Personal attacks in Posts. Edited - Page 2

Originally posted by: rima

Guys I hate to preach.

But I just have to make this post and yyou have to read it.

This forum has all kinds of people do you know?

There are divorcees with painful stories, there are girls who are nursing broken hearts, there are even victims of hineous crimes like domestic abuse and rape. Don't ask me how I know. I do because some of them are friends with me in the forum.

Through this show and Khushi they are seeking some justice for their personal wounds. Not our problem I know. But be cautious that when they are outrageously against ASR they are just recting from a personal anguish. Don't bash them. Don't get personal.

There are also people who just think of this as as a serial. So when they are critical about Khushi and bash her or seem insensitive, it does not mean they are like that in real. They do not see any reason to be real about Khushi.

So guys there are both these types. Those who personally relate to the show and those who are totally impersonal.

Can we make room for both?

Can we refrain from attacking the real people for the reel?

You just love hitting nails on people's heads huh... I LOVE IT! :D Very true.

it is totally natural for people to relate with different characters in the show..Some can relate with khushi more and some can relate with arnav more..and thus they can have different views on this show..I completely understand if ppl bring their personal lives in between and try to seek justice but they should also understand that being so negative about male lead will not be helpful for them in enjoying the love story...After all this show is love story right...and it is not just about khushi or just about arnav..this show is about arshi..so please let not bring any prejudice in between..I definately agree with the fact that people are free to post what they feel like..and we should not get personal with them...coz real life ppl shud matter more than reel life characters..I wud definately not like to hurt any real being here...😛

I think pepole are forgetting the message this post is trying to give as personal attack has already begun; Irony is on this very thread.

Well said! Personal attacks are a strict no no. At the end of the day this is a fictional show. The characters aren't real no matter how well the actors portray them. It doesn't make any sense to bash REAL people with feelings for fictional characters.

Originally posted by: UltimateBarun

Ofcourse Rima!! there is a room here for everyone!!

I Know,,its a bitter reality of life ! people suffer!!

If one suffers due to a person who loved her dearly and cared for her, n she too cares for that person n loves that person, than that suffering is forgetful(specially if the suffering is under a MU), but if one suffers due to kameena and heinous person like Shyam than they have every rite to unleash the hatred!

I really dont want to share my personal life here,, but its is very very similar to that of Arhi(not the forced marriage Ofcourse),, thanks to CV's for ASR character, n Barun for making it look so reall, I got to understand my hubby to a great extent due to ASR!

SO as much as I drool over Sobti,,,I am loving my hubby even more due to Raziada! coz I understand him n his actions more now! ! thanks ASR! Luv u to the core!

Totally agree with u. Nice post.

Originally posted by: Dalmuthuya

You just love hitting nails on people's heads huh... I LOVE IT! :D Very true.

Agree
i got very angree on ppl here coz of bashing and fighting. Smtimes ppl makes topic just to get morw replies and that turns into bashing. Here we all know each other with usernames so no personal life here but agree with u in this. I really miss the forum when i joined it. All lovely and healthy discussion no bashing

Originally posted by: riti4u

it is totally natural for people to relate with different characters in the show..Some can relate with khushi more and some can relate with arnav more..and thus they can have different views on this show..I completely understand if ppl bring their personal lives in between and try to seek justice but they should also understand that being so negative about male lead will not be helpful for them in enjoying the love story...After all this show is love story right...and it is not just about khushi or just about arnav..this show is about arshi..so please let not bring any prejudice in between..I definately agree with the fact that people are free to post what they feel like..and we should not get personal with them...coz real life ppl shud matter more than reel life characters..I wud definately not like to hurt any real being here...😛