A wedding day for a girl, is one of those days that she's waits for the whole of her life. Its the day she has been dreaming about, has been planning for since a very young age. She dreams about this perfect groom, perfect family, perfect day which is filled with happiness, a day when she is going to embark on a new life. The wedding day is the most difficult day for a girl because she is leaving the known and entering the unknown, a place which is going to be so different from her home but is now her home. She knows she has to walk into the unknown, to place which is going to be her new home, a place about which she has no knowledge, no idea, but only knows that she has to make her parents proud of herself. Her only hope, her only strength is that she will have her prince and his family alongside her to help her.
But in India, for most of the girls reality is so very different. For them since the day the wedding is fixed, it becomes a time of curse and guilt because they see their parents scrambling to fulfill their each and every wish of the groom's parents, they see their parents struggling to fulfill each and every demand of the bridegroom's family. The girl sees her parents bowing their heads, getting insulted but parents do not utter any word, they bear everything because they do not want anything to hamper the life of their princess. The girl on the most important day of a life witnesses everything but she is unable to do anything because she does not want any of her actions to reflect as one more insult for her parents. She sits there wishing that she was never been born, she sits there wishing that the concept of wedding was never created, she sits there wishing that the person who is going to be better half protect her parents, behave as the prince that she has always dreamed about,she sits there realizing that she will be leaving her home, she will be leaving her parents under a huge burden of debts, and she sits there understanding that she will carrying a huge burden of responsibilities herself of ensuring that none of her actions result in her parents being disgraced, she sits realizing that her new journey is not going to be a bed of roses she dreamed of but full of thorns and she sits there as a silent spectator screaming for justice,
Arnav recognized all this when he saw Preethika today , he recognized her dreams because he himself had shared those dreams with his sister's. He recognized her pain because he had shared that pain when his sister's marriage had broken the first time. He heard those screams because he had witness them before and carried its burden. He had paid an hefty price for those broken dreams and he wanted to fix things today. His actions today were not for Khushi, or the Guptas, they were just for the girl and her family and for that time long back when he was unable to do anything. This was not the first time he has saved a marriage, he has done this twice before and he will do it many more times in the coming future.Whether he will be successful in saving his own marriage, only time will tell.
"Patni or uski family ki izzat karna sikho"
Arnav has always believed in marriage and today proved that he believes that it is husband's duty to protect his wife and her family. Its husband's duty to ensure about his wife's happiness by being the pillar which will protect her from all evil even if the bad is done by is own family. This justifies three things today,
First, Arnav has a very strong sense of right and wrong. He has always been able to damp his emotions to do what is right. Today we saw him doing exactly that. He kept his anger aside to solve a problem faced by total strangers, a marriage of a person he has never met before in his life. This proves that Arnav Singh Raizada would never break a marriage and he would definitely not stop a marriage on its wedding day. When times come, Khushi will realize this and she will know that he is a person who believes in marriage for life. She will understand that his values and his beliefs will never allow him to break one marriage for another. She will know that whatever his claims,he would have not stopped Payal's marriage on that fateful day and nor will he ever break her marriage. She will realize that he is a person who will go to any lengths to protect a marriage and she will understand that all his drastic actions against her were because he thought she was the person responsible for breaking a marriage and especially of that person who is the most important part of his life.
Second, is the reason for why he cannot forgive Khushi. His sister marriage was proof for him, a hope that there is happily every after,it was proof of his beliefs in the institution of marriage. For him, it defined everything he believed in marriage but his illusions were broken by none other than the person who he thought had the same beliefs like him that marriage is for life, for ever and it is the most scared relationship in the world. Thus, she is a bigger culprit is his eyes because she demanded that Shyam break his marriage vows and leave his wife. She demanded him to break the very thing, the very promise which Arnav believes a husband has to make and follow for the whole of his life, that is to protect the wife from all bad and ensure her happiness at all times. For him, it was an unforgivable sin that she committed on that day and this is why he cannot forgive her or forget her words.
Third, He believe that one should protect his wife and her family and in the past we have seen him doing this. Whatever his personal relationship with Khushi inside their room, he has always protected her from his family, he has always protected her from the bad, be it Shyam or the general public on their Mooh-Dikhayi. Yes, he has insulted their marriage many times inside their room, and he will repent for that but all his actions have always been because, he thinks, that she is not faithful to their marriage and is having an affair with his brother in law. Also, he has never been disrespectful towards her family. Even today, being on the height of his anger, he was calm in front of Gayatri and Buaji. He was only angry towards Khushi because, according to him only she is responsible for her actions and not her family. But as Redux has been predicting from a long time that when Arnav realizes the truth, the whole truth, the real truth about the true face of Shyam, he will be their warrior, he will stand next to Khushi, he will stand in front of the Guptas not only because it will be the right thing to do but because he believes it to be his duty and his responsibility and that is, to protect and respect your wife and her family.
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