Personal attacks in Posts. Edited

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Guys I hate to preach.
But I just have to make this post and yyou have to read it.
This forum has all kinds of people do you know?
There are divorcees with painful stories, there are girls who are nursing broken hearts, there are even victims of hineous crimes like domestic abuse and rape. Don't ask me how I know. I do because some of them are friends with me in the forum.
Through this show and Khushi they are seeking some justice for their personal wounds. Not our problem I know. But be cautious that when they are outrageously against ASR they are just recting from a personal anguish. Don't bash them. Don't get personal.
There are also people who just think of this as as a serial. So when they are critical about Khushi and bash her or seem insensitive, it does not mean they are like that in real. They do not see any reason to be real about Khushi.
So guys there are both these types. Those who personally relate to the show and those who are totally impersonal.
Can we make room for both?
Can we refrain from attacking the real people for the reel?
For those saying I should not preach because I have done it too, I might have. I learnt from the mistake by interacting with them and understanding their view. So does it mean I can't prevent it from happening again. I will do everything I can to stop people from making this mistake. But from day one I refrain from personal attacks be it personal life o this forum. At the most I might have said my point aggressively to aggressors. But now I know even that is wrong
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Addie07 thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Totally agree with you.. if someone disagrees with the other there is a way of saying it without offending the other person... Sometimes members bash and healthy discussions get closed and sometimes members discuss and it is termed as bashing...
If only everyone could give their opinion without turning the forum into a battle field
rima thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lyraa99

Totally agree with you.. if someone disagrees with the other there is a way of saying it without offending the other person... Sometimes members bash and healthy discussions get closed and sometimes members discuss and it is termed as bashing...

If only everyone could give their opinion without turning the forum into a battle field

yes. i am also asking for understandg o these peopl's personal outlook which is different from the regular outlook. only if we understand we will not attack
Angels11 thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rima

Guys I hate to preach.

But I just have to make this post and yyou have to read it.
This forum has all kinds of people do you know?
There are divorcees with painful stories, there are girls who are nursing broken hearts, there are even victims of hineous crimes like domestic abuse and rape. Don't ask me how I know. I do because some of them are friends with me in the forum.
Through this show and Khushi they are seeking some justice for their personal wounds. Not our problem I know. But be cautious that when they are outrageously against ASR they are just recting from a personal anguish. Don't bash them. Don't get personal.
There are also people who just think of this as as a serial. So when they are critical about Khushi and bash her or seem insensitive, it does not mean they are like that in real. They do not see any reason to be real about Khushi.
So guys there are both these types. Those who personally relate to the show and those who are totally impersonal.
Can we make room for both?
Can we refrain from attacking the real people for the reel?



And u dear lady were the 1 who said i was inhuman & asked me 2 take a hike when i had replied on 1 of ur post saying i hate when KKG plays with ASR's food coz in real life i suffered frm PCOD & my diabetic FIL had to be hospitalized coz my MIL did the same tat ur dear fictional cartoon character KKG did. Even i was quoting frm my own painful experience (in case u dont know i suggest u google 4 PCOD) but i dont remember u being so understanding though i made it v clear that i am emotionally scarred by my personal experience.

I agree with ur 1st stmt. Even i hate when u preach!

Yes i c'd ve chosen 2 politely send a PM 2 u but that post of u still gives me painful memories & uncontrollable anger! And wen i saw this post of urs i just lost it!
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fan145 thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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peace peace peace thts wat i love !!!
rima thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angels11



And u dear lady were the 1 who said i was inhuman & asked me 2 take a hike when i had replied on 1 of ur post saying i hate when KKG plays with ASR's food coz in real life i suffered frm PCOD & my diabetic FIL had to be hospitalized coz my MIL did the same tat ur dear fictional cartoon character KKG did. Even i was quoting frm my own painful experience (in case u dont know i suggest u google 4 PCOD) but i dont remember u being so understanding though i made it v clear that i am emotionally scarred by my personal experience.

I agree with ur 1st stmt. Even i hate when u preach!

Yes i c'd ve chosen 2 politely send a PM 2 u but that post of u still gives me painful memories & uncontrollable anger! And wen i saw this post of urs i just lost it!

go ahead an lose it because it was the tone you used which triggered it. it is still rude. a personal bashing will be replied with personal bashing. i have no conscience about that. don't expect me turn the other cheek to you. i am not khushi
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ofcourse Rima!! there is a room here for everyone!!

I Know,,its a bitter reality of life ! people suffer!!

If one suffers due to a person who loved her dearly and cared for her, n she too cares for that person n loves that person, than that suffering is forgetful(specially if the suffering is under a MU), but if one suffers due to kameena and heinous person like Shyam than they have every rite to unleash the hatred!

I really dont want to share my personal life here,, but its is very very similar to that of Arhi(not the forced marriage Ofcourse),, thanks to CV's for ASR character, n Barun for making it look so reall, I got to understand my hubby to a great extent due to ASR!

SO as much as I drool over Sobti,,,I am loving my hubby even more due to Raziada! coz I understand him n his actions more now! ! thanks ASR! Luv u to the core!
Angels11 thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rima

go ahead an lose it because it was the tone you used which triggered it. it is still rude. a personal bashing will be replied with personal bashing. i have no conscience about that. don't expect me turn the other cheek to you. i am not khushi



And i dont suffer frm bipolar disorder or STML. Even i remember my post v clearly. I never made any personal attack on any1. I only said why i dint like the actions of a fictional character in a fictional show. Till date i ve never attacked any1 personally on this forum. It was u who started it by claiming that i am inhuman by supporting ASR & criticizing KKG. It was u who attacked me personally & not the other way round.

Yeah i totally agree with all ur points. U definitely ve no conscience!
rima thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#9

Originally posted by: Angels11



And i dont suffer frm bipolar disorder or STML. Even i remember my post v clearly. I never made any personal attack on any1. I only said why i dint like the actions of a fictional character in a fictional show. Till date i ve never attacked any1 personally on this forum. It was u who started it by claiming that i am inhuman by supporting ASR & criticizing KKG. It was u who attacked me personally & not the other way round.

Yeah i totally agree with all ur points. U definitely ve no conscience!

buddy let me get one thing straight here. it is you who came with this it manager and stuff like that and said all kinds of stuff. in this forum i am know for making peaceful posts. your tone was and still is aggressive. i closed the discussion. in real life too i hate conflicts and keep away. i said i won't cross paths with you but since we have, if i have hurt you sorry. but its not often what you say but how you say tht hurts. so no issues. let's bury it
Johny.S.Raj thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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completely agree with every point of urs

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