha, kshamata, dhairya aur sammaan...

Inka na ho jinhe gyan, sahi nahin woh insaan.

Samaya thi aapath, isvash dulhe ko padhaya paath.

Khushi abhi bhi hai anabhigya, naye sambandh tootne ka use hai bhay!

[Pratyaksha = Present, Smriti = Memory, Mithya-aarope = Misunderstanding & Blame, Chintan = Think, Vastu = Object (file), Santushti = satisfaction, Truti = Fault, Drishtigochar = Perceptible, Tathya = Fact, Parantu = But, Krodh = Anger, Utpaat = Turmoil, Samaapt = End.

Paksha = Side, Chitt = Mind, Manan = Think, Dhan-samridhi = Being wealthy,

Darpan = Mirror, Sanskaar = Sacrament, Aadan-pradaan = Give & take,

Bisaat = Chessboard.

Smaran = Remember, Vichalit = Disturbed, Netra = Eyes, Drishya = Scene, Uchit = Right, Akalpit = unsuspected, Prashn = Questions, Kshamapraarthi = Sorry,

Atyant = Extremely, Adheer = Restless, Turant = Immediately, Maun = Silence,

Bhang = Break.

Meen-mekha = Criticize, Aarambh = Start, Uparaant = After, Ichchha = Desire,

Kshamata = Ability, Dhairya = Courage, Aapath = Urgent, Isvash =Because,

Paath = Lesson, Anabhigya = Unaware, Bhay = Fear]

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What happens when our thought process gets clouded by strong feelings which are a mixture. Both negative and positive to extreme end!!! You will be in no position to make a decision. Even though your heart tells you to think once again, that strong surge of heavy emotions will make you react suddenly. Thats what was happening with Arnav today. A moment came when he knew how wrong he was, that would have directed him to the right track.. just after a couple of minutes and there was just the opposite feeling. Feeling of betrayal..Right now its all a lover who is reacting. Brother has taken back seat for time being. The betrayal from the very person whom he loved and this feeling of love for the first time!!!

For Khushi we know the news will be like BAM.. here you go.. I married you because yada yada yada!!! For Arnav I am not sure how its going to be.. will it be a slow process or something which buaji or ammaji will tell him will trigger to connect the dots.. or after they reach RM he will slowly get to the root of this rut!!! I am going for option two.

I loved todays episode for many reasons. Best was buaji asking after Khushi if she has got something to do with damaadji's withdrawal...and Khushi's reaction. Waiting for Doods and Satya's analysis!!!

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Posted: 13 years ago

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As the waves toss the restless sea ,
Why is the heart full of turbulence ,
As the earth throbs with Pain ,
Why is my heart wounded again ...
-anon
As the " chot bare chotte" feels guilty about giving a " chot " to Khushi...why does he feel so guilty? Why is his heart full of turbulence ?...because of the battle between the his eyes,brain and his heart...

"life is Maya (illusion),it is a mirage ...whatever good we give this world is lost in the narrow alleys of life..."--anon
Arnav is lost between the images of his earlier Khushi...his "real" image ofKhushi ... Lastly the present Khushi who is busy in her pranks to irritate him...all these are images of his Khushi...are they really?
No or yes... His mind is churning... The brilliant mind finds an answer but to be disproved by his aching heart... The battle between anjal's chote and khushi's Arnav has taken a toll on ASR...
The moments he wants to trust his heart ,he finds the evidence of the wrapping paper with shyam's name on it...lost to reason his mind and the lover in him gives in to the pain tosentence Khushi"guilty"
The wound reopened awakens the anger at why Khushi is not able to love him.. Reopens the wound as to why he cannot love her..
Khushi comes into the room only to realize something has upset her"Arnav"which has set the angry ASR on her... She is trying to probe but to no avail...what a couple...what noise in communication.the heart wants to listen to each others inner voice and thought process but mind brands each other as ...
The mind vs heart lesson continues ...preeto wedding makes the lesson in the travails of middle class wedding complete for Arnav...lOved it that Arnav believes in respecting wife's parents...loved the lesson he imparted to his employee on respect and confidence in relationships...so we can expect that in future from Arnav too ...respect for in laws already present but respect for wife...along way to go.
I also liked how he swallowed his anger at his wife's treatment by preeto's inlaws so that the bride does not suffer.he does everything not for credit but for the righteousness that the issue stands for.Khushi misunderstanding it yet again...this is what I told about how the good we do gets lost when we allow our mirage of thoughts colour our senses

POINTERs
Grey file hidden in the bag not only rePresented the truth hidden but also the state of Arnav's mind.Arnav always thinks of issues in black or white but Khushi is dealt in his grey area...first in the
history of ASR
The gift wrapper what Arnav sees rePresents khushi to him .the shelf is his mind where he has found Khushi guilty with Shyam's name on it... He wants his name on that ...

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